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Fair enough.
"Linda" wrote in message news:1108923385.283027027a9c2bbfc05f959340f2f1e4@t eranews... I have give some thought to my reply--before replying "Mark Probert" Mark wrote in message ... "Linda" wrote in message news:1108768054.2e4881b7dba1378a106d0ab62fe1b6d6@t eranews... "Mark Probert" Mark wrote in message ... "Linda" wrote in message news:1108686996.5561203591d82633bc7b5fb98433d208@t eranews... "Mark Probert" Mark wrote in message ... "Linda" wrote in message news:1108663046.d4d5e138aaf1cf6ad4b76dba1a6e3c27@t eranews... "Jan" wrote in message oups.com... Here's an article which described the various types of abuse being engaged in against you and possibly Illena. You are quite mistaken. Jan and Ilena are not being abused any more than what they dish out, and, in Ilena's case, Ilena is being given a free ride, as she contacts spouses and others in an effort intended to silence them. You know darn well that when a war has gone on as long as the one between the "Red Tag posse" and Illena, it's IMPOSSIBLE for third parties to unravel that matter---so I have always given you the benefit on the doubt wrt Illena--and, I have also given Illena the benefit of the doubt wrt to YOU. lol . You ae handing out benefits too liberally. Maybe so. Illena's original beef with you is your posing as Marla Maples and infiltrating her breast Implant forum. You defended your infiltrating Illena's BI group on the basis of your belief Illena authored some nastygram about your son and his surgery. Not quite, but close. I received emails which were replete with "Ilenaisms". Did Illena admit or deny being the author of the nastygram? She claims that I never received the emails, and that none of the emails that I did not receive coulld have come from her list members. Of course, she has never been able to explain how she was able to read my inbox. If Illena denied authoring that letter, -do you have any concrete evidence that Illena was the author of that letter. See above. All the emails came from anonymous servers. Or, did you merely *chose* to believe Illena authored it. I suspected her group based on the verbiage of the emails. Because if you simply *chose* to believe illena authored it without any concrete evidence to substantiate your belief, then you scapegoated her.. I never accused her, or any of her list members. I attempted to infiltate the group exclusively for fact finding purposes. Of course, she claims that my purpose was to disrupt the group. Since this incident, I have read numerous posts from her where she posts emails she has recevied from people who think she is wonderful. Carefly reading of them, along with her posts, leads me to continue to beleive that the emails were from someone within her group. There is far too much similarity of verbiage. *IF* you infiltrated Illena's breast implant group owing to your choosing to scapegoat her for that nasty letter about your son's surgery---then your scapegoating of Illena and subsequent aggression towards her makes you the one began the stalking behaviors. Sorry, even if that is true, which it is not, we already had a long history prior to that. the internet wayback machine documents that she had her defamatory webpage about me in October 2002, http://web.archive.org/web/*/http://...stprobert.html However, Google shows that it goes back to at least December 2001, which predates the factfinding attempt. http://groups-beta.google.com/group/...caeff64b58fe38 Therefore, to say that my attempt at factfinding caused this problem is utterly specious. And, it makes Illena the one whose always been defending herself against your aggression See all of the above. I *really* don't know the facts---so everything I am suggesting is "supposition" based upon what little I read about this I hope the facts I presented are of interest to you, and that you consider them when forming and evolving your opinion. Note that I make an exception in this matter, as I generally no longer respond to questions about this incident, as I consider them to be asked an answered. Can you find a rational reason why anyone would send email to the spouses of people in newsgroups other than to intimidate them. Nope! Join the club. Illena's email to your wife was not a rational act under these circumstances -given it could only be percevied as you perceived it. Whatever Illena's rationale for sending such an email--it was irrational. Agreed. Since her verbiage in the emails to my wife was clearly intended to stifle me, and she had already emailed another person's spouse (said person does not lay down and enjoy her abuse), the sole purpose can only be cosntrued to stifle. When my wife asked her why she had emailed her, Ilena's response was irrational. The emails are retained, and can be forwarded to anyone upon an emal request. I do not need to point out to you the actions of a Net Stalker. Nope I should alo list all of the webpages that Ilena has made up about dozens of people. They are replete with lies and factual distortions. If I possessed the "focus" needed to create a web site, I would create a website documenting the history of the stalking therapist and his minions abuse of me. Since I am somewhat aware of what you went through, I would hope that you do not do it, as it would re-awaken any sleeping pain that you suffered. In fact, I have considered taking stimulants and/or the dreadful SSRI's solely to posses the focus to create such a website ---even though I had adverse effects to SSRI's and have always been too big a chicken to take a stimulants. Discuss doing this with someone who you trust, for the reason I gave. My reason for wanting such a website is as follows: I KF'd the assholes cyberstalking because I refuse to keep rehashing past events with people unconstitutionally incapable of being honest with themselves or others. Having killfiled my stalkers, I have no desire to rehash what the stalkers "say" with the endless stream of "props" the asshole recruit to abuse me by proxy. SO, I want a website containing all the *actual* facts and history---so I can provide each new patsy they recruit a link...-so I don't have to retell my story every time the assholes decide to follow me into another forum and try to incite yet another round of the toxic game of "courtroom" before yet another new audience. These are reasons, but you do have to weigh the pro's and con's. However, your listing of Jan's big crimes makes NO SENSE Her two big crimes according to you... A) being Illena's best buddy B) being anti-semetic. Please correct me if I am wrong, but it seems to me someone accused of being the best buddy of someone named "rosenthal" completely negates the anti-semetic charge! Yes you are wrong. Your analysis is simplistic. Between Jan and Ilena there is what I called a parasitic sympiotic relationship. As opposed to what appears to be the parasitic predatory relationship Jan has with the vultures existentially raping her? I disagree with your characterization. Jan has *voluntarily* provided ample evidence of her bigotry. There are those, like me, who will not sit in silence and provide tacit acceptance. Jan is a total hypocrite demonstrated by giving Ilena a free pass inspite of her religion. If Ilena challenged her as others do, Jan would post something antisemitic in a heartbeat.. This behavior can also be seen in Jan's continuous support of the Scientologists. Jan has proudly worn her Christianity for all to see and has been viscious in her statements on Jews, Catholics, Gays and Atheists. However, she also gives a free pass to Scientology since it supports her ideas. Jan's anti-semitism and other hatreds are well documented: http://groups-beta.google.com/group/...7bdadc0eab3900 http://groups-beta.google.com/group/...72a56fdeda42ed I think you may be morally harassing Jan...therefore abusing her. Nope. I give back to Jan what she gives to me. She delights in calling me a liar, placing my name in subject lines (thus I return the favor) and posted the private email my wife sent her about Rosenthal sending her unsolicited I don't believe Jan "delights" in calling you a liar. Believe what you wish. However, for someone to find my posts in dicsussions not related to them, and then interject her claims that I am a liar, is demonstrative of either "delight" or something even worse. Putting people's names in headlines is nasty. Unfortunately, it happens in ng's where posters deem it socially acceptable-----sort of like rules of the road. Agreed. I do it, in response to others. I had done it more in the past, but found it did nothing except cause more trouble. Either, the consensus of the group deems it unacceptable so everyone knocks it off--or you learn to cope with your group being one it's acceptable to headline people. M.h.a. could not reach a consensus on the color of the sky at night. Any personal emails Jan is made the recipient of by any persons whom Jan perceives as one of your supporters, appeasers, and apologists would be perceived by Jan as "abuse by proxy". Agreed. Jan veiws *any* criticism as abuse, and, unless the person also denounces all of those Jan calls the "gang", that person is made a part of the "gang." If I am mistaken, then perhaps Jan will recognize herself as an "abuser" and check out Sam Vaknin's Suite 101---they have support forums for both sides of these "dyads": the abused and the abusers. Jan cannot ackowledge her own problems. That is what makes it so sad. Everyone was "saying" AC was mentally ill, but the pdoc whom AC agreed to be evaluated by upon request of the court determined he was totally mentally healthy. PDoctors can be fooled. In any case, it doesn't hurt to post information about abuse. Agreed. That is why so many people post about Jan and Ilena's abuse. BTW, for the last 4 years, supplementing with vitamins and minerals has been my primary means of remedying depressed moods, anergia, brain fog, ADHD type ****---I have secondary (or comorbid) to my hashimoto's. Glad it works for you. However, that does not work for everyone. Misc.health.alternative is the probably the most appropriate ng for lay person like me to engage in discussion of orthomolecular medicine I have not participated on MHA because I have ZERO desire to walk smack dab in the middle of another nasty flame war---after what all happened to my son and mother etc. as a consequence of my walking smack dab into the middle of the war Pablo waged on Andrew upon my baptism on usenet. so, I keep checking MHA to see if the war between you and Illena is over--and it's NEVER EVER OVER....lol . I have offer unconditional peace to both Ilena and Jan. Ilena outright rejected it twice and continued her torrential barrage of bile. I stopped for well over a year,nearly two, and, when she would not quit, I decided that I could no longer turn the other cheek. During that period, IIRC, Jan never asked Ilena to join in. In fact, Jan repeated Ilena's lies and distortions about me. I recently posted an article about Abbas and Sharon coming to terms. I asked if they can do it, why can't we? Jan played word games and never deomonstrated any intent to establish peace. Instead, she used the post to harass me for days afterwards. See: http://groups-beta.google.com/group/...b?dmode=source Play it all out in your mind--to it's logical conclusion. If you hold up your end of a psychopathic zero sum game---and fight it to the death --both parties will either end up insane or in prison. It was not happening. If the SPP stalkers war against Brad ever peters out-- the "red tag posse's" war on Illena wil become the longest running war on usenet. It is the Rag Tag Posse and it exists on Ratbags.com. It is NOT as Ilena portrays, as she perpetually portarys herself to be a victim, when she is actually a victimizer. Too funny! Are you saying that persons who formed a group they call a "posse" deny the "posse" is bent on cyberlynching Illena or whomever? Absolutely. The "posse" never had that intent. In fact, Ilena had made the claim that it was formed to stalk her after the Barrett court case. Using the Internet wayback machine, I showed her that it was formed prior to that case. (I cannot locate the thread). In fact, I believe the "red tag posse's" war on Illena is the longest running CONTINUOUS war on usenet, and certainly the most notable one seeing the SLAPP suit has been accepted for review by the United State Supreme Court!!!!. Incorrect. The SLAPP suit is going to be heard by the California Supreme Court. Are you aware of the fact that I support Ilena's legal position and have told her so? However, even with that, she still insists on stalking and harassing me on this issue. Thanks for correcting me--I was under the misimpression it was the USSC . - Actually, I believe that you were prematurely right. sigh....I really I wish you hadn't xposted this thread to ASAD---because I wouldn't have said a thing if you hadn't....--but, your having xposted the thread resulted in my being unable to resist the temptation to respond cause I am sort of p/o'd MHA has been consumed in this war of yours and IR's all these years. It is Ilena's war. She can stop it with a click of her mouse. I will no longer turn the other cheek (even tho it is cuter than the one exposed.) lol I bet you are cute. I empathise with all the parties to these dyads or drama triangles--cause there's always some sort of distortion taking place at the root of them. Unfortunately, one can never use anothers alleged wrongdoings as a defense for your own pre-meditated wrongdoings. If the other party can't be reasoned with---it's up to you to put yourself outside the dyad or triangle. That's my advice---suggestion and opinion--- FWIW |
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Mark wrote -
"Fair enough." ... have'nt a clue what it summarizes. Can we break out the champagne, yet? Please let me know. |
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