Aggressive Child About Anger Management

Most parents did not realize that they should teach their child about
anger management from young.
In fact, a lot of parents NEVER even teach their children about this
before! Believe it or not...
..Aggressive and angry children are very likely to grow up as
problematic teenagers and adults
..Research shows that children with anger problem often have difficulty
socializing with others.
..Being angry when young leads to very complicated psychological
problems which has a big impact on the way they grow up.
As a parent, you need to STAY CALM when you're angry or mad with your
child to avoid complicating the situation. Many times people asked me
how I managed to stay calm.
..Try separating yourself from the current situation - Just walk away
to one corner and wait till things cool off...
..Cut down the conversation and action - It's best NOT to say or do
anything as most of the time you'll end up regretting them!
..Keep in mind that if you're so aggressive towards your child, this
will be a very bad influence to them!
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Most parents did not realize that they should teach their child about
anger management from young.
In fact, a lot of parents NEVER even teach their children about this
before! Believe it or not...
.Aggressive and angry children are very likely to grow up as
problematic teenagers and adults
.Research shows that children with anger problem often have difficulty
socializing with others.
.Being angry when young leads to very complicated psychological
problems which has a big impact on the way they grow up.
As a parent, you need to STAY CALM when you're angry or mad with your
child to avoid complicating the situation. Many times people asked me
how I managed to stay calm.
.Try separating yourself from the current situation - Just walk away
to one corner and wait till things cool off...
.Cut down the conversation and action - It's best NOT to say or do
anything as most of the time you'll end up regretting them!
.Keep in mind that if you're so aggressive towards your child, this
will be a very bad influence to them!
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What complete garbage!! Children's anger comes from their abuse at the
hands of adults, not out of the blue!! They are normal people just like
the rest of us, and the ONLY reason they become angry is when they are
MISTREATED!! If you don't grasp WHY they are angry, don't expect them
to tell you, you have an intellect, figure it out for yourself just by
asking "Why would I feel that way if I were them?" In every case, if
YOU were treated like YOU TREAT THEM, YOU'D BE UNBELIEVABLY ****ED OFF!
And JUSTIFIABLY SO!! If you just want some secret method of getting
them to suck up your abuse and just take it, then go **** yourself to
hell!
Steve

On Jun 18, 11:02 am, "R. Steve Walz" wrote:
wrote:

Most parents did not realize that they should teach their child about
anger management from young.
In fact, a lot of parents NEVER even teach their children about this
before! Believe it or not...
.Aggressive and angry children are very likely to grow up as
problematic teenagers and adults
.Research shows that children with anger problem often have difficulty
socializing with others.
.Being angry when young leads to very complicated psychological
problems which has a big impact on the way they grow up.
As a parent, you need to STAY CALM when you're angry or mad with your
child to avoid complicating the situation. Many times people asked me
how I managed to stay calm.
.Try separating yourself from the current situation - Just walk away
to one corner and wait till things cool off...
.Cut down the conversation and action - It's best NOT to say or do
anything as most of the time you'll end up regretting them!
.Keep in mind that if you're so aggressive towards your child, this
will be a very bad influence to them!

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What complete garbage!! Children's anger comes from their abuse at the
hands of adults, not out of the blue!! They are normal people just like
the rest of us, and the ONLY reason they become angry is when they are
MISTREATED!! If you don't grasp WHY they are angry, don't expect them
to tell you, you have an intellect, figure it out for yourself just by
asking "Why would I feel that way if I were them?" In every case, if
YOU were treated like YOU TREAT THEM, YOU'D BE UNBELIEVABLY ****ED OFF!
And JUSTIFIABLY SO!! If you just want some secret method of getting
them to suck up your abuse and just take it, then go **** yourself to
hell!
Steve- Hide quoted text -

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Hey , excuse me but, you're the one lashing out as an unknown person,
whi said what they feel. Seems as though you could use a refresher
course in self control. And by the way, Mr. Intellligent America, my
3yr.old son has aggressive behaviors, and he is and never was abused.
That is so ignorant, that you would think, that a child MUST be abused
in order to become angry. There are so many, many, many different
reasons for their reactions. Most of all, they're cognitively unable
to think, react, decide, and understand situations. Sometimes, they
just need to be taght, or taght in a different way. Like my son, I
need to be creative, I set strict schedules, and instead of using
charts with words, I use pictures to explain what comes next (this
decreases the anxiety and fear) and make a game out of it.
Ya know, I could go on, and on, and on, but I shouldn't have to inform
an adult of all the possiblilities that effects behavior.
How about researching and reading, and maybe some anger management as
well, because I'm pretty sure, that no-one knows abuse, more than you.

wrote:

On Jun 18, 11:02 am, "R. Steve Walz" wrote:
wrote:

Most parents did not realize that they should teach their child about
anger management from young.
In fact, a lot of parents NEVER even teach their children about this
before! Believe it or not...
.Aggressive and angry children are very likely to grow up as
problematic teenagers and adults
.Research shows that children with anger problem often have difficulty
socializing with others.
.Being angry when young leads to very complicated psychological
problems which has a big impact on the way they grow up.
As a parent, you need to STAY CALM when you're angry or mad with your
child to avoid complicating the situation. Many times people asked me
how I managed to stay calm.
.Try separating yourself from the current situation - Just walk away
to one corner and wait till things cool off...
.Cut down the conversation and action - It's best NOT to say or do
anything as most of the time you'll end up regretting them!
.Keep in mind that if you're so aggressive towards your child, this
will be a very bad influence to them!

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What complete garbage!! Children's anger comes from their abuse at the
hands of adults, not out of the blue!! They are normal people just like
the rest of us, and the ONLY reason they become angry is when they are
MISTREATED!! If you don't grasp WHY they are angry, don't expect them
to tell you, you have an intellect, figure it out for yourself just by
asking "Why would I feel that way if I were them?" In every case, if
YOU were treated like YOU TREAT THEM, YOU'D BE UNBELIEVABLY ****ED OFF!
And JUSTIFIABLY SO!! If you just want some secret method of getting
them to suck up your abuse and just take it, then go **** yourself to
hell!
Steve- Hide quoted text -

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Hey , excuse me but, you're the one lashing out as an unknown person,
whi said what they feel. Seems as though you could use a refresher
course in self control.
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Eat **** and die. I say what I believe HOW I believe it!


And by the way, Mr. Intellligent America, my
3yr.old son has aggressive behaviors, and he is and never was abused.
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YOU think that only because you're excluding YOUR covert manners of
abuse from your own analysis.


That is so ignorant, that you would think, that a child MUST be abused
in order to become angry. There are so many, many, many different
reasons for their reactions. Most of all, they're cognitively unable
to think, react, decide, and understand situations.
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Nonsense, that's what parents tell themselves and each other when they
don't wish to be bothered or try to understand children!


Sometimes, they
just need to be taght, or taght in a different way.
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You mean, be bullied out of it!
Yes, that *IS* what YOU mean.


Like my son, I
need to be creative, I set strict schedules, and instead of using
charts with words, I use pictures to explain what comes next (this
decreases the anxiety and fear) and make a game out of it.
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And so you don't think this abusive militarism is actually abusive???
You're cracked!


Ya know, I could go on, and on, and on, but I shouldn't have to inform
an adult of all the possiblilities that effects behavior.
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Yadda-yadda, you sure could, and it would all be denial, minimalizing,
and defensively and desperately redefining your crimes to try to make
them seem acceptable!


How about researching and reading, and maybe some anger management as
well,
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I think those would do you a great deal of good.


because I'm pretty sure, that no-one knows abuse, more than you.
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Since I wasn't abused, I imagine you mean that I am knowledgable in
the material.

Well thanks, but I wouldn't actually have to know much at all
to know more than you do!
Steve