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JennP writes:
: wrote in message ... : I guess that is OK if you want to do in in your personal parenting : style, but I don't think it is useful to push this viewpoint in this : newsgroup, which is more centered on the development of the child. : So, what you are saying is that a variety of opinions on parenting styles : and medical choices aren't welcome here? Sure sounds like it. : JennP. No. What I am trying to say is that sometimes Sarah seems to be denigrating some choices, albeit subtly. This is a difficult point to prove, even if true, but I thought I has seen several post within a few days that did so, and reacted. Larry |
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Nikki writes:
: As far as the original post goes I'm more in agreement with Sarah's post but : I also think this group should be a place for people to post such vents : freely when they want to so I didn't respond. I probably picked the wrong post to criticize Sarah, as I actually agreed with 90% of what she said, particularly the desire to be able to take a drink (in moderation) being a normal reaction to the demands of parenting. What I disagreed with was her excusing what I thought CY had clearly described as halfhearted attempts at breast feeding over the past 6 months as a "decent attempt." I think this excusing, coupled with her dismissive tone of the pacifier study are two examples of her not being firmly supportive breastfeeding and the benefits it infers on infant health. I don't think these are the only two cases. I will probably be flamed for this by some, since it is (even by my standards) a bit confrontational, but I will have to try to get by. Larry |
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Akuvikate writes:
: And as one of the other pediatricians posting to this newsgroup I will : say good for Sarah for standing up and saying these things. Most of : the time I agree spot on with her. Kate, Thank you for speaking up. In spite of your comments above, you were one of the ones (alath also) whom I was referring to when I said others. Please participate and say what you think is right, regardless of whether I (or anyone else) agrees with you. Your dual role as a mother and a doctor gives you both great insight and great standing, as does your caring nature for us as well as her. Thank you, Larry |
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I understand you feel differently about being a parent than I do...sorry I
offended. I guess I'm having a hard time walking in her shoes. Shouldn't have posted that vent here...won't do it again "Cuddlefish" wrote in message news:%dwaf.394414$1i.28921@pd7tw2no... CY wrote: Don't get too excited here! AFAIK, the kid was fed only once a day on BM for the past 6 months. My SIL was not at school fulltime, but left my niece frequently in the care of anyone who'd take her. Nevertheless, my beef isn't about the weaning as much as the REASON for it. What reasons would you not have a beef with? Many women on this newsgroup have posted over the years how uncomfortable they get with other people [family and friends] making comments and passing judgements on their breastfeeding choices. It would solve so many problems if people instead of judging would exercise some compassion and understanding of another person's point of view or decision. I do not like being tied down any more than the next person. I miss my job, and miss my time alone. Should I have not had kids - who knows? I love my son dearly and could not imagine life without him. To me, having a child is not the be all and end all of my life. I want to have a life outside of motherhood. I presume many, many women feel exactly the same way. Jacqueline |
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Not likely at all - thats something they always do together...apparently
it's no fun otherwise. "Chookie" wrote in message ... In article , "Anne Rogers" wrote: F (the one in the middle) was bemoaning the fact that they couldn't just spontaneously fly to Rome, or similar, me on the other had was thrilled as I've had my children so young I've not have the time to do these things and I don't miss them. C had already stopped breastfeeding and had had whole days away from the baby, F was heavily pregnant and planning to mixed feed from about 2 weeks old (she exclusively breastfed her first, who never accepted a bottle), her main reason being she needed the freedom, to be able to go out for an evening, do things for herself, that kind of thing. How bizarre. I don't find that having a *baby* stops you from going out -- it's having a 4yo that is a problem. The baby sleeps, but the 4yo wants to be active. If I want to go to a movie, the babes-in-arms session is available. Going to concerts at the Opera House is less do-able, but we've been to free outdoor concerts instead. No plays/comedy, but I wasn't more than an occasional play- and comedy-goer anyway. I'm sorry for the kids, CY. I hope (though I don't think it's likely) that the parents take turns getting smashed so that *one* of them is competent in case of emergency. -- Chookie -- Sydney, Australia (Replace "foulspambegone" with "optushome" to reply) "In Melbourne there is plenty of vigour and eagerness, but there is nothing worth being eager or vigorous about." Francis Adams, The Australians, 1893. |
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CY wrote:
I understand you feel differently about being a parent than I do...sorry I offended. I guess I'm having a hard time walking in her shoes. Shouldn't have posted that vent here...won't do it again I didn't totally disagree with your post! And venting is important, so please don't stop! I was trying to help show things from the other side... there is always another side to every story. Jacqueline |
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