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What's fair with my partner?
Sounds like you've been involved in some pretty deep,
involved relationships - NOT. I was married happily for 12 years. And yea, my husband was pretty easy to please. And yea he was grateful for lots of sex. You find that unhealthy? Joelle |
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What's fair with my partner?
Doesn't sound
like a man who doesn't want to get on with his life to me, does it? Okay well then you have the perfect man. Everything's fine. You don't need our input. Good for you. It's a two way street and it sounds to me like you're heading towards a dead end in your relationships with that attitude. Well, I prefer not to be in a lot of "relationships" (Plural huh? Is that your expectation) with men who need to be nagged, taken care of and "trained" and if that makes me selfish, I can live with that. I'm done, you asked, I answered. Frankly I think you just showed Mama's Boy a bunch of posts saying to dump him and used that as leverage to scare him temporarily into behaving...but I could be wrong. No skin off my nose... Joelle |
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What's fair with my partner?
Rhonda wrote in message ... Sounds like you're groping to me, Joelle, going on and on about "Mama's Boy". I'll inform you that this is a man who was married for almost 12 years and living in his own home. The only reason he moved back home, TEMPORARILY, was to upgrade his skills by going back to school for a 1 year course...a course which is considered "fast-track", meaning it's usually a two year course...Doesn't sound like a man who doesn't want to get on with his life to me, does it? If you were reading carefully, you would have found that it wasn't a resume that I wrote for him. He's the resume expert since he's a qualified career consultant. I'm the computer expert and helped him with his business materials. He mowed my lawn all summer...Does that make me a "Daddy's girl"? Have you ever heard of give and take? Or are you too selfish to offer help and support to your partner? It's a two way street and it sounds to me like you're heading towards a dead end in your relationships with that attitude. As these new things come to light, I would say that this man does help you out, just not monetary. If money is what is so important, I would again suggest working more so that you have more money and it wouldn't be an issue and voila.... problem is fixed. Good luck with your relationship. Tiff |
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As these new things come to light, I would say that this man does help you
out, just not monetary. I Yea funny how the story changed. Joelle |
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What's fair with my partner?
Hey iuf you get bored with this guy, I know a few 25 year olds who would be
willing to go for a free ride too "Rhonda" wrote in message om... oaway (Joelle) wrote in message ... As these new things come to light, I would say that this man does help you out, just not monetary. I Yea funny how the story changed. Joelle Joelle, in a message you had written in the past, you said that you don't come here much anymore, except to get involved in a flame war. Seems to me, you saw the opportunity and you seized it. I'm glad that you've found a pastime that entertains you. For myself, this was a place to communicate, not get flamed. You seem to pick out snippets of a post to attack like a cat preying on a toy mouse, instead of addressing the entire message. You're right, you ARE a stranger so what you say should have no effect on me. On the other hand, I'm a stranger to you, and so is my partner. Somehow, you've deemed yourself psychologist and major know-it-all. From one post, from an absolute stranger who was feeling frustrated with the moment, you seem to feel you are the maven on relationships. Perhaps your husband had a premature death due to your harsh, miserable demeanour and perhaps you are wracked with guilt over the fact that it was the life you gave him of nastiness, laced with sex on YOUR terms and NOTHING else of substance that slowly killed him. Now, get this, Joelle, it is not in MY nature to say anything that mean and cold-hearted EVER to ANYONE....but somehow you seem to bring it out in me, like perhaps you did to your late husband, only he turned it inwards and it slowly killed him. Furthermore, I know it won't bother you, it really doesn't make a bit of difference since I'm a stranger who you seem to think you know so much about. Do you think I'm quick to pass judgement? Welcome to a good, hard dose of your own medicine, my dear. My purpose for my post was not to manipulate my partner as you have guessed. Perhaps you aren't the maven you think you are. Oh, and Tiffany, thanks for your good wishes and advice. My partner and I are actually working on this business together, with myself as the partner offering computer services to clients....So, although I've sacrificed a little financially when the going was rough with separation and other stresses that were taking place, I am hopeful, whether it be in this business or on my own to follow that path one day. I'm also teaching nightschool one night a week which is a great way for me to work on the skills that are important to achieve my goals. My partner has also told me that he understands how I feel and would like to help me out with things like groceries and such and carry on with taking care of our entertainment costs. By the way, Joelle, I'm not asking for your feedback on that last paragraph or any other, for that matter. I'm sure you might have something wise to say but, personally, I really couldn't give a flying you-know-what about your opinions. You've demonstrated on numerous occasions that you're way out in left field somewhere. But, if you feel so compelled as to hone in on your little pastime, then enjoy and whomever wants to enjoy your writing talents with horrendous spelling errors (ie. giraff???), then go for it. It's been a real pleasure. Ciya. Rhonda |
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Sooooooooooooooooooo typical
"Joelle" wrote in message ... As these new things come to light, I would say that this man does help you out, just not monetary. I Yea funny how the story changed. Joelle |
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What's fair with my partner?
Perhaps your husband had a premature death due to your
harsh, miserable demeanour and perhaps you are wracked with guilt over the fact that it was the life you gave him of nastiness, laced with sex on YOUR terms and NOTHING else of substance that slowly killed him. Now see, the only problem with that scenareo is that that I'm such a selfish bitch I couldn't possibly feel any guilt for killing my husband. By the way, Joelle, I'm not asking for your feedback on that last paragraph or any other, for that matter. I'm sure you might have something wise to say but, personally, I really couldn't give a flying you-know-what about your opinions. If that were true, you wouldn't have written the above. Have a nice day. Joelle |
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What's fair with my partner?
Nasty skank ho whose need for attention and appreciation, not to mention
a ****, are more important than raising children to see right from wrong. Woah. Is that you Kate? Not that you haven't hit the nail on the head... Joelle |
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