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Reading information please
We have twin grandchildren and they are not socializing well with other
children. We have taken them to reading groups at the local library where they only in interact with each other and ignore other children. The parents are almost blind to any problems they might have in the future. They have been the centre of attention all their lives and I can anticipate that they will have major problems when they start school. Therefore I would like to find some books that deal with socializing and preschool readiness Any help would be appreciated |
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My almost 10 year olds were like that in preschool, Chris especially didn't
want to play with anyone except his sister. My philosophy is that kids need to have their "emotional cups" full before they move on from one step to another. Example, they need to feel totally confident before they go away from mom, pushed too soon and you end up with a child that is very insecure because they were pushed before they were ready. Chris was incredibly shy and almost a ghost, never wanting to be in any new situation, scared of being without me and even in first grade had to be pealed off my body to go to class without his twin. By the end of that year, he not only was a very adventuresome kid but said very clearly that he didn't want to embarrass me in second grade by doing the same thing. Well let me tell you, third grade was a bye mom and please don't hug or kiss me in front of school and 4th grade is a kiss on the head at home. Again, it took time for him to develop a bit of confidence unlike his twin who will certainly be either an anchor person, actress (she's in drama class for the second year), dancer or musician - whatever, the point being she has never been shy and always comfortable about going out and about. Each child gets along differently as how they see the world and no amount of "pushing" or cajoling" can make them "feel" better about it. I'd rather wait and expose them to things and let them decide when they have filled their cups. Good luck. Shirley Chris and Kathleen 1/95 "Gary Teat" wrote in message ... We have twin grandchildren and they are not socializing well with other children. We have taken them to reading groups at the local library where they only in interact with each other and ignore other children. The parents are almost blind to any problems they might have in the future. They have been the centre of attention all their lives and I can anticipate that they will have major problems when they start school. Therefore I would like to find some books that deal with socializing and preschool readiness Any help would be appreciated |
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How old are they?
Julie "Gary Teat" wrote in message ... We have twin grandchildren and they are not socializing well with other children. We have taken them to reading groups at the local library where they only in interact with each other and ignore other children. The parents are almost blind to any problems they might have in the future. They have been the centre of attention all their lives and I can anticipate that they will have major problems when they start school. Therefore I would like to find some books that deal with socializing and preschool readiness Any help would be appreciated |
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The twins will be four in March, they were premature by five weeks. I notice
a vast difference between the twins and my children at the same age. I have a boy and girl who are only 18 months apart. The girl was younger and did many things much quicker than her brother, mostly to keep up. --- Outgoing mail is certified Virus Free. Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com). Version: 6.0.801 / Virus Database: 544 - Release Date: 11/24/04 |
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The twins seem to be a world of their own and pay little attention to other
children. One is the beta male and the other is very submissive. One will control what he can of what is going on, not letting other kids use their toys or be in "their space" the other is much more loving and will readily listen to what is going on. The submissive one seems to be much smarter as he retains things much better. Over the weekend the beta was pushing and taking toys away from a nine month old cousin. The submissive one did not really interact at all with the nine month old. --- Outgoing mail is certified Virus Free. Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com). Version: 6.0.801 / Virus Database: 544 - Release Date: 11/24/04 |
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