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should I nightwean?
DD is 17 months old, happy, healthy and still nurses quite often during the
day and night. She goes through spurts of wanting to eat solids and will eat lots and at other times just picks. I've never fussed too much as I know she's still growing well and getting a lot from me. Only problem is we want to have another child. For a number of reasons we had wanted to have them close together but at this rate who knows when I'll get my period back. I have severe polycystic ovarian syndrome and was originally told that I would probably never have kids. Well DD was conceived the first time we decided to stop using contraception to see what would happen, which could have just been a wonderful blessing, or could mean that maybe it's not too hard for me to get pregant after all. We co-sleep and I am quite fine with her nursing as much as she wants to in the night, so it's not that I actually want to stop, but I'm wondering if I should to increase my chances of getting a period back. Thing is, I might be one of those women that don't get a period as long as I'm still nursing even infrequently, plus what if I can't have another baby - I would be depriving her for nothing. But on the other hand, if I am going to have troubles having another kid surely I should be trying to get pregnant in case it takes a while - or not?? I just don't know what to do - DH keeps saying I should wean her just because she's too old to be nursing anyway (to which I keep explaining that I want to for as long as she and I still enjoy it) but he doesn't really mind, I think it's just a society thing. So the answer for him is easy, but I'm just not sure. Plus then there would actually be the logistics of night weaning. We plan on cosleeping for a while yet - till she's ready for her own bed, so that would make it difficult to wean her although I did read on the Sears site some ways to go about it. But it involves a couple of weeks of miserable nights, which I really don't want to subject any of us to when it might not even make any difference. Thoughts and advice would be greatly appreciated |
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