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Old December 10th 08, 12:36 AM posted to alt.child-support,alt.politics.economics
DB[_4_]
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Default End Default custody to women!

http://news.aol.com/article/convicte...-denied/271953

Here is one of many cases that demonstrates that women can be just as
abusive to their own children as men are accused of being.

The notion that the women is always the better parent and is awarded 100%
custody in the interest of the child mantra is false and needs to be changed
in the law to reflect fair parenting practices.

The default should always be 50/50 custody with each parent responsible for
their own expenses!





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Old November 19th 09, 02:05 AM posted to alt.child-support
Nunya Bidness
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Default End Default custody to women!

The same argument has continued since long before newsgroups or usenet
existed and I suspect, will become no less contentious with the
passing of many more years. Stilted assertions made by those too
subjectively immersed and mired in the emotional morasses of their own
making to hear one another or appreciate the parallels and
difficulties each human has in navigating life.

The mass media outlets (AP/UPI) have been awash with horror stories of
mothers driving their children into lakes to prevent the father from
associating with them. Similarly, there are equally heinous stories of
fathers bludgeoning their children or setting them afire.

Meanwhile all onloookers can discuss in the narrowest, most emotionaly
underdeveloped fashion, using the worst caustic, abrasive manners and
tones to argue AT each other as to which gender is guilty, most
frequently, if not frequency in parity terms, then splitting hairs and
citing "statistics" produced by this organization, that group or the
other agency.

An unambiguous, documented fact is that men have been betryed by
women, many times and had child support obligations hung around their
necks like stones to support children their wives had concieved in
relations with men not their husbands. .

There is no assertion here that men are nobler or higher minded or
suffer from a wealth of a moral compass which doesn't occur in women
who have committed such twisted acts, it's simply and immutable fact
of biological truth that men are constrained by not ideals or
scruples, but by the fact that men don't get pregnant nor do they bear
children.

If biology wefre reversed, many men would behave as badly as many
women have. No one is exempt from poor judgement, prevarications or
false accusations being hurled and neither gender enjoys an entirely
clear conscience regarding the behaviors and actions of their brothers
or sisters.

If you create babies, feed them, keep the rain off of their necks and
teach them, preferably a less contentious and testy means of
communicationing with one another than the sad and acidic sarcasm
masquerading as wit currently beine aimed at anyone who speaks.

Be well and be better.

 




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