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Reflection on Marriage
I arrived home around 12:30 pm today after spending the last 26 hours prior
to that time doing the following: more than 11 hours driving about 4 hours at a wedding about 4 hours just "relaxing" at a hotel about an hour eating breakfast this morning and about 6 hours sleeping During the drive home my mother and I had a chance to talk about marriage overall. We seen a bumper sticker which read "I think therefore I'm not married". I found this bumper sticker sad. As I sat in the church witnessing my nephew get married to a wonderful young lady, I observed her family. All were non-supportive in her choices of a husband. It brought memories back to my mother of my sister & brother-in-law getting married, and how his family was not supportive of their marriage. They just "knew" their marriage wouldn't last, but my sister and brother-in-law recently celebrated their 25th wedding anniversary. So back to the bumper sticker and why I found it sad. The bumper sticker shows how some are truly non-supportive of marriages. It is sad, and wrong, that there are those who are unable to practice what they preach (support choices). So why can't we, as a society, support marriages? Don't these people realize we can considerably decrease the divorce rate if we support other people's choices of being married? If I could I would have held up a sign to the woman driving the car with that bumper sticker that read "people like you is the reason we have such a high divorce rate". In my opinion, she wouldn't have gotten the point - because she isn't thinking. How can she, or anyone else like her, expect others to support her choices when she isn't supporting theirs? Marriage is the foundation to a strong family. Family is the foundation to any society. It teaches us how to relate to others, how to interact with each other, and how to get along with others. People who are non-supportive of a marriage is shaking the foundation of that marriage. It will cause a weaker family, and hence increase the chances of divorce - heartache - and trouble with our kids. If only people understood what they are causing by not being supportive. If only people could look beyond themselves and see how they - themselves - could impact others. I'm very happy for my sister. She has a successful marriage. Her marriage will last. My nephew, who recently turned 22, has grown up considerably since the last time I seen him. He views life differently now that he is married, and yes - he is going to be a father by the middle of August. Him and his wife wanted to be married last year, but her parents first tried to talk her out of it. Then they kept postponing their marriage in hopes she would leave him. They only agreed to participate due to her being pregnant... oh, the medical community told my nephew's wife she could get pregnant. She doesn't ovulate... obvious they were wrong. I'm very honored to be an Aunt to my nephew. He is turning out to be one very responsible and thoughtful young man. He reminds me of his father at his age. I wish both of them well, and I'll be very supportive of their marriage. Tracy ~~~~~~~ http://www.hornschuch.net/tracy/ "You can't solve problems with the same type of thinking that created them." Albert Einstein *** spamguard in place! to email me: tracy at hornschuch dot net *** |
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