IL: Woman Wants Semen Donor To Pay Child Support

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May 21, 2006 8:50 am US/Central

Woman Wants Semen Donor To Pay Child Support
(STNG) Michael Wilford says he wanted nothing more than to help the woman he
was dating fulfill her lifelong dream of having a baby.

Christin Harris says they were in love, practically living together and
talked about raising children.

In a Cook County courtroom Friday, Judge Thomas Kelley listened to Harris
detail the reasons she thinks Wilford should have to pay child support for
the twins conceived by the semen he provided for her in-vitro fertilization.

Wilford says Harris tricked him into signing documents after she gave birth
in which he acknowledges being their father and accepts responsibility for
them.

Now Harris is using those documents to demand child support, in a trial that
began last month over her civil lawsuit.

But that deception is part of a larger pattern of manipulation by Harris,
alleges Wilford's attorney, Enrico Mirabelli.

"Most people who say, 'All I want is your sperm,' who then have a child,
that's usually enough for them," he said before court. "In this case, that
wasn't enough."

In court Friday, Harris, 45, relied on her Palm Pilot to recite dates -
including when she says Wilford, 39, proposed marriage.

But Wilford says there was no marriage proposal - providing detailed travel
records showing he wasn't in town the day she says they lay in bed and he
proposed.

And while Harris said Wilford slept at her house "very frequently" and that
he was practically living there while they dated, Wilford's records show he
was often traveling in the months she says they were living together.

Harris also testified she visited fertility doctors three times in an effort
to get pregnant before meeting Wilford in 2002, adding that Wilford, a
triathlete, fit the "very healthy" profile she was seeking earlier in a
sperm donor.

Mirabelli says Harris, of Glenview, came into the relationship with a plan
to get pregnant, while Wilford, formerly of Downers Grove, claims one of the
reasons he was divorcing his wife was because he didn't want more kids.

The trial is taking place only a few days each month and will resume in
August, when Wilford plans to explain to Kelley why he provided Harris with
semen, asserting he never thought he might someday be responsible for the
babies conceived.

He says he was not involved with her pregnancy, only saw the babies a couple
times after their birth and was not involved with name selection or any
other matters, which he says shows he never expected to someday be
supporting them.

Wilford says Harris called him to a bank to sign documents she said were to
set up a savings account for the 2-year-old girls but that the documents
instead actually established paternity.

After Wilford gives his side in August, a written decision is expected from
Kelley in the fall.

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Mirabelli says Harris, of Glenview, came into the relationship with a plan
to get pregnant, while Wilford, formerly of Downers Grove, claims one of
the reasons he was divorcing his wife was because he didn't want more
kids.

He divorces his wife because he doesn't want more kids? Why not get a
vasectomy and stay in the marriage?

And then he donates sperm, which generally is how one 'gets' more children.

All while he didn't want more kids.

This guy stupid, or what?

"Moon Shyne" wrote in message
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Mirabelli says Harris, of Glenview, came into the relationship with a
plan to get pregnant, while Wilford, formerly of Downers Grove, claims
one of the reasons he was divorcing his wife was because he didn't want
more kids.

He divorces his wife because he doesn't want more kids? Why not get a
vasectomy and stay in the marriage?

Because she can BANG the planet and if she gets knocked up he STILL PAYS!
$$$$ $$$$ $$$$$ $$$$ $$$ $$

krp wrote:

"Moon Shyne" wrote in message
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Mirabelli says Harris, of Glenview, came into the relationship with a
plan to get pregnant, while Wilford, formerly of Downers Grove, claims
one of the reasons he was divorcing his wife was because he didn't want
more kids.

He divorces his wife because he doesn't want more kids? Why not get a
vasectomy and stay in the marriage?


Because she can BANG the planet and if she gets knocked up he STILL PAYS!
$$$$ $$$$ $$$$$ $$$$ $$$ $$

Yep.

- Ron ^*^

"Werebat" wrote in message
news:5OBcg.75239$iF3.50352@dukeread01...

Mirabelli says Harris, of Glenview, came into the relationship with a
plan to get pregnant, while Wilford, formerly of Downers Grove, claims
one of the reasons he was divorcing his wife was because he didn't want
more kids.

He divorces his wife because he doesn't want more kids? Why not get a
vasectomy and stay in the marriage?

Because she can BANG the planet and if she gets knocked up he STILL PAYS!
$$$$ $$$$ $$$$$ $$$$ $$$ $$

Yep.

Power corrupts and absolute power - - - - - - $$$$ $$$$$ $$$$$ $$$$$ $$$$
Behave like a whore and eventually people will start to believe you are one.

"Moon Shyne" wrote in

And then he donates sperm, which generally is how one 'gets' more
children.

All while he didn't want more kids.

This guy stupid, or what?

Do you specialize in being simple?

"DB" wrote in message
. net...

"Moon Shyne" wrote in

And then he donates sperm, which generally is how one 'gets' more
children.

All while he didn't want more kids.

This guy stupid, or what?

Do you specialize in being simple?



She didn't get the nickname "stumpy" for nothing.

Dusty wrote:
It was only a matter of time before something like this happened..
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Only a matter of time? Heck, they've been predicting this kind of case
in law schools everywhere for years, even when both parents agree that
the sperm donor. Moral of the story: get cut. Sad to say that, but true.
And to all the women's activist groups out there, trust me, you're time
will come. Just give one good case where a woman donates an egg and
years later the state comes hounding after you for child support.

"John Meyer" wrote in message
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Dusty wrote:
It was only a matter of time before something like this happened..
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Only a matter of time? Heck, they've been predicting this kind of case in
law schools everywhere for years, even when both parents agree that the
sperm donor. Moral of the story: get cut. Sad to say that, but true.
And to all the women's activist groups out there, trust me, you're time
will come. Just give one good case where a woman donates an egg and years
later the state comes hounding after you for child support.

Since very few (if any) people here ever had the $$ to go to law school,
it's news to the rest of us. Just because you had the cash to throw away,
doesn't mean we do to. the rest of us out here actually have to work for a
living - to pay our trumped up, court ordered, imputed fantasy numbers
extortion.. er.. C$.

As for getting "cut", b.s.m-f!!

Oh, FYI - the states will make a show trial of the whole thing (woman donor
and the egg) and then drop it like a hot rock. Why? Because it would mean
one less mindless victim of the nanny state not getting her "fair share"
forced from the big, bad, male-that-kept-her-down-if-only-in-sprit from Big
Sister, that's why. It would cut into GovCo's profit margin. One less
leach means one less male off the hook, and we couldn't have that!

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snip

Mirabelli says Harris, of Glenview, came into the relationship with a
plan to get pregnant, while Wilford, formerly of Downers Grove, claims
one of the reasons he was divorcing his wife was because he didn't want
more kids.

He divorces his wife because he doesn't want more kids? Why not get a
vasectomy and stay in the marriage?

And then he donates sperm, which generally is how one 'gets' more
children.

All while he didn't want more kids.

This guy stupid, or what?

They should have flushed his sperm down the toilet while they could.