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A call for help! (co-sleeping research needed)
Here is a link for The Mother-Baby Behavioural Sleep Laboratory at Notre
Dame. It is very supportive of co-sleeping. http://www.nd.edu/~jmckenn1/lab/introduction.html I see from reading other replies that Dr. James McKenna (one of the researchers) has already been mentioned. Carolyn "Em" wrote in message news:l1gZb.362162$na.548892@attbi_s04... (crossposted to MKB & MKP) I found out at my LLL meeting tonight that the SIDS taskforce in town is mounting an effort to have co-sleeping deemed a hotlineable offense (i.e. you can be reported to the Division of Family Services *Child Abuse* hotline for co-sleeping with your baby!). Anyway, as a Breastfeeding Coalition member in my town I have been invited to attend a meeting of the SIDS taskforce (along with the LLL leaders). I don't even know where to begin addressing this proposed co-sleeping issue. My baby is five months old and my time available to spend doing internet research is severely limited. I really don't want to go to a meeting with only, "I know I've read *somewhere* that co-sleeping is good." So, I'm appealing to the informed participants of this newsgroup: can you give me reputable sources that indicate that co-sleeping is *not* a SIDS risk? I know there are articles out there as well about how breastfeeding can help reduce the risk of SIDS and I would appreciate direction to those as well. -- Em mama to L-baby, 5 months (feeling a bit lazy asking others to do her legwork for her) |
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"Em" wrote in message news:l1gZb.362162$na.548892@attbi_s04...
(crossposted to MKB & MKP) I found out at my LLL meeting tonight that the SIDS taskforce in town is mounting an effort to have co-sleeping deemed a hotlineable offense (i.e. you can be reported to the Division of Family Services *Child Abuse* hotline for co-sleeping with your baby!). Anyway, as a Breastfeeding Coalition member in my town I have been invited to attend a meeting of the SIDS taskforce (along with the LLL leaders). I don't even know where to begin addressing this proposed co-sleeping issue. I *just* posted this to some groups I'm on. How apropo. :-) ----------- http://www.nd.edu/~jmckenn1/lab/faq.html I remember when I first became aware of James McKenna's sleep articles several years ago. I was so amazed that there was actual research outlining benefits to shared sleep- I had just thought it was easier than a crib. :-) Jan Hunt has some good articles up too. http://www.naturalchild.com/james_mckenna/ ===== Kate, http://www.cs.colorado.edu/~kolina/a...f-formula.html Mom to Ursula (9!), Sage (6.5), Benno (3!!) Nature's way is straight and unerring, foursquare and calm, great and tolerant. Everything is accomplished without the necessity of fabricated purpose. Man's way is equally self-evident. His internal principles are correct; his external acts are righteous; his results are certain. ~ I Ching (B.C. 1150?) Chinese Book of Changes http://listserv.uts.edu.au/mailman/listinfo/parent-l http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Just-Moms/ :-) ------------------------------------------- I know there is a lot more, but this should get you started. :-) kate |
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A call for help! (co-sleeping research needed)
Marie wrote:
When I had my babies, nothing was ever said to me about keeping them in bed with me in the hospital, and I noticed the nurses would make a note on the chart that the baby was in bed with me. A couple of times I've been told by a nurse that I can put the baby in the bassinet provided. I was told I wasn't allowed to sleep with my baby in the bed, that when I went to sleep she had to be in her bassinet. So I stayed awake and held her. We went home the next day (rather than have me sacrifice another night of sleep). Leigh |
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"Bruce and Jeanne" wrote in message
Em wrote: (crossposted to MKB & MKP) I found out at my LLL meeting tonight that the SIDS taskforce in town is mounting an effort to have co-sleeping deemed a hotlineable offense (i.e. you can be reported to the Division of Family Services *Child Abuse* hotline for co-sleeping with your baby!). Forget the research issue - what about invasion of one's privacy? Like another poster suggested, then people should be reported for smoking in the house of an infant. Contact the ACLU I know. Are they going to go about peeping into people's windows? I'm beginning to doubt that they will ever be able to pull it off, but it is scary anyway. I am already careful about who I tell that we co-sleep, because there are lots of people who think it is hotlineable, even if it isn't. -- Em mama to L-baby, 5 months |
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A call for help! (co-sleeping research needed)
"Akuvikate" wrote in message
"Em" wrote in message So, I'm appealing to the informed participants of this newsgroup: can you give me reputable sources that indicate that co-sleeping is *not* a SIDS risk? From the perspective of a co-sleeping mama who loves it, unfortunately I can't. You can quote James McKenna, who shows that co-sleeping babies' breathing is more in sync with their moms and attempt to extrapolate that therefore SIDS rates will be lower. You can quote Dr. Sears, whose research standards are, shall we say, very much his own. But you can't find hard data that supports the idea that co-sleeping is protective against SIDS. So far all the hard data shows the opposite. Though moms and babies probably are evolved to sleep together, this evolution didn't take place in the context of foam or innerspring mattresses and pillows and blankets for warmth. Probably the safest sleeping arrangement is mom and baby on a straw mat in a tropical climate where no more than a light blanket is needed. At the same time, making it a hotlineable offense is plain silly. Either those proposing it are doing so as a publicity stunt or they're not too bright. Our Coalition has already decided to approach the discussion from the perspective of, "how can we help people understand safe co-sleeping" as opposed to a debate about whether co-sleeping is okay or not (if we can steer it that way, anyway). the brightness of the taskforce members. Apparently, they are basing their stance on the Lancet article about bed sharing that was reprinted in the local paper. Also, several members of the taskforce have lost babies to SIDS. I think they are coming from a knee-jerk, emotional reaction. According to the person that attended their last meeting, one member said, "if this will save the life of even one baby, it will be worth it. I just boggle at where they have chosen to direct their attention, when, as other posters have pointed out, it could be directed to parents who smoke, etc. -- Em mama to L-baby, 5 months |
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"Nina" wrote in message
Where in the name of God do you live? My personal opinion "**** them", pardon my language. If that's the case, lets report parents who drink even in small amounts smoke, take cough medicine, cook their eggs runny, feed their kids beef because SOMETIMES kids die from these things. I live in Missouri. I also learned at my meeting (from a LLL leader who also works for the DFS hotline), that having no air conditioning is hotlineable here. I should ask her about runny eggs, etc..... What makes me extra uncomfortable is the feeling that it isn't "safe" to tell someone that I co-sleep, just in case they are going to think I'm a child abuser :-( -- Em mama to L-baby, 5 months |
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"Chotii" wrote in message
Aw, for cryin' out loud. If they do this, they'd better make sure that smoking and formula feeding are also hotlineable offenses, because those have at least equally strong associations with SIDS. (No offense intended to the moms who must use formula, but it *is* a scary truth, see: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/q...PubMed&list_ui ds=14709496&dopt=Abstract or http://tinyurl.com/2njnp Also http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/q...PubMed&list_ui ds=10443504&dopt=Books or http://tinyurl.com/2jvbt Now please, do NOT turn this into a formula vs breast debate. This is a 'SIDS safety issues' thing. If co-sleeping is no more dangerous than having baby sleep alone in his own room (and it is not, if you look at the numbers), then it should not be "hotlineable". How about putting baby to sleep on his tummy? Should THAT be hotlineable? Should women be turned into CPS for putting baby to sleep on his tummy? How *about* smoking? That's known to increase the risk of SIDS. This is stupid. But as long as they're being stupid, how about they be *consistent* and stupid. I know. I don't even know how to begin with them. We were warned by the person that tipped us off to the meetings that when we go, we will be facing a very "hostile crowd." She said that she was the lone voice that questioned the idea at all and said she was, "totally discredited." I'm getting nervous. Actually, I may well end up not going, because it is still unclear whether babies are "allowed" at the meetings and I can't leave mine behind. Several of my Coalition members are going though, and I'm passing along all of the good information I'm getting here to them. -- Em mama to L-baby, 5 months |
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