Child Support Payment Question

"teachrmama" wrote in message
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This is why I recommend counseling. She doesn't seem to understand
finances, and doesn't seem to recognize your concerns as being
particularly
valid. She thinks you're just "scared." But both of you sitting down
with
a neutral third party and discussing the very real issues you have
presented
might bring her a better sense of reality. Money issues are one of the
biggest stressors in a relationship. Get some help with them--you do not
have to do this alone!

As for child support being the lesser of 2 financial debacles, you are
risking being only minimally involved in your child's life if you decide
to
take that route. Is that a risk you are willing to take?

wrote in message
oups.com...
Thanks for all the advice. And to clear up any confusion - I love my
girlfriend - but am 100% not ready for marriage.

After reading TM's response I will have to say she has provided the best
suggestion thus far. She is right - counseling would help. If you love
your girlfriend and you are serious about having a future together, then go
seek counseling.


Thanks,
Tracy
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http://www.hornschuch.net/tracy/