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LADIES! I need advice
Okay, my concerns are this: My wife and I are expecting our first
child. she is 2 &1/2 months pregnant. Now, the wife and I always had a outstanding sex life. Okay, let me get to the point; she is 5'4" and around 98 to 100 lbs. I happened to be "bigger than normal" when it come to the "penis department" I am over 9". Now since I am new at this, will there be a point during this pregnancy that my penis would actually do harm? Right now we are still having a terrific sex life but I am sure this will change as the pregnancy continues. Please email me your response since I do not normally go to this newsgroup. Thanks, Dave |
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LADIES! I need advice
"Dave" wrote in message ... Okay, my concerns are this: My wife and I are expecting our first child. she is 2 &1/2 months pregnant. Now, the wife and I always had a outstanding sex life. Okay, let me get to the point; she is 5'4" and around 98 to 100 lbs. I happened to be "bigger than normal" when it come to the "penis department" I am over 9". Now since I am new at this, will there be a point during this pregnancy that my penis would actually do harm? Right now we are still having a terrific sex life but I am sure this will change as the pregnancy continues. Believe me, that baby is well protected. There is nothing you could do in the course of normal, ordinary intercourse that would harm the baby. You may find that your wife bleeds after sex - typically a little red shortly after, or maybe a little brown a day or two later - because her cervix is engorged with blood and 'friable' - meaning the capillaries are easily broken. This is not indication of harm done. The closed, unripened cervix is a tight knot of muscle - a tightly closed sphincter - 1 1/2" thick when all is normal. The baby is cushioned within the chorion and the amniotic sac, floating free in plenty of amniotic fluid. It's safe. You may find that she begins to experience sex as a painful thing because of dryness, plain old inexplicable discomfort, or utter and complete lack of interest. These are all within the range of normal and do not reflect on you or your general attractiveness in any way - they're hormonal and will eventually resolve (and I think it's because the body, being pregnant, sees no reason to continue being sexually receptive). Please do respect this as much as you can. You may find that for pain/dryness, a heavy/thick lubricant such as KY jelly is more comfortable for her than something like Astroglide, or else invest in a higher quality stuff like Magnus or Pure Silk. (Then again you might be one of the lucky ones whose wife continues to enjoy sex throughout pregnancy. But not all women do.) The only time during pregnancy you should not enjoy intercourse if you both wish, is if the doctor tells you so for medical reasons (such as a threatened miscarriage) or once the bag of waters ('membrane') has ruptured, whether labor has begun or not. Barring those reasons, there's no reason not to indulge in anything that both of you find mutually agreeable. --angela |
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LADIES! I need advice
Dave wrote:
I happened to be "bigger than normal" when it come to the "penis department" I am over 9". I'm going to need to see some photographic documentation before I can give my qualified reply. 10x8 glossies will be fine. A |
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LADIES! I need advice
"Unadulterated Me" wrote in message ... Dave wrote: I happened to be "bigger than normal" when it come to the "penis department" I am over 9". I'm going to need to see some photographic documentation before I can give my qualified reply. 10x8 glossies will be fine. A Lol! Yeah my first thought was "sure ya are" eyeroll |
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sex during the first trimester LADIES! I need advice
"Dave" wrote in message ... Okay, my concerns are this: My wife and I are expecting our first child. she is 2 &1/2 months pregnant. Now, the wife and I always had a outstanding sex life. Okay, let me get to the point; she is 5'4" and around 98 to 100 lbs. I happened to be "bigger than normal" when it come to the "penis department" I am over 9". Now since I am new at this, will there be a point during this pregnancy that my penis would actually do harm? Right now we are still having a terrific sex life but I am sure this will change as the pregnancy continues. Please email me your response since I do not normally go to this newsgroup. Thanks, Dave Piggybacking on Dave, here-has anyone else had problems with sex early on? I find I'm nauseous enough of the time that it really isn't at all appealing. And, at some level, I am afraid of hurting the baby-"shaking something loose" as it were, which doesn't help psychologically a bit. My husband's being nice about it, but I'm starting to feel more than a bit guilty. |
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sex during the first trimester LADIES! I need advice
Piggybacking on Dave, here-has anyone else had problems with sex early on?
I find I'm nauseous enough of the time that it really isn't at all appealing. And, at some level, I am afraid of hurting the baby-"shaking something loose" as it were, which doesn't help psychologically a bit. My husband's being nice about it, but I'm starting to feel more than a bit guilty. Sure. I'm never in the mood at the beginning when I have morning sickness. I tell my husband I don't want to throw up on him. He just laughs and says I can lean over - lol. Guys are lame |
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LADIES! I need advice
"Unadulterated Me" wrote in message ... Dave wrote: I happened to be "bigger than normal" when it come to the "penis department" I am over 9". I'm going to need to see some photographic documentation before I can give my qualified reply. 10x8 glossies will be fine. ROTFLMAO!!!!! |
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sex during the first trimester LADIES! I need advice
I had the complete opposite problem, which I don't hear a lot of people
talking about - when I got pregnant my libido increased (I was fortunate not to have much in the way of morning sickness) and my husband's decreased. He's the one who's freaked out by the little baby in there, and he thinks somehow he's going to injure it. And I think he views my condition as delicate and doesn't want to hurt me either, despite my insistence to the contrary. So here I am, nearly in my 8th month, still having to take care of myself... ;-) "Donna Metler" wrote in message news "Dave" wrote in message ... Okay, my concerns are this: My wife and I are expecting our first child. she is 2 &1/2 months pregnant. Now, the wife and I always had a outstanding sex life. Okay, let me get to the point; she is 5'4" and around 98 to 100 lbs. I happened to be "bigger than normal" when it come to the "penis department" I am over 9". Now since I am new at this, will there be a point during this pregnancy that my penis would actually do harm? Right now we are still having a terrific sex life but I am sure this will change as the pregnancy continues. Please email me your response since I do not normally go to this newsgroup. Thanks, Dave Piggybacking on Dave, here-has anyone else had problems with sex early on? I find I'm nauseous enough of the time that it really isn't at all appealing. And, at some level, I am afraid of hurting the baby-"shaking something loose" as it were, which doesn't help psychologically a bit. My husband's being nice about it, but I'm starting to feel more than a bit guilty. |
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LADIES! I need advice
On 28 May 2004, Dave wrote:
[...] I happened to be "bigger than normal" when it come to the "penis department" I am over 9". [...] Does this qualify as a "new member" post? --Threnody just curious |
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LADIES! I need advice
On Sat, 29 May 2004 22:48:38 +1200, Unadulterated Me
wrote: Dave wrote: I happened to be "bigger than normal" when it come to the "penis department" I am over 9". I'm going to need to see some photographic documentation before I can give my qualified reply. 10x8 glossies will be fine. A Bwaaahahaa! You is bad, womyn EG Nan |
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