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Awful Halloween costumes
Yet another chapter in the saga of the "typical" 8 YO boy and his PC
mom. He wants to be Freddie. No, he has of course never seen that or any other similar movie, but he thinks Freddie is "cool". In general, I have learned to avoid fussing over his interest in violent and scary imagery, as he has no issues with violence or general (serious) immorality in his real life, but . . . ugh. So, do any of you have kids like this? Do you disallow such choices for Halloween? I tell you what: It would be a LOT easier to buy the stupid Freddie mask than fight against it and then help him come up with something creative this week before Halloween. Thanks. |
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In article , Nevermind wrote:
So, do any of you have kids like this? Do you disallow such choices for Halloween? I tell you what: It would be a LOT easier to buy the stupid Freddie mask than fight against it and then help him come up with something creative this week before Halloween. I'm sure some people do have kids who like gory Halloween costumes, judging by the number who come to our door each year. Our elementary school has a costume parade on Halloween at school each year, and explicitly prohibits graphic depiction of violence. The letter to the parents is carefully worded to make it clear that such costumes may be appropriate for other Halloween activities, but are NOT acceptable at school. Our 7-year-old son has never shown much interest in gore. He prefers more imaginative costumes. This year, he wants to be a green lizard. My wife found some reptile-print fabric and is making him some reptile-print pajamas. We'll add a mask or hat and tail to complete the costume, and he will have new pajamas to wear after Halloween. (We did a similar thing using commercial green fleece pajamas when he needed to be a "Wall of Thorns" for a play---the pajamas became his favorites.) The most challenging costume to design was the year he decided to be a house. (We put shoulder straps into a carboard box which my wife painted to look like a house---he looked out the window of the house.) -- Kevin Karplus http://www.soe.ucsc.edu/~karplus life member (LAB, Adventure Cycling, American Youth Hostels) Effective Cycling Instructor #218-ck (lapsed) Professor of Computer Engineering, University of California, Santa Cruz Undergraduate and Graduate Director, Bioinformatics Affiliations for identification only. |
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On Tue, 28 Oct 2003 11:09:10 EST, Elizabeth Gardner
wrote: This year she wants to be the "Spider Queen," which is going to entail some ingenuity but no gore. She does seem to go for spooky, in general. Whenever I have to come up with a costume for myself in a hurry, I go as a spider. I wear a black turtleneck and leggings. I take two pairs of black kneesocks for the other four spider legs, stuff them with newspaper, and pin the open ends to my sides. Then, the fun part is to make the other legs mobile. I use black thread to connect the "legs" to the arms of my shirt ( if I'm doing it properly, I attach the threads to rounds of black elastic to wear on my arms, so I can let them hang down if I have to drive or wear a coat or something). I can then move my arms and the other legs move along with them. It works most effectively if there are two sets of threads, one at my elbows and the others at my wrists. Then I can gesture dramatically with 6 legs, hug people, etc. Additional spooky decoration I've used includes - spiderweb drawn on my face with facepaint - black lace veil for a black widow spider - spiderweb drawn on my back with chalk (hey, I said this was an 'in a hurry' costume) - black nailpolish Have fun! Louise |
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In article , Kevin Karplus says...
In article , Nevermind wrote: So, do any of you have kids like this? Do you disallow such choices for Halloween? I tell you what: It would be a LOT easier to buy the stupid Freddie mask than fight against it and then help him come up with something creative this week before Halloween. I'm sure some people do have kids who like gory Halloween costumes, judging by the number who come to our door each year. Our elementary school has a costume parade on Halloween at school each year, and explicitly prohibits graphic depiction of violence. The letter to the parents is carefully worded to make it clear that such costumes may be appropriate for other Halloween activities, but are NOT acceptable at school. Uuurgh. I wish the schools, if they can't go in for the whole Halloween ghosty-ghouly-gory thing (OK, fine, maybe they can't, they have a whole range of parents and philosophies to consider), they'd just wish the kids Happy Halloween on October 31 and send them home to the festivities. Because this idea of having a school Halloween party, which of course all the kids will have to dress up for, but it can't be what a lot of them *really* want to dress up like, necessitates having two costumes and more preparation, or the kid compromising, and it gets the heck in the way of Halloween. There doesn't have to be a school Halloween party, especially if the school is queasy about it. Our 7-year-old son has never shown much interest in gore. He prefers more imaginative costumes. This year, he wants to be a green lizard. My wife found some reptile-print fabric and is making him some reptile-print pajamas. We'll add a mask or hat and tail to complete the costume, and he will have new pajamas to wear after Halloween. (We did a similar thing using commercial green fleece pajamas when he needed to be a "Wall of Thorns" for a play---the pajamas became his favorites.) He's all of seven. That my soon change (or not). The most challenging costume to design was the year he decided to be a house. (We put shoulder straps into a carboard box which my wife painted to look like a house---he looked out the window of the house.) My son was a car twice. He strapped a cardboard car I made, and wore the hardtop on his head. I still have it in my attic :-) Banty |
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Banty writes:
Our elementary school has a costume parade on Halloween at school each year, and explicitly prohibits graphic depiction of violence. Uuurgh. I wish the schools, if they can't go in for the whole Halloween ghosty-ghouly-gory thing (OK, fine, maybe they can't, they have a whole range of parents and philosophies to consider), they'd just wish the kids Happy Halloween on October 31 and send them home to the festivities. There's plenty of room for the "whole Halloween ghosty-ghouly-gory thing", without depictions of simulated violence (graphic or otherwise). You could fall off a ladder, hit your head, and bleed a lot. That would be gory. But it wouldn't be violent, unless someone pushed you. David desJardins |
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In article , Banty wrote:
Uuurgh. I wish the schools, if they can't go in for the whole Halloween ghosty-ghouly-gory thing (OK, fine, maybe they can't, they have a whole range of parents and philosophies to consider), they'd just wish the kids Happy Halloween on October 31 and send them home to the festivities. Because this idea of having a school Halloween party, which of course all the kids will have to dress up for, but it can't be what a lot of them *really* want to dress up like, necessitates having two costumes and more preparation, or the kid compromising, and it gets the heck in the way of Halloween. There doesn't have to be a school Halloween party, especially if the school is queasy about it. The school costume parade is very popular with the kids, so the school does it as a treat for them. I think many of the parents appreciate that the school doesn't allow very gory costumes, since they can then tell their kids "OK, but if you really want that costume then you can't wear it in the school parade." I doubt that many of the kids get 2 costumes (over 40% of the school is in the free or reduced price lunch program). Students don't have to participate in the Halloween costume parade, so if a kid really wants a gory costume, he can choose not to take it to school and just wear it in the evening. For such a student, this is almost the same as Banty's proposal, and the vast majority of students can have a school parade to show off their non-gory costumes. -- Kevin Karplus http://www.soe.ucsc.edu/~karplus life member (LAB, Adventure Cycling, American Youth Hostels) Effective Cycling Instructor #218-ck (lapsed) Professor of Computer Engineering, University of California, Santa Cruz Undergraduate and Graduate Director, Bioinformatics Affiliations for identification only. |
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Kevin Karplus wrote:
In article , Banty wrote: Uuurgh. I wish the schools, if they can't go in for the whole Halloween ghosty-ghouly-gory thing (OK, fine, maybe they can't, they have a whole range of parents and philosophies to consider), they'd just wish the kids Happy Halloween on October 31 and send them home to the festivities. Because this idea of having a school Halloween party, which of course all the kids will have to dress up for, but it can't be what a lot of them *really* want to dress up like, necessitates having two costumes and more preparation, or the kid compromising, and it gets the heck in the way of Halloween. There doesn't have to be a school Halloween party, especially if the school is queasy about it. The school costume parade is very popular with the kids, so the school does it as a treat for them. I think many of the parents appreciate that the school doesn't allow very gory costumes, since they can then tell their kids "OK, but if you really want that costume then you can't wear it in the school parade." I doubt that many of the kids get 2 costumes (over 40% of the school is in the free or reduced price lunch program). I think if you don't want your kid to do something, you should prohibit it and not hide behind a school rule. Yes it's easier to tell your child that Of Course I would let you wear the Slasher Victim costume, but the mean old school board won't allow it. But I think it skews the relationship between child, parent, and school unhealthily. I hear similar reasons for parents liking dress codes -- so they don't have to argue with their kids over what to wear to school. Well, who is buying their kids clothes that are inappropriate to wear to school in the 1st place? Oh, sorry, was I ranting? Scott DD 10 (Queen Elizabeth I) and DS 7.5 (A Bionicle) |
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I hear similar reasons for parents liking dress codes --
so they don't have to argue with their kids over what to wear to school. Well, who is buying their kids clothes that are inappropriate to wear to school in the 1st place? In my experience, it's not a matter of inappropriateness, it's a matter of decision making.... my DD is 9yrs old, and I still lay out clothes for her. Otherwise she takes forever getting dressed in the morning because she feels the need to try on twelve different things. She also doesn't check the weather like I do, and she has a habit of pulling out short-sleeved shirts on days where the high temp is 45F. |
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Scott Lindstrom wrote in :
[snip] hear similar reasons for parents liking dress codes -- so they don't have to argue with their kids over what to wear to school. Well, who is buying their kids clothes that are inappropriate to wear to school in the 1st place? I don't think the two situations are quite equivalent. If the school allows the kids to wear a custume, then you probably have just two or three occasions to wear them: once at school, and once (or maybe twice) out of school. So if you get two custumes, the average number of times you wear each of them is 1.5 wears. With clothes, you have plenty of chances to wear non-school clothes: if your kid has a crop top they are not allowed to wear at school, they can wear it every afternoon after school until they grow out of it, getting an average number of wears to be about 365. -- Penny Gaines UK mum to three |
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