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Child Support Guidelines are UNFAIR! Lets join together to fight them!
http://childsupportunfair.com
I am not OPPOSING child support, what I am saying is, lets support the child(ren) but not at the expense of your own life, Justice was to be equal under our constitution, the ability to make something of your life! $1300.00 a month of CURRENT chilsupport ORDERED between two courts and take home before tax $1666.67 (and they claim that it could even go UP even though I am only bringing home before tax that amount!) is absurd! Just fix the guidelines, give deductions for what it costs for your basic needs to live and dont make it so even if you are making $70,000.00 you bring home only 30-35 of it, they can even in cases go higher then 50% I am told, they can get 60-70% its out crazy. I do support taking care of your children and in my situation by the way I even contest that they are mine, she slept with more people then you could even imagine, she admits this even to the case worker! I asked for DNA tests they never sent the packet instead they filed and did not serve ME, they served my last address, and me having the SAME phone number they didnt even call to confirm, I had no idea they were trying to serve me, then they get a default, I found this out with my check hitting a LOW 50% of what it should be. Bring into the forum more recourse for those obligated to pay, we have to live too, I am not living some lavish lifestyle, just barely getting by and now due to this I can not even get school items for my other two children that live with me 40% of the time, and im still having to pay the mother of these two as well, ive even tried to get the court to make her pay they denied that! The mother here claims she wants my money just to pay for an SUV, AND SAID THIS IN OPEN COURT, the Judge said she did not have to spend the money ON THE CHILDREN and it was not an issue! ITS OUT RIGHT REDICULAS! THERE ARE CUSTODIAL PARENTS OUT THERE WHO DONT EVEN THINK TO USE THE MONEY FOR THE CHILDREN ONLY AS REVENGE UPON THE PERSON THEY ARE NOT WITH ANY MORE AND ONLY FOR THEIR OWN PERSONAL SELFISH GAMES! THE COURTS OPENLY ALLOW THIS! THEY SAY SOME PEOPLE OUT THERE WHO DONT PAY THEIR CHILD SUPPORT ARE DEAD BEATS, MAKES YOU THINK WHY? BECAUSE SOMETIMES THEY ARE TOLD TO PAY MORE THEN THEY CAN AFFORD? WHEN DO _WE_ GET A CHANCE AT LIFE? WHY IS CHILD SUPPORT A LIFE SENTENCE THESE DAYS? HOW CAN THE GOVERNMENT OPENLY ADMIT AND GET AWAY WITH DOUBLE DIPPING PARENTS? WHEN IS ENOUGH, JUST PLAIN ENOUGH? SEEMS TO ME SOME OF THE CUSTODIAL PARENTS OUT THERE ARE THE TRUE ABUSERS IN SOME SITUATIONS? NOT TO SAY THAT SOME PEOPLE DONT ACTUALLY NEED IT BUT IT NEEDS TO BE MORE _FAIR_!!!! Please visit: http://childsupportunfair.com ----------------------------------------------------------------------------- --This Message Has Been Posted Using A Trial Version Of Message Poster 2003-- ----------------------------------------------------------------------------- Would you like to reach millions of customers for only the cost of bandwidth? You can post messages like this to thousands of newsgroups with a simple to use software application called Message Poster 2003. For more details on this extremely affordable software, visit: http://www.exibitionsoftware.com |
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For the record its not just you men getting the shaft from these guidelines,
my ex lied to the judge, and now I am working my ass off just to keep my kids together while he is living high on the hog with the "other" woman. I wish him well, however he as usual has his kids best interest nowhere in sight. "S Myers" wrote in message ... http://childsupportunfair.com I am not OPPOSING child support, what I am saying is, lets support the child(ren) but not at the expense of your own life, Justice was to be equal under our constitution, the ability to make something of your life! $1300.00 a month of CURRENT chilsupport ORDERED between two courts and take home before tax $1666.67 (and they claim that it could even go UP even though I am only bringing home before tax that amount!) is absurd! Just fix the guidelines, give deductions for what it costs for your basic needs to live and dont make it so even if you are making $70,000.00 you bring home only 30-35 of it, they can even in cases go higher then 50% I am told, they can get 60-70% its out crazy. I do support taking care of your children and in my situation by the way I even contest that they are mine, she slept with more people then you could even imagine, she admits this even to the case worker! I asked for DNA tests they never sent the packet instead they filed and did not serve ME, they served my last address, and me having the SAME phone number they didnt even call to confirm, I had no idea they were trying to serve me, then they get a default, I found this out with my check hitting a LOW 50% of what it should be. Bring into the forum more recourse for those obligated to pay, we have to live too, I am not living some lavish lifestyle, just barely getting by and now due to this I can not even get school items for my other two children that live with me 40% of the time, and im still having to pay the mother of these two as well, ive even tried to get the court to make her pay they denied that! The mother here claims she wants my money just to pay for an SUV, AND SAID THIS IN OPEN COURT, the Judge said she did not have to spend the money ON THE CHILDREN and it was not an issue! ITS OUT RIGHT REDICULAS! THERE ARE CUSTODIAL PARENTS OUT THERE WHO DONT EVEN THINK TO USE THE MONEY FOR THE CHILDREN ONLY AS REVENGE UPON THE PERSON THEY ARE NOT WITH ANY MORE AND ONLY FOR THEIR OWN PERSONAL SELFISH GAMES! THE COURTS OPENLY ALLOW THIS! THEY SAY SOME PEOPLE OUT THERE WHO DONT PAY THEIR CHILD SUPPORT ARE DEAD BEATS, MAKES YOU THINK WHY? BECAUSE SOMETIMES THEY ARE TOLD TO PAY MORE THEN THEY CAN AFFORD? WHEN DO _WE_ GET A CHANCE AT LIFE? WHY IS CHILD SUPPORT A LIFE SENTENCE THESE DAYS? HOW CAN THE GOVERNMENT OPENLY ADMIT AND GET AWAY WITH DOUBLE DIPPING PARENTS? WHEN IS ENOUGH, JUST PLAIN ENOUGH? SEEMS TO ME SOME OF THE CUSTODIAL PARENTS OUT THERE ARE THE TRUE ABUSERS IN SOME SITUATIONS? NOT TO SAY THAT SOME PEOPLE DONT ACTUALLY NEED IT BUT IT NEEDS TO BE MORE _FAIR_!!!! Please visit: http://childsupportunfair.com ----------------------------------------------------------------------------- --This Message Has Been Posted Using A Trial Version Of Message Poster 2003-- ----------------------------------------------------------------------------- Would you like to reach millions of customers for only the cost of bandwidth? You can post messages like this to thousands of newsgroups with a simple to use software application called Message Poster 2003. For more details on this extremely affordable software, visit: http://www.exibitionsoftware.com |
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I am right there with you Cornia, my ex as well lied!! I happen acrossed a
copy of his last year ta (tahnks to his recent ex girlfriend) but he told them he was making 18,000 a year and that was total lie, he made 75,000 last year!!!! Then he said he was fired due to misisng work for kids so they only figured him at like 10000 for child support. I get 104 a month for 2 kids!!!It impossible, to make it on yoru own. Beofore I remarried My familt helped me so much becasue I worked and made more money so I was unable to get any assiasatnce but was barely able to pay bills ratehr only buy grocerys!! But now I see the other side my new hubsadn make 52,000 (pre Taxes) and pays 1167.41 a week!! His ex wife maked 10,000 a year from her job so he gives her more then she makes!! And she has the neve call and ask us to but school clothes!! LIKE HELL WE WILL!! I do feel bad that the kids probably do without We get them in clothes 3 sizes to small, but you know, she has a coolege degree and chosse to only work 15 hours a week, why shoudl we pay for her lazyness!!! We buy the kids nice things, they were nice clothes and things here like they always did, they things the child support shoudl pay. Tonya "Corinna" wrote in message nk.net... For the record its not just you men getting the shaft from these guidelines, my ex lied to the judge, and now I am working my ass off just to keep my kids together while he is living high on the hog with the "other" woman. I wish him well, however he as usual has his kids best interest nowhere in sight. "S Myers" wrote in message ... http://childsupportunfair.com I am not OPPOSING child support, what I am saying is, lets support the child(ren) but not at the expense of your own life, Justice was to be equal under our constitution, the ability to make something of your life! $1300.00 a month of CURRENT chilsupport ORDERED between two courts and take home before tax $1666.67 (and they claim that it could even go UP even though I am only bringing home before tax that amount!) is absurd! Just fix the guidelines, give deductions for what it costs for your basic needs to live and dont make it so even if you are making $70,000.00 you bring home only 30-35 of it, they can even in cases go higher then 50% I am told, they can get 60-70% its out crazy. I do support taking care of your children and in my situation by the way I even contest that they are mine, she slept with more people then you could even imagine, she admits this even to the case worker! I asked for DNA tests they never sent the packet instead they filed and did not serve ME, they served my last address, and me having the SAME phone number they didnt even call to confirm, I had no idea they were trying to serve me, then they get a default, I found this out with my check hitting a LOW 50% of what it should be. Bring into the forum more recourse for those obligated to pay, we have to live too, I am not living some lavish lifestyle, just barely getting by and now due to this I can not even get school items for my other two children that live with me 40% of the time, and im still having to pay the mother of these two as well, ive even tried to get the court to make her pay they denied that! The mother here claims she wants my money just to pay for an SUV, AND SAID THIS IN OPEN COURT, the Judge said she did not have to spend the money ON THE CHILDREN and it was not an issue! ITS OUT RIGHT REDICULAS! THERE ARE CUSTODIAL PARENTS OUT THERE WHO DONT EVEN THINK TO USE THE MONEY FOR THE CHILDREN ONLY AS REVENGE UPON THE PERSON THEY ARE NOT WITH ANY MORE AND ONLY FOR THEIR OWN PERSONAL SELFISH GAMES! THE COURTS OPENLY ALLOW THIS! THEY SAY SOME PEOPLE OUT THERE WHO DONT PAY THEIR CHILD SUPPORT ARE DEAD BEATS, MAKES YOU THINK WHY? BECAUSE SOMETIMES THEY ARE TOLD TO PAY MORE THEN THEY CAN AFFORD? WHEN DO _WE_ GET A CHANCE AT LIFE? WHY IS CHILD SUPPORT A LIFE SENTENCE THESE DAYS? HOW CAN THE GOVERNMENT OPENLY ADMIT AND GET AWAY WITH DOUBLE DIPPING PARENTS? WHEN IS ENOUGH, JUST PLAIN ENOUGH? SEEMS TO ME SOME OF THE CUSTODIAL PARENTS OUT THERE ARE THE TRUE ABUSERS IN SOME SITUATIONS? NOT TO SAY THAT SOME PEOPLE DONT ACTUALLY NEED IT BUT IT NEEDS TO BE MORE _FAIR_!!!! Please visit: http://childsupportunfair.com ----------------------------------------------------------------------------- --This Message Has Been Posted Using A Trial Version Of Message Poster 2003-- ----------------------------------------------------------------------------- Would you like to reach millions of customers for only the cost of bandwidth? You can post messages like this to thousands of newsgroups with a simple to use software application called Message Poster 2003. For more details on this extremely affordable software, visit: http://www.exibitionsoftware.com 886002001 Group Number Gallia Jackson Vintion JVSD |
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Its rather funny, he wasnt really a dick head when I married him, just when
I stopped drinking with him. Now hes married to his NEW drinking buddy and calling me to bitch about her...I laugh actually. My kids are doing fine by my earnings not his & not my familys, just mine. Its a rough road but not impossible, and we are all happier these days in our little home. "simple me" wrote in message ... I am right there with you Cornia, my ex as well lied!! I happen acrossed a copy of his last year ta (tahnks to his recent ex girlfriend) but he told them he was making 18,000 a year and that was total lie, he made 75,000 last year!!!! Then he said he was fired due to misisng work for kids so they only figured him at like 10000 for child support. I get 104 a month for 2 kids!!!It impossible, to make it on yoru own. Beofore I remarried My familt helped me so much becasue I worked and made more money so I was unable to get any assiasatnce but was barely able to pay bills ratehr only buy grocerys!! But now I see the other side my new hubsadn make 52,000 (pre Taxes) and pays 1167.41 a week!! His ex wife maked 10,000 a year from her job so he gives her more then she makes!! And she has the neve call and ask us to but school clothes!! LIKE HELL WE WILL!! I do feel bad that the kids probably do without We get them in clothes 3 sizes to small, but you know, she has a coolege degree and chosse to only work 15 hours a week, why shoudl we pay for her lazyness!!! We buy the kids nice things, they were nice clothes and things here like they always did, they things the child support shoudl pay. Tonya "Corinna" wrote in message nk.net... For the record its not just you men getting the shaft from these guidelines, my ex lied to the judge, and now I am working my ass off just to keep my kids together while he is living high on the hog with the "other" woman. I wish him well, however he as usual has his kids best interest nowhere in sight. "S Myers" wrote in message ... http://childsupportunfair.com I am not OPPOSING child support, what I am saying is, lets support the child(ren) but not at the expense of your own life, Justice was to be equal under our constitution, the ability to make something of your life! $1300.00 a month of CURRENT chilsupport ORDERED between two courts and take home before tax $1666.67 (and they claim that it could even go UP even though I am only bringing home before tax that amount!) is absurd! Just fix the guidelines, give deductions for what it costs for your basic needs to live and dont make it so even if you are making $70,000.00 you bring home only 30-35 of it, they can even in cases go higher then 50% I am told, they can get 60-70% its out crazy. I do support taking care of your children and in my situation by the way I even contest that they are mine, she slept with more people then you could even imagine, she admits this even to the case worker! I asked for DNA tests they never sent the packet instead they filed and did not serve ME, they served my last address, and me having the SAME phone number they didnt even call to confirm, I had no idea they were trying to serve me, then they get a default, I found this out with my check hitting a LOW 50% of what it should be. Bring into the forum more recourse for those obligated to pay, we have to live too, I am not living some lavish lifestyle, just barely getting by and now due to this I can not even get school items for my other two children that live with me 40% of the time, and im still having to pay the mother of these two as well, ive even tried to get the court to make her pay they denied that! The mother here claims she wants my money just to pay for an SUV, AND SAID THIS IN OPEN COURT, the Judge said she did not have to spend the money ON THE CHILDREN and it was not an issue! ITS OUT RIGHT REDICULAS! THERE ARE CUSTODIAL PARENTS OUT THERE WHO DONT EVEN THINK TO USE THE MONEY FOR THE CHILDREN ONLY AS REVENGE UPON THE PERSON THEY ARE NOT WITH ANY MORE AND ONLY FOR THEIR OWN PERSONAL SELFISH GAMES! THE COURTS OPENLY ALLOW THIS! THEY SAY SOME PEOPLE OUT THERE WHO DONT PAY THEIR CHILD SUPPORT ARE DEAD BEATS, MAKES YOU THINK WHY? BECAUSE SOMETIMES THEY ARE TOLD TO PAY MORE THEN THEY CAN AFFORD? WHEN DO _WE_ GET A CHANCE AT LIFE? WHY IS CHILD SUPPORT A LIFE SENTENCE THESE DAYS? HOW CAN THE GOVERNMENT OPENLY ADMIT AND GET AWAY WITH DOUBLE DIPPING PARENTS? WHEN IS ENOUGH, JUST PLAIN ENOUGH? SEEMS TO ME SOME OF THE CUSTODIAL PARENTS OUT THERE ARE THE TRUE ABUSERS IN SOME SITUATIONS? NOT TO SAY THAT SOME PEOPLE DONT ACTUALLY NEED IT BUT IT NEEDS TO BE MORE _FAIR_!!!! Please visit: http://childsupportunfair.com ----------------------------------------------------------------------------- --This Message Has Been Posted Using A Trial Version Of Message Poster 2003-- ----------------------------------------------------------------------------- Would you like to reach millions of customers for only the cost of bandwidth? You can post messages like this to thousands of newsgroups with a simple to use software application called Message Poster 2003. For more details on this extremely affordable software, visit: http://www.exibitionsoftware.com 886002001 Group Number Gallia Jackson Vintion JVSD |
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Mmmm sounds a bit sus as child support of $1167.41/week equals $60+ thousand a year
- hard to imagine a court ordering someone to pay more than they earm David - who wonder where the guy gets the other $10,000 or so from simple me wrote: But now I see the other side my new hubsadn make 52,000 (pre Taxes) and pays 1167.41 a week!! |
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I meant a month!! I am sorry!!!
"quietguy" wrote in message ... Mmmm sounds a bit sus as child support of $1167.41/week equals $60+ thousand a year - hard to imagine a court ordering someone to pay more than they earm David - who wonder where the guy gets the other $10,000 or so from simple me wrote: But now I see the other side my new hubsadn make 52,000 (pre Taxes) and pays 1167.41 a week!! |
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Also he did have a
job making more money but he took a pay cut when he started teaching instead of actually working in teh trade. "quietguy" wrote in message ... Mmmm sounds a bit sus as child support of $1167.41/week equals $60+ thousand a year - hard to imagine a court ordering someone to pay more than they earm David - who wonder where the guy gets the other $10,000 or so from simple me wrote: But now I see the other side my new hubsadn make 52,000 (pre Taxes) and pays 1167.41 a week!! |
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