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help me keep my son from perpetuating the cycle of abuse (very long)
"Lisa aka Surfer" wrote in message ... "Rolly The Pervert" wrote in message ... "CME" wrote in message ... "Rolly The Pervert" wrote in message ... wrote in message . net... CME wrote: Excuse me? I do not put up with their so called bull****, I'm not going to repeat myself over and over... nor am I going to try and change what they think or post. I've said my peice about Paul et al. and their attack on you, and that is all I'm going to do. Just because I chose to now ignore the onslaught, does not mean I support them. Then my words don't apply to you. I'm sorry Lorian, but you're being foolish by thinking you can. But you still need to say something about how stupid they sound when they call me disgusting names and pick on me when I'm down, it wouldn't be right to just let them get by with going unchallenged. So, you did that, thank you. What I am objecting to is how others here choose to take their side and blame me instead, again, that does not apply to you. Hahahah Do this or you can't be my friend. Like I said, you have no friends here, just people who enable your looney marooness and people who don't And listen up ****or, Peter called you looney maroon long before me ****or, i read your other lies. You ****ed up last night and you know exactly how, and you're sweating it right now aren't you. yes, I'm gonna nail you for it Oh and is supposed to be scared? Wow, what a bully. I see now where she gets the idea that you're an abuser. Christine show me your tits read the FAQ Tom,,,,pics aren't allowed silly boy Surf Ooops. I'll ask her to email m instead then |
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help me keep my son from perpetuating the cycle of abuse (very long)
"CME" wrote in message ... "Rolly The Pervert" wrote in message ... "CME" wrote in message ... "Rolly The Pervert" wrote in message ... wrote in message . net... CME wrote: Excuse me? I do not put up with their so called bull****, I'm not going to repeat myself over and over... nor am I going to try and change what they think or post. I've said my peice about Paul et al. and their attack on you, and that is all I'm going to do. Just because I chose to now ignore the onslaught, does not mean I support them. Then my words don't apply to you. I'm sorry Lorian, but you're being foolish by thinking you can. But you still need to say something about how stupid they sound when they call me disgusting names and pick on me when I'm down, it wouldn't be right to just let them get by with going unchallenged. So, you did that, thank you. What I am objecting to is how others here choose to take their side and blame me instead, again, that does not apply to you. Hahahah Do this or you can't be my friend. Like I said, you have no friends here, just people who enable your looney marooness and people who don't And listen up ****or, Peter called you looney maroon long before me ****or, i read your other lies. You ****ed up last night and you know exactly how, and you're sweating it right now aren't you. yes, I'm gonna nail you for it Oh and is supposed to be scared? Wow, what a bully. I see now where she gets the idea that you're an abuser. Christine show me your tits Ohhh I see... so now I'm a target because I don't agree with you... ohhh who would have thought?! lmao Christine I reply to a post where you attack me, and i'm targeting you., Since lisa says no binaries here. Email me pics of your tits please. ( is that better lisa? ) |
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help me keep my son from perpetuating the cycle of abuse (very long)
"Lisa aka Surfer" wrote in message ... Talk talk talk. My father is of the old school that talk therapy is the key to managing mental illness. From my perspective the only way it does any good is with someone that will simply tell you....."face it, this is how it is" This young lad is 16,,,if anything is to change it better be now, otherwise he's going to be in for a some crappy years. Lorian is enabling him now. Hmmmmm, now here's a thought.....Is failing to parent your child abusive? Lisa Exactly......life isn't always fare......you just have to deal with it. |
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help me keep my son from perpetuating the cycle of abuse (very long)
"Rolly The Pervert" wrote in message . ..
Hahahah Do this or you can't be my friend. Like I said, you have no friends here, just people who enable your looney marooness and people who don't Lorian's my friend. And, you aren't. That is the last time I'll talk to you, too. Karen |
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help me keep my son from perpetuating the cycle of abuse (very long)
"Rolly The Pervert" wrote in message ... "CME" wrote in message ... "Rolly The Pervert" wrote in message ... "CME" wrote in message ... "Rolly The Pervert" wrote in message ... wrote in message . net... CME wrote: Excuse me? I do not put up with their so called bull****, I'm not going to repeat myself over and over... nor am I going to try and change what they think or post. I've said my peice about Paul et al. and their attack on you, and that is all I'm going to do. Just because I chose to now ignore the onslaught, does not mean I support them. Then my words don't apply to you. I'm sorry Lorian, but you're being foolish by thinking you can. But you still need to say something about how stupid they sound when they call me disgusting names and pick on me when I'm down, it wouldn't be right to just let them get by with going unchallenged. So, you did that, thank you. What I am objecting to is how others here choose to take their side and blame me instead, again, that does not apply to you. Hahahah Do this or you can't be my friend. Like I said, you have no friends here, just people who enable your looney marooness and people who don't And listen up ****or, Peter called you looney maroon long before me ****or, i read your other lies. You ****ed up last night and you know exactly how, and you're sweating it right now aren't you. yes, I'm gonna nail you for it Oh and is supposed to be scared? Wow, what a bully. I see now where she gets the idea that you're an abuser. Christine show me your tits Ohhh I see... so now I'm a target because I don't agree with you... ohhh who would have thought?! lmao Christine I reply to a post where you attack me, and i'm targeting you., Since lisa says no binaries here. Email me pics of your tits please. ( is that better lisa? ) Nah, I don't think my BF would go for that... lol. My breasts are for private consumption. Christine |
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help me keep my son from perpetuating the cycle of abuse (very long)
"Rolly The Pervert" wrote in message ... "CME" wrote in message ... "Rolly The Pervert" wrote in message ... "CME" wrote in message ... "Rolly The Pervert" wrote in message ... wrote in message . net... CME wrote: Excuse me? I do not put up with their so called bull****, I'm not going to repeat myself over and over... nor am I going to try and change what they think or post. I've said my peice about Paul et al. and their attack on you, and that is all I'm going to do. Just because I chose to now ignore the onslaught, does not mean I support them. Then my words don't apply to you. I'm sorry Lorian, but you're being foolish by thinking you can. But you still need to say something about how stupid they sound when they call me disgusting names and pick on me when I'm down, it wouldn't be right to just let them get by with going unchallenged. So, you did that, thank you. What I am objecting to is how others here choose to take their side and blame me instead, again, that does not apply to you. Hahahah Do this or you can't be my friend. Like I said, you have no friends here, just people who enable your looney marooness and people who don't And listen up ****or, Peter called you looney maroon long before me ****or, i read your other lies. You ****ed up last night and you know exactly how, and you're sweating it right now aren't you. yes, I'm gonna nail you for it Oh and is supposed to be scared? Wow, what a bully. I see now where she gets the idea that you're an abuser. Christine show me your tits Ohhh I see... so now I'm a target because I don't agree with you... ohhh who would have thought?! lmao Christine I reply to a post where you attack me, and i'm targeting you., Since lisa says no binaries here. Email me pics of your tits please. ( is that better lisa? ) much thanks oh, and while we're at it,,,,thanks for moving from using "c" to start that 4 letter word to "k" I really hate that word It's better when you spell it with a "k" Surf |
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help me keep my son from perpetuating the cycle of abuse (very long)
"Betsy" wrote in message . com... In news:vR7Ta.107086$OZ2.19741@rwcrnsc54, typed: Betsy wrote: Okay, I HAVE been abused. I have to say that I agree with what these folks are saying to the extent of ignoring it. As my mother once had a T-shirt that said, "Don't let the *******s get you down." YOU have the power to not read the posts. You are not listening to me when I say that I feel a deep need to not turn my back on dangerous people like Tom who has threatened to take his harassment of me offline and has in fact done so twice and he knows my real name and location so he has the power to carry through. You people aren't going to defend me so obviously I have to defend myself. Gee, I'm so busy worrying about him now I've forgotten all about my son. If you allow yourself to be hurt by petty name calling, you are allowing yourself to be a victim. Petty name calling? ****, bitch, these are petty name calling? No, these are gender specific slurs, he most definitely singles out women for his hate as he has a really twisted woman hating issues. Feeling pain when men attack me is not my fault, duh. Tom and Paul are quite capable of choosing who they attack and they are quite capable of stopping their behavior, it is their responsibility, not mine. Except that he has called men names too. I have seen it. When he's being a jerk, he doesn't just act out toward females. I disagree with the words he uses, I think it's disgusting. I can choose to killfile him, then won't read his posts. Maybe you could give it a try? You can not be victimized if you will not allow it. Lack of control over being hurt is the very definition of victim. Why am I the only one who seems to get this? If you don't want to stand up to Tom and Paul that is your prerogative but don't give me this highly developed argument about how it is all my fault that they are making fun of my mental illness and of my feminist ideals and of my gender because I refuse to ignore them. I have been called cold hearted, and a bitch more often than I can count; mostly by people who meet the profile of an abuser. Mainly because I stand up for myself. um, I stand up for myself too... They don't like it if they can't hurt you. If it hurts your feelings, don't let them see it. It took me awhile, but I got there. You can too. It's likely more difficult for you because of the extent of abuse, and the mental illness, but it is not impossible. You may think I am attacking you, or assigning the blame to you, but actually this is an attempt at empowerment. I will probably be criticized for it. I don't really care. If you hear the meaning in my words, fine. If not, I can do nothing more. Good Luck. Betsy I can see that you are trying to help me and I take your advice in the spirit with which it is intended but when I am told to ignore the abuser and that it is my fault they are abusing me what I hear is "shut up and take the abuse like a good girl" and it just makes me want to point and scream. See? I never said it was your fault. You read that into it. Basically, however you control your reaction to it. I don't think anything I say will make a difference. You have your belief system. I hope it works for you. I was sharing what works for me. Good Luck Betsy despite everything else, I wish i was more like you -- Meddle not in the affairs of Dragons, for you are crunchy and good with ketchup. |
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help me keep my son from perpetuating the cycle of abuse (very long)
"Betsy" wrote in message . com... In , Rolly The Pervert typed: "Betsy" wrote in message . com... In news:vR7Ta.107086$OZ2.19741@rwcrnsc54, typed: snip despite everything else, I wish i was more like you I am not sure if this is a good thing or bad thing. I am not sure I want to know what you mean by 'everything else.' I may have a different view of things, but I choose to give people the benefit of the doubt when possible. Of course, that's gotten me burned on more than one occasion; and probably will again. Regardless of your wording in some posts, I feel you have something to offer single parents. Some day I may have a problem or a question you have a suggestion to. I choose to keep an open mind at this point. I hope collaboration is possible. Betsy Just ment i apreciate your tolerence of folks I'm usually pretty direct if i'm not being nice -- Meddle not in the affairs of Dragons, for you are crunchy and good with ketchup. |
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help me keep my son from perpetuating the cycle of abuse (very long)
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Rolly The Pervert typed: "Betsy" wrote in message . com... In , Rolly The Pervert typed: "Betsy" wrote in message . com... In news:vR7Ta.107086$OZ2.19741@rwcrnsc54, typed: snip despite everything else, I wish i was more like you I am not sure if this is a good thing or bad thing. I am not sure I want to know what you mean by 'everything else.' I may have a different view of things, but I choose to give people the benefit of the doubt when possible. Of course, that's gotten me burned on more than one occasion; and probably will again. Regardless of your wording in some posts, I feel you have something to offer single parents. Some day I may have a problem or a question you have a suggestion to. I choose to keep an open mind at this point. I hope collaboration is possible. Betsy Just ment i apreciate your tolerence of folks I'm usually pretty direct if i'm not being nice I kinda figured that was the case. :-) -- Meddle not in the affairs of Dragons, for you are crunchy and good with ketchup. |
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