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Father's fury at support delay Agency blasted for favouring mothersover fathers after computer glitch in processing claim
Philip Lewis wrote:
Sounds like they have a feminist computer programmer! Phil -------------------------------------------------------- http://www.highland-news.co.uk/news.asp?storyvar=8761 Father's fury at support delay Agency blasted for favouring mothers over fathers after computer glitch in processing claim By Claire Doughty ASINGLE dad has been left without child maintenance cash from his estranged working wife because of a computer glitch at the Child Support Agency. Christopher MacDonald (40) feared that the agency was playing a double standards game because it was a father who was trying to claim maintenance and not a mother. But his problems would appear to much more high-tech. Mr MacDonald, of Smithton Villas, Inverness, was left wondering why the money he is entitled to from his wife was being delayed - especially when, he says, the CSA was quick enough to take money from him while their son was staying with his mother. What angered him more was that he was left believing that single mothers are given preferential treatment when, he says, he was told by a CSA officer, "mothers have more rights than fathers". He explained: "I feel I am hitting my head against a brick wall with the CSA. I am at a loss as to what to do. "I was told (by the CSA) that there were some computer problems, but I was also told that they would not process a claim against my wife, who has two jobs, until she surrenders the family allowance book. "The CSA told me that fathers looking after a child did not have the same rights as a mother. It made me feel small when they said that to me. ****ing government-employed femroid bitches/*******s. "...first up against the wall when the revolution comes...." "It seems women can get away with more from the CSA than a man can, " Mr MacDonald claimed. "They said that it is not usual for the child to stay with the father and that they normally live with the mothers. "I am trying to provide for my son and an absentee parent should always pay for children too." Mr MacDonald, who also has an 18-year-old daughter Kayleigh, split from his wife last May and she moved out. His 12-year-old son lived with his mother for three weeks, but then moved back to the family home to be with his dad and has been there ever since. However, Mr MacDonald is even more cross at the government body as he was forced to pay money to his wife, when their son lived with her. He said: "When she first moved out, our son went to live with her and she claimed for me to pay maintenance. "I filled in the forms straight away, but by the time the payments were due for me to be made, my son had already moved back home with me. "However, I was told by the CSA I would have to pay £135 which covers a month and then counter claim it. So I paid it. "It took just four or five weeks for money to be taken from me, but I am still waiting months later. "Since then, even though my son is with me, I have had more demands for money. "They said that when a woman claims, it is taken for granted that the child stays with her. When a child lives with the father, it is more complicated. "It is just so wrong that mothers and fathers are treated so differently." A CSA spokeswoman denied that the organisation treated fathers differently to mothers and said that this was not the reason for the delay. She added: "Sometimes cases take slightly longer than others, especially in cases where children change who they are living with. "We have also been having some computer problems which we are working hard to sort out. "We have to find out who has the family allowance book because normally the person who has that has the child. However, we understand that that is not always the case and that should not halt proceedings." Angry dad Christopher MacDonald with the letters he has received from the CSA. First published: 1/16/2004 |
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Father's fury at support delay Agency blasted for favouring mothersover fathers after computer glitch in processing claim
Philip Lewis wrote:
Sounds like they have a feminist computer programmer! Phil -------------------------------------------------------- http://www.highland-news.co.uk/news.asp?storyvar=8761 Father's fury at support delay Agency blasted for favouring mothers over fathers after computer glitch in processing claim By Claire Doughty ASINGLE dad has been left without child maintenance cash from his estranged working wife because of a computer glitch at the Child Support Agency. Christopher MacDonald (40) feared that the agency was playing a double standards game because it was a father who was trying to claim maintenance and not a mother. But his problems would appear to much more high-tech. Mr MacDonald, of Smithton Villas, Inverness, was left wondering why the money he is entitled to from his wife was being delayed - especially when, he says, the CSA was quick enough to take money from him while their son was staying with his mother. What angered him more was that he was left believing that single mothers are given preferential treatment when, he says, he was told by a CSA officer, "mothers have more rights than fathers". He explained: "I feel I am hitting my head against a brick wall with the CSA. I am at a loss as to what to do. "I was told (by the CSA) that there were some computer problems, but I was also told that they would not process a claim against my wife, who has two jobs, until she surrenders the family allowance book. "The CSA told me that fathers looking after a child did not have the same rights as a mother. It made me feel small when they said that to me. ****ing government-employed femroid bitches/*******s. "...first up against the wall when the revolution comes...." "It seems women can get away with more from the CSA than a man can, " Mr MacDonald claimed. "They said that it is not usual for the child to stay with the father and that they normally live with the mothers. "I am trying to provide for my son and an absentee parent should always pay for children too." Mr MacDonald, who also has an 18-year-old daughter Kayleigh, split from his wife last May and she moved out. His 12-year-old son lived with his mother for three weeks, but then moved back to the family home to be with his dad and has been there ever since. However, Mr MacDonald is even more cross at the government body as he was forced to pay money to his wife, when their son lived with her. He said: "When she first moved out, our son went to live with her and she claimed for me to pay maintenance. "I filled in the forms straight away, but by the time the payments were due for me to be made, my son had already moved back home with me. "However, I was told by the CSA I would have to pay £135 which covers a month and then counter claim it. So I paid it. "It took just four or five weeks for money to be taken from me, but I am still waiting months later. "Since then, even though my son is with me, I have had more demands for money. "They said that when a woman claims, it is taken for granted that the child stays with her. When a child lives with the father, it is more complicated. "It is just so wrong that mothers and fathers are treated so differently." A CSA spokeswoman denied that the organisation treated fathers differently to mothers and said that this was not the reason for the delay. She added: "Sometimes cases take slightly longer than others, especially in cases where children change who they are living with. "We have also been having some computer problems which we are working hard to sort out. "We have to find out who has the family allowance book because normally the person who has that has the child. However, we understand that that is not always the case and that should not halt proceedings." Angry dad Christopher MacDonald with the letters he has received from the CSA. First published: 1/16/2004 |
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