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night weaning not going so well
Did I misread something in the original post? I thought she was
saying that the baby *is* waking through the night, and I am responding that perhaps she has not yet grown enough to the point that she does not need extra nourishment during the night. Isn't baby letting her know she needs the feed by waking and refusing to settle without a bottle? no, you didn't misread something, I was questioning the logic of size being related to when a child sleeps through the night, if that was the case, most of yours would have slept through the night from birth (I'm assuming they didn't), as plenty of babies do sleep though at the weights some of yours were at birth, one of mine was definitely only 11 something when he slept through, the other, I don't recall, but unlikely much different from William's birthweight. Anne |
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That said, if she's used to having that much milk during the night then I
think she'd find it a bit difficult to be stopped cold turkey. I think Anne's idea of diluting the milk down is the best one, although I think it would be perfectly reasonable to go faster than the rate Anne recommended. I suggested slowly because she'd been refusing completely water, so I was thinking this baby is going to reject it if she notices a change, hence suggesting such tiny changes, I guess try faster first, but if it doesn't work, don't give up, just change more gradually, so that from day to day there is no perceptible difference, but over a month you've made the transition. Anne |
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"Anne Rogers" wrote in message ... Did I misread something in the original post? I thought she was saying that the baby *is* waking through the night, and I am responding that perhaps she has not yet grown enough to the point that she does not need extra nourishment during the night. Isn't baby letting her know she needs the feed by waking and refusing to settle without a bottle? no, you didn't misread something, I was questioning the logic of size being related to when a child sleeps through the night, if that was the case, most of yours would have slept through the night from birth (I'm assuming they didn't), as plenty of babies do sleep though at the weights some of yours were at birth, one of mine was definitely only 11 something when he slept through, the other, I don't recall, but unlikely much different from William's birthweight. When Leslie said 'little' I took it to mean little as in only 15mos old and nothing to do with actual weight at all. -- Nikki, mama to Hunter 4/99 Luke 4/01 Brock 4/06 Ben 4/06 |
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"determined" wrote in message . .. She is still relatively small, at around 20 lbs, but she eats well, and is not a picky eater. The problem is, she still cries 3-4 times per night. We have tried to let her cry it out, but most of the time, she just becomes more insistant. The only thing that calms her down, and it works like magic, is a bottle. I don't want to do this anymore! We have tried putting water in the bottle, and she just won't go for it. So we have tried cutting the milk with water, about half and half, but it doesn't make her wake any less. We feed her well through the day, she takes a tippy cup all day, but won't accept it at night. I don't know for sure what I'd do about the walking. I'd probably get the eval if the ped thinks there is reason, just to be on the safe side. It is just a little of your time. I think they are free and they are usually fun for the babies. For the night weaning there a few different tactics you could try. When I night weaned mine with one I shortened the feeds until they were nearly gone and then I eliminated them. It took a long time and even after they were all gone he still woke and asked for them for months. There was a tiny bit of crying but not bad. You could make the bottle smaller by an ounce every few days (however many you think) until she is down to an ounce and then just stop them. She'll probably cry but at least she won't be all that hungry. With the twins I lengthened the time between their middle of the night feeds until all the feeds disappeared one by one. I went quicker, they cried more. They were in their crib versus co-sleeping. In a couple weeks we were all done with the night waking and they sleep much better now at 11mos then my other two did at 4yo. I would suggest getting some sleep books at the library. -- Nikki, mama to Hunter 4/99 Luke 4/01 Brock 4/06 Ben 4/06 |
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On Mar 18, 10:24�pm, "Anne Rogers" wrote:
Did I misread something in the original post? *I thought she was saying that the baby *is* waking through the night, and I am responding that perhaps she has not yet grown enough to the point that she does not need extra nourishment during the night. *Isn't baby letting her know she needs the feed by waking and refusing to settle without a bottle? no, you didn't misread something, I was questioning the logic of size being related to when a child sleeps through the night, if that was the case, most of yours would have slept through the night from birth (I'm assuming they didn't), as plenty of babies do sleep though at the weights some of yours were at birth, one of mine was definitely only 11 something when he slept through, the other, I don't recall, but unlikely much different from William's birthweight. Oh, I see. Well, it still makes sense to me; if my babies, who were so much bigger, were waking during the night to eat, then surely I would think a smaller baby would have that much more reason to want to eat at night! Leslie |
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On Mar 18, 6:58�pm, Sarah Vaughan wrote:
Leslie wrote: [...] Isn't baby letting her know she needs the feed by waking and refusing to settle without a bottle? Not necessarily. *It might well be just that she wants the milk, rather than needing it. *I have to say that I doubt that a fifteen-month-old who is eating well during the day can't make it through the night without three or four bottles of milk, so I suspect that a large part of it if not all is a want rather than a need. That said, if she's used to having that much milk during the night then I think she'd find it a bit difficult to be stopped cold turkey. *I think Anne's idea of diluting the milk down is the best one, although I think it would be perfectly reasonable to go faster than the rate Anne recommended. Bottlefeeding during the night not being something I've ever experienced, this is not within my area of expertise. :-) And of course a breastfed baby may nurse many times off and on throughout the night without taking in a whole lot of milk! Leslie |
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Oh, I see. Well, it still makes sense to me; if my babies, who were so much bigger, were waking during the night to eat, then surely I would think a smaller baby would have that much more reason to want to eat at night! on which basis, both my children would still NEED to eat during the night, they are either side of double William's birth weight, the nearly 2yr old is about 26 pounds and the nearly 4yr old is about 28 pounds. I've heard it said that babies don't wake due to hunger, but wake and feel hungry, so in part good sleeping is learning to either not wake up, or fall asleep again despite being hungry. I'm not the greatest sleeper myself, I've noticed that if I'm slow to fall asleep at night, I may feel hungry, but it's another couple of hours before than hunger becomes the thing that prevents me from sleeping, similarly if I wake in the night, usually due to a child, I'm often hungry, but mostly a drink of water suffices, it's only if it's about 5am that I find there is no way of going back to sleep without eating. Anne |
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In article ,
"Sue" wrote: I think you rely too heavily on what studies and books say and not enough into experiences and/or anecdotes from people who have been there. My Mum has been smoking for more than 50 years and she doesn't have lung cancer, so all those pesky studies are wrong. Right? Experiences and anecdotes don't replace sound data. They complement it. -- Chookie -- Sydney, Australia (Replace "foulspambegone" with "optushome" to reply) "Parenthood is like the modern stone washing process for denim jeans. You may start out crisp, neat and tough, but you end up pale, limp and wrinkled." Kerry Cue |
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" wrote in message oups.com... On 16 Mar, 16:26, "Sue" wrote: "determined" wrote in message . .. Emily is 15 months now. Still not walking, but standing without holding onto anything for a few seconds at a time, crawls up the stairs, crawls off the couch, pushes around her walker, all unassisted. But my doc is still insisting we bring her to pediatric physical therapy since she isn't walking. I flatly refused again yesterday when they called to schedule an appt, but it is so irritating... There is certanily nothing wrong with getting an evaluation, as it may help her or it may prove that there is nothing wrong. I am not sure why you would hesitate to have someone look at her even if it was for reasurrance. I would look it the other way and ask why would you want to look for reassurance when Emily is still *well* within the normal range. If I've got it right mum isn't concerned so why would she need to waste time at a peds if there is no reason to be worried? It's not as if parents don't have enough to worry about when things are actually wrong, without worrying about them when they aren't. Jeni That's pretty much it. My first daughter didn't walk until 16 months, so I presume with Emily's level of mobility she'll get there in her own time... |
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"Nikki" wrote in message newsYSdnceY7b31mGPYnZ2dnUVZ_qqrnZ2d@prairiewave. com... "determined" wrote in message . .. She is still relatively small, at around 20 lbs, but she eats well, and is not a picky eater. The problem is, she still cries 3-4 times per night. We have tried to let her cry it out, but most of the time, she just becomes more insistant. The only thing that calms her down, and it works like magic, is a bottle. I don't want to do this anymore! We have tried putting water in the bottle, and she just won't go for it. So we have tried cutting the milk with water, about half and half, but it doesn't make her wake any less. We feed her well through the day, she takes a tippy cup all day, but won't accept it at night. I don't know for sure what I'd do about the walking. I'd probably get the eval if the ped thinks there is reason, just to be on the safe side. It is just a little of your time. I think they are free and they are usually fun for the babies. For the night weaning there a few different tactics you could try. When I night weaned mine with one I shortened the feeds until they were nearly gone and then I eliminated them. It took a long time and even after they were all gone he still woke and asked for them for months. There was a tiny bit of crying but not bad. You could make the bottle smaller by an ounce every few days (however many you think) until she is down to an ounce and then Here's the funny thing - the bottles only have about an ounce in them now... And that's all it takes for her to go back to sleep. But try to NOT give her a bottle at all, and she'll scream and cry for 15+ minutes. And I don't have the stamina at night to let her CIO. |
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