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4 -year-old Accused of Improperly Touching Teacher
Interesting story.
Let's consider. Teachers and teachers aides are frequently spontaneously hugged by children without anything at all being made of it. What was so "special" about this hug that the aide felt compelled to report it? Uh huh. You guessed it. It's not hard to tell the difference between a genuine affectionate hug, and one loaded with sexual imperative. Children that have been exposed to sexual activity can very quickly be developmentally compromised. And the notion a 4 year old is 'sexually innocent?' Well, R R R R R R .... Not if someone has already introduced them to sexual activity. The police should look into this case. Most large metro areas have a Crimes Against Children unit. And if you men don't believe me about knowing when a "hug" is sexually loaded, ask a woman. Kane http://www.kxxv.com/Global/story.asp?S=5785699 4 -year-old Accused of Improperly Touching Teacher Dec 8, 2006 08:51 PM by Jennifer Kent BELLMEAD- A four-year-old hugged his teachers aide and was put into in-school suspension, according to the father. But La Vega school administrators have a different story. Damarcus Blackwell's four-year-old son was lining-up to get on the bus after school last month, when he was accused of rubbing his face in the chest of a female employee. The prinicipal of La Vega Primary School sent a letter to the Blackwells that said the pre-kindergartener demonstrated "inappropriate physical behavior interpreted as sexual contact and/or sexual harassment." Blackwell says it's ridiculous that the aide would misread a hug from a four-year-old. Blackwell wrote to administrators demanding that the whole incident be expunged from his son's academic file because his son is too young to know what it means to act sexually. David Davis, the executive director of the Advocacy Center in Waco tends to agree with Blackwell. He says assuming the boy has not had sexual encounters, or been inappropriately exposed to pornography, most four-year-olds are sexually innocent. Blackwell got a response from the La Vega administration. The sexual references on the discipline referral were removed. But the thing that makes Blackwell most upset is they told him "your request for an apology by the aide and removal of all paperwork regarding this incident is denied." Now the young student's file will refer to the incident as "inappropriate physical contact." And Blackwell says he will continue to fight the district. La Vega I.S.D. administrators told News Channel 25 they couldn't comment on this case because of student privacy issues. All content © Copyright 2000 - 2006 WorldNow and KXXV. All Rights Reserved. For more information on this site, please read our Privacy Policy and Terms of Service. |
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4 -year-old Accused of Improperly Touching Teacher
Kane wrote
It's not hard to tell the difference between a genuine affectionate hug, and one loaded with sexual imperative How do we know the tot wasn't hungry and having residual breast feeding reflex? Isn't that MORE likely than a sexual connotation in a 4 year old? Would it be normal for a 4 year old to have boundaries making them avoid contact with breasts? Do we really know that the tot rubbing their face in clothed boobs wouldn't have done the same thing with a soft tummy? You'd start a sex abuse WITCH HUNT over this? 0:- wrote: Interesting story. Let's consider. Teachers and teachers aides are frequently spontaneously hugged by children without anything at all being made of it. What was so "special" about this hug that the aide felt compelled to report it? Uh huh. You guessed it. It's not hard to tell the difference between a genuine affectionate hug, and one loaded with sexual imperative. Children that have been exposed to sexual activity can very quickly be developmentally compromised. And the notion a 4 year old is 'sexually innocent?' Well, R R R R R R .... Not if someone has already introduced them to sexual activity. The police should look into this case. Most large metro areas have a Crimes Against Children unit. And if you men don't believe me about knowing when a "hug" is sexually loaded, ask a woman. Kane http://www.kxxv.com/Global/story.asp?S=5785699 4 -year-old Accused of Improperly Touching Teacher Dec 8, 2006 08:51 PM by Jennifer Kent BELLMEAD- A four-year-old hugged his teachers aide and was put into in-school suspension, according to the father. But La Vega school administrators have a different story. Damarcus Blackwell's four-year-old son was lining-up to get on the bus after school last month, when he was accused of rubbing his face in the chest of a female employee. The prinicipal of La Vega Primary School sent a letter to the Blackwells that said the pre-kindergartener demonstrated "inappropriate physical behavior interpreted as sexual contact and/or sexual harassment." Blackwell says it's ridiculous that the aide would misread a hug from a four-year-old. Blackwell wrote to administrators demanding that the whole incident be expunged from his son's academic file because his son is too young to know what it means to act sexually. David Davis, the executive director of the Advocacy Center in Waco tends to agree with Blackwell. He says assuming the boy has not had sexual encounters, or been inappropriately exposed to pornography, most four-year-olds are sexually innocent. Blackwell got a response from the La Vega administration. The sexual references on the discipline referral were removed. But the thing that makes Blackwell most upset is they told him "your request for an apology by the aide and removal of all paperwork regarding this incident is denied." Now the young student's file will refer to the incident as "inappropriate physical contact." And Blackwell says he will continue to fight the district. La Vega I.S.D. administrators told News Channel 25 they couldn't comment on this case because of student privacy issues. All content © Copyright 2000 - 2006 WorldNow and KXXV. All Rights Reserved. For more information on this site, please read our Privacy Policy and Terms of Service. |
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4 -year-old Accused of Improperly Touching Teacher
Greegor wrote: Kane wrote It's not hard to tell the difference between a genuine affectionate hug, and one loaded with sexual imperative How do we know the tot wasn't hungry and having residual breast feeding reflex? Was his name Greg? Isn't that MORE likely than a sexual connotation in a 4 year old? Nope. Few 4 year olds have any desire to nurse. Would it be normal for a 4 year old to have boundaries making them avoid contact with breasts? Yes. They have all kinds of boundaries by 4, Greg. Do we really know that the tot rubbing their face in clothed boobs wouldn't have done the same thing with a soft tummy? You'd have to ask the aide that it happened to. Usually they are quite aware of innocent contacts vs sexual ones. Ask a woman. You'd start a sex abuse WITCH HUNT over this? Nope, but an investigation into what other things are happening in this child's life to warrant his behavior. You afraid of an investigation, Greg? Given things you've written about yourself, and you seeming unconsciousness about sexuality, including your own, I don't think YOU'D be a good judge of what a child's behavior indicated. I think women are born with a built in detector that grows more accurate over time. Can you guess why this might be? When I worked in mental health work I found that all of the children the agency treated had such problems. Most traced to sexual abuse by someone. Teachers and aides have to be aware of such behaviors both for their own protection and that of the children. You'd be amazed how often it works out they were right. Do you know why these thing get reported now and did not so much in the past? At one time such things never got past the principal's desk. The bad PR you see. So many a child went back home to an abuser. No help, more abuse. The times they are a changin' Greg. Bother you does it? Good. 0:- wrote: Interesting story. Let's consider. Teachers and teachers aides are frequently spontaneously hugged by children without anything at all being made of it. What was so "special" about this hug that the aide felt compelled to report it? Uh huh. You guessed it. It's not hard to tell the difference between a genuine affectionate hug, and one loaded with sexual imperative. Children that have been exposed to sexual activity can very quickly be developmentally compromised. And the notion a 4 year old is 'sexually innocent?' Well, R R R R R R .... Not if someone has already introduced them to sexual activity. The police should look into this case. Most large metro areas have a Crimes Against Children unit. And if you men don't believe me about knowing when a "hug" is sexually loaded, ask a woman. Kane http://www.kxxv.com/Global/story.asp?S=5785699 4 -year-old Accused of Improperly Touching Teacher Dec 8, 2006 08:51 PM by Jennifer Kent BELLMEAD- A four-year-old hugged his teachers aide and was put into in-school suspension, according to the father. But La Vega school administrators have a different story. Damarcus Blackwell's four-year-old son was lining-up to get on the bus after school last month, when he was accused of rubbing his face in the chest of a female employee. The prinicipal of La Vega Primary School sent a letter to the Blackwells that said the pre-kindergartener demonstrated "inappropriate physical behavior interpreted as sexual contact and/or sexual harassment." Blackwell says it's ridiculous that the aide would misread a hug from a four-year-old. Blackwell wrote to administrators demanding that the whole incident be expunged from his son's academic file because his son is too young to know what it means to act sexually. David Davis, the executive director of the Advocacy Center in Waco tends to agree with Blackwell. He says assuming the boy has not had sexual encounters, or been inappropriately exposed to pornography, most four-year-olds are sexually innocent. Blackwell got a response from the La Vega administration. The sexual references on the discipline referral were removed. But the thing that makes Blackwell most upset is they told him "your request for an apology by the aide and removal of all paperwork regarding this incident is denied." Now the young student's file will refer to the incident as "inappropriate physical contact." And Blackwell says he will continue to fight the district. La Vega I.S.D. administrators told News Channel 25 they couldn't comment on this case because of student privacy issues. All content © Copyright 2000 - 2006 WorldNow and KXXV. All Rights Reserved. For more information on this site, please read our Privacy Policy and Terms of Service. |
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0:- wrote: Greegor wrote: Kane wrote It's not hard to tell the difference between a genuine affectionate hug, and one loaded with sexual imperative How do we know the tot wasn't hungry and having residual breast feeding reflex? Was his name Greg? Isn't that MORE likely than a sexual connotation in a 4 year old? Nope. Few 4 year olds have any desire to nurse. That's not very Freudian of you! Would it be normal for a 4 year old to have boundaries making them avoid contact with breasts? Yes. They have all kinds of boundaries by 4, Greg. Do we really know that the tot rubbing their face in clothed boobs wouldn't have done the same thing with a soft tummy? You'd have to ask the aide that it happened to. Usually they are quite aware of innocent contacts vs sexual ones. Ask a woman. You'd start a sex abuse WITCH HUNT over this? Nope, but an investigation into what other things are happening in this child's life to warrant his behavior. You afraid of an investigation, Greg? Given things you've written about yourself, and you seeming unconsciousness about sexuality, including your own, I don't think YOU'D be a good judge of what a child's behavior indicated. I think women are born with a built in detector that grows more accurate over time. Can you guess why this might be? When I worked in mental health work I found that all of the children the agency treated had such problems. Most traced to sexual abuse by someone. Teachers and aides have to be aware of such behaviors both for their own protection and that of the children. You'd be amazed how often it works out they were right. Do you know why these thing get reported now and did not so much in the past? At one time such things never got past the principal's desk. The bad PR you see. So many a child went back home to an abuser. No help, more abuse. The times they are a changin' Greg. Bother you does it? Good. 0:- wrote: Interesting story. Let's consider. Teachers and teachers aides are frequently spontaneously hugged by children without anything at all being made of it. What was so "special" about this hug that the aide felt compelled to report it? Uh huh. You guessed it. It's not hard to tell the difference between a genuine affectionate hug, and one loaded with sexual imperative. Children that have been exposed to sexual activity can very quickly be developmentally compromised. And the notion a 4 year old is 'sexually innocent?' Well, R R R R R R .... Not if someone has already introduced them to sexual activity. The police should look into this case. Most large metro areas have a Crimes Against Children unit. And if you men don't believe me about knowing when a "hug" is sexually loaded, ask a woman. Kane http://www.kxxv.com/Global/story.asp?S=5785699 4 -year-old Accused of Improperly Touching Teacher Dec 8, 2006 08:51 PM by Jennifer Kent BELLMEAD- A four-year-old hugged his teachers aide and was put into in-school suspension, according to the father. But La Vega school administrators have a different story. Damarcus Blackwell's four-year-old son was lining-up to get on the bus after school last month, when he was accused of rubbing his face in the chest of a female employee. The prinicipal of La Vega Primary School sent a letter to the Blackwells that said the pre-kindergartener demonstrated "inappropriate physical behavior interpreted as sexual contact and/or sexual harassment." Blackwell says it's ridiculous that the aide would misread a hug from a four-year-old. Blackwell wrote to administrators demanding that the whole incident be expunged from his son's academic file because his son is too young to know what it means to act sexually. David Davis, the executive director of the Advocacy Center in Waco tends to agree with Blackwell. He says assuming the boy has not had sexual encounters, or been inappropriately exposed to pornography, most four-year-olds are sexually innocent. Blackwell got a response from the La Vega administration. The sexual references on the discipline referral were removed. But the thing that makes Blackwell most upset is they told him "your request for an apology by the aide and removal of all paperwork regarding this incident is denied." Now the young student's file will refer to the incident as "inappropriate physical contact." And Blackwell says he will continue to fight the district. La Vega I.S.D. administrators told News Channel 25 they couldn't comment on this case because of student privacy issues. All content © Copyright 2000 - 2006 WorldNow and KXXV. All Rights Reserved. For more information on this site, please read our Privacy Policy and Terms of Service. |
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Greegor wrote: 0:- wrote: Greegor wrote: Kane wrote It's not hard to tell the difference between a genuine affectionate hug, and one loaded with sexual imperative How do we know the tot wasn't hungry and having residual breast feeding reflex? Was his name Greg? Isn't that MORE likely than a sexual connotation in a 4 year old? Nope. Few 4 year olds have any desire to nurse. Greg the Oblivious replies: That's not very Freudian of you! Would it be normal for a 4 year old to have boundaries making them avoid contact with breasts? Yes. They have all kinds of boundaries by 4, Greg. Do we really know that the tot rubbing their face in clothed boobs wouldn't have done the same thing with a soft tummy? You'd have to ask the aide that it happened to. Usually they are quite aware of innocent contacts vs sexual ones. Ask a woman. You'd start a sex abuse WITCH HUNT over this? Nope, but an investigation into what other things are happening in this child's life to warrant his behavior. You afraid of an investigation, Greg? Given things you've written about yourself, and you seeming unconsciousness about sexuality, including your own, I don't think YOU'D be a good judge of what a child's behavior indicated. I think women are born with a built in detector that grows more accurate over time. Can you guess why this might be? When I worked in mental health work I found that all of the children the agency treated had such problems. Most traced to sexual abuse by someone. Teachers and aides have to be aware of such behaviors both for their own protection and that of the children. You'd be amazed how often it works out they were right. Do you know why these thing get reported now and did not so much in the past? At one time such things never got past the principal's desk. The bad PR you see. So many a child went back home to an abuser. No help, more abuse. The times they are a changin' Greg. Bother you does it? Good. 0:- wrote: Interesting story. Let's consider. Teachers and teachers aides are frequently spontaneously hugged by children without anything at all being made of it. What was so "special" about this hug that the aide felt compelled to report it? Uh huh. You guessed it. It's not hard to tell the difference between a genuine affectionate hug, and one loaded with sexual imperative. Children that have been exposed to sexual activity can very quickly be developmentally compromised. And the notion a 4 year old is 'sexually innocent?' Well, R R R R R R .... Not if someone has already introduced them to sexual activity. The police should look into this case. Most large metro areas have a Crimes Against Children unit. And if you men don't believe me about knowing when a "hug" is sexually loaded, ask a woman. Kane http://www.kxxv.com/Global/story.asp?S=5785699 4 -year-old Accused of Improperly Touching Teacher Dec 8, 2006 08:51 PM by Jennifer Kent BELLMEAD- A four-year-old hugged his teachers aide and was put into in-school suspension, according to the father. But La Vega school administrators have a different story. Damarcus Blackwell's four-year-old son was lining-up to get on the bus after school last month, when he was accused of rubbing his face in the chest of a female employee. The prinicipal of La Vega Primary School sent a letter to the Blackwells that said the pre-kindergartener demonstrated "inappropriate physical behavior interpreted as sexual contact and/or sexual harassment." Blackwell says it's ridiculous that the aide would misread a hug from a four-year-old. Blackwell wrote to administrators demanding that the whole incident be expunged from his son's academic file because his son is too young to know what it means to act sexually. David Davis, the executive director of the Advocacy Center in Waco tends to agree with Blackwell. He says assuming the boy has not had sexual encounters, or been inappropriately exposed to pornography, most four-year-olds are sexually innocent. Blackwell got a response from the La Vega administration. The sexual references on the discipline referral were removed. But the thing that makes Blackwell most upset is they told him "your request for an apology by the aide and removal of all paperwork regarding this incident is denied." Now the young student's file will refer to the incident as "inappropriate physical contact." And Blackwell says he will continue to fight the district. La Vega I.S.D. administrators told News Channel 25 they couldn't comment on this case because of student privacy issues. All content © Copyright 2000 - 2006 WorldNow and KXXV. All Rights Reserved. For more information on this site, please read our Privacy Policy and Terms of Service. |
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Greg wrote
How do we know the tot wasn't hungry and having residual breast feeding reflex? Isn't that MORE likely than a sexual connotation in a 4 year old? Kane wrote Nope. Few 4 year olds have any desire to nurse. Greg wrote That's not very Freudian of you! |
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Greegor wrote: Greg wrote How do we know the tot wasn't hungry and having residual breast feeding reflex? Isn't that MORE likely than a sexual connotation in a 4 year old? Kane wrote Nope. Few 4 year olds have any desire to nurse. Greg wrote That's not very Freudian of you! Relevance? |
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0:- wrote: Greegor wrote: Greg wrote How do we know the tot wasn't hungry and having residual breast feeding reflex? Isn't that MORE likely than a sexual connotation in a 4 year old? Kane wrote Nope. Few 4 year olds have any desire to nurse. Greg wrote That's not very Freudian of you! Relevance? Probable Cause?? |
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Greegor wrote:
0:- wrote: Greegor wrote: Greg wrote How do we know the tot wasn't hungry and having residual breast feeding reflex? Isn't that MORE likely than a sexual connotation in a 4 year old? Kane wrote Nope. Few 4 year olds have any desire to nurse. Greg wrote That's not very Freudian of you! Relevance? Probable Cause?? There no remedy for that kind of choking. Sorry. |
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4 -year-old Accused of Improperly Touching Teacher
0:- wrote: Greegor wrote: 0:- wrote: Greegor wrote: Greg wrote How do we know the tot wasn't hungry and having residual breast feeding reflex? Isn't that MORE likely than a sexual connotation in a 4 year old? Kane wrote Nope. Few 4 year olds have any desire to nurse. Greg wrote That's not very Freudian of you! Relevance? Probable Cause?? There no remedy for that kind of choking. Sorry. How did Freud interpret choking? Please explain! You think a 4 year old touching breasts is sexual? |
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