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80% of babies with Down Syndrome are born to mothers under
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... About 80% of babies with Down Syndrome are born to mothers under the age of 35. so they should quit trying to frighten us mothers over the age of 35!! Yes, I was quite surprised when I joined the sorority of mothers of children with Down syndrome to find that they weren't just a bunch of old ladies (I was 35 when my child was born but 34 when the amnio would have been done). I have to say, too, that it's the greatest group I never wanted to join. Realistically, the reason that 80% of babies w/DS are born to mothers under 35 is because most aren't offered the testing that would detect it. The AFP, often derided because it gives such a high level of false positives also gives a pretty high level of false negatives as well (mine came back without any indications of problems). The reason that 35 is the magic age is that it's the age at which the risk of miscarriage from the amnio is less than the risk of having a child with DS at that, or a higher, age. Something like 95% of pregnancies with a prenatal diagnosis of the baby having Down syndrome (definitively, using amnio) are terminated. I've never been anti-abortion and I'm still not, but I'm very grateful that I never had to make that decision (never an unwanted pregnancy and never knew my daughter would have DS) because emotionally I know it would be very difficult to deal with whatever the reason. Leigh in raLeigh |
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80% of babies with Down Syndrome are born to mothers under
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... About 80% of babies with Down Syndrome are born to mothers under the age of 35. so they should quit trying to frighten us mothers over the age of 35!! But the reason that is so is that: a) Significantly more babies are born to women under 35 than over it. b) Amniocentesis and CVS, which can positively identify Down Syndrome, are not typically offered to women 35 without some evidence of high risk (i.e., a "positive" AFP). c) Since women 35 are more likely to get amniocentesis/CVS, more fetuses with Down Syndrome are identified before birth, and the majority of those pregnancies are subsequently terminated. Any way you slice it, the per capita risk of carrying or giving birth to a baby with Down Syndrome increases with maternal age. It increases slightly every year through a woman's 20s and 30s and continues to do so until she reaches menopause. The only reason 35 is "important" is that it is the point at which the per capita risk of trisomy (including Downs) is slightly greater than the per capita risk of miscarriage due to amniocentesis or CVS. It's not that the risk is vastly greater at 35 than at 34; it's just that it's enough greater that the risks of the procedure to diagnose it are perceived to be outweighed by the benefits. -- Be well, Barbara (Julian [6], Aurora [4], and Vernon's [19mo] mom) This week's special at the English Language Butcher Shop: "Use repeatedly for severe damage." -- Directions on shampoo bottle Daddy: You're up with the chickens this morning. Aurora: No, I'm up with my dolls! All opinions expressed in this post are well-reasoned and insightful. Needless to say, they are not those of my Internet Service Provider, its other subscribers or lackeys. Anyone who says otherwise is itchin' for a fight. -- with apologies to Michael Feldman |
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... I do not believe that a dead baby and a down syndrome baby are comparable at all and I object to doctors who make it sound that way. I'd take a trisomy 21 baby over a miscarriage any day of the week! Then don't have an amnio to detect DS. No one's forcing you to do so; a recommendation isn't a requirement. -- Be well, Barbara (Julian [6], Aurora [4], and Vernon's [19mo] mom) This week's special at the English Language Butcher Shop: "Use repeatedly for severe damage." -- Directions on shampoo bottle Daddy: You're up with the chickens this morning. Aurora: No, I'm up with my dolls! All opinions expressed in this post are well-reasoned and insightful. Needless to say, they are not those of my Internet Service Provider, its other subscribers or lackeys. Anyone who says otherwise is itchin' for a fight. -- with apologies to Michael Feldman |
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news Never said I was being forced. I said I object to doctors saying the risk of misscarriage is something to be compared to the risk of having a baby with trisomy 21. You can object to it all you want. However, the majority of women who find out their fetuses have trisomy 21 terminate their pregnancies. This suggests that for many, if not all, people, the risk of miscarriage is comparable to the risk of having a baby with Downs. YMMV. Further more, doctors are *not* saying that the risk of miscarriage is the same as the risk of having a baby with Downs. They are saying that when the miscarriage risk rate equals the risk rate for a baby having Downs syndrome, the *likelihood* of detecting a Downs fetus that the mother might choose to terminate equals the risk of the procedure causing her to miscarriage either a healthy or unhealthy fetus. It's not that miscarriage and having a baby with Downs are alike in any way, shape, or form--just that the likelihood of the test yielding a result with actionable information is as high or higher than the risk of the procedure resulting in a miscarriage. Doctors don't want to subject women to a risky test if that risk exceeds the likelihood of the test providing results that can be acted upon. -- Be well, Barbara (Julian [6], Aurora [4], and Vernon's [19mo] mom) This week's special at the English Language Butcher Shop: "Use repeatedly for severe damage." -- Directions on shampoo bottle Daddy: You're up with the chickens this morning. Aurora: No, I'm up with my dolls! All opinions expressed in this post are well-reasoned and insightful. Needless to say, they are not those of my Internet Service Provider, its other subscribers or lackeys. Anyone who says otherwise is itchin' for a fight. -- with apologies to Michael Feldman |
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Clisby misc.kids.pregnancy:
Personally, I would consider having a child with Downs to be a much worse outcome than a miscarriage - so my perception will be different from yours, and I make my decisions accordingly. My doctor had nothing to do with it. wrote: Wow, I did not realize that so many people felt that way. They must, if there is that 95% terminiation rate of a positive amnio for Downs Syndrome. My impression is that if a woman gives birth to a Downs baby, she carries on and figures out what to do with the baby to take care of him or her, but if a woman finds out at 18 weeks, most by far choose not to carry the baby to term. I have had now two false positive AFP screens (both boys, I must just have odd hormone levels with boys). The first time I was not quite 30 and refused the amnio because though the risk was increased 10 fold, they screwed up the gestational age and I didn't think the miscarriage risk was worth it without a truly valid test. This time, almost 35, with the same 10 fold increase, I was down to a 1/44 risk (they screwed up gest. age again too). That seemed high enough to me to risk an amnio. The reason it was higher risk is that my age had increased. The large number of babies born to women under 35 is a function of how the statistics are presented. MORE babies are born to women under 35 so fundamentally even with a lower risk, that risk x lots of babies results in most of the DS babies that are born. That doesn't change that around and after 35 the *individual* risk is a lot higher per baby. I wanted to know, because I felt I probably would not continue a pregnancy with a DS baby. I have to admit I was relieved not to have to make that particular decision (the baby came has normal chromosomes and XY too!). But by having the amnio done, I was saying that the risk of miscarriage was acceptable if it meant I could have that decision power if a problem was found and I knew what I would probably decide if the results showed a problem. The genetics counselor was excellent and went over issues about Down Syndrome nowadays versus in the past, that a baby would have a longer life span, things like that. I wanted more specific data on percent of babies with mild vs severe problems and had to look that up myself though. Also, that a lot of people were on lists waiting to adopt babies with Downs Syndrome. I didn't know that. It didn't help though. It's so weird that so many people get tested and only talk about these BIG (imho) issues only if there is a problem. I'm guilty of that for sure, having done the AFP again without thinking about what I would do if it came back a positive screen this time as well! At least I went into the amnio fully informed, but being fully informed and understanding what my decision meant to me was a lot harder. Carolyn due with #2: 2-16-2004 -- Carolyn Fairman http://www.stanford.edu/~cfairman/ |
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On Thu, 23 Oct 2003 16:47:18 GMT, Clisby misc.kids.pregnancy : Personally, I would consider having a child with Downs to be a much worse outcome than a miscarriage - so my perception will be different from yours, and I make my decisions accordingly. My doctor had nothing to do with it. Wow, I did not realize that so many people felt that way. Add me. A miscarriage caused by amnio would be terrible, but I'd have coped, and probably gone on to have a healthy baby at some point in the future. If my child has Down Syndrome, I will never have a healthy baby (we intend to have one child, and I doubt that our first having DS would make us *more* likely to have a second). The most likely comparison of outcomes is the grief of m/c plus a healthy baby to bring up and love, versus the grief of never having a healthy baby plus a DS baby to bring up and love. Comparing the probabilities of these outcomes seems reasonable, though there's nothing magical about the point where the two probabilities are numerically equal. I'm sorry if that seems brutal to people, but that's how I see it. Having said that, on the basis of non-invasive testing, I decided not to have amnio in this pregnancy, because given the info from the non-invasive testing the chance of m/c from amnio seemed too high. If my child has DS, I will be the best mother I possibly can to that child. I make no apologies, though, for having wanted to decrease the chance of my having to accept this challenge. I would prefer to be accepting the challenge of bringing up a child without DS. Sidheag edd Oct 13th |
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80% of babies with Down Syndrome are born to mothers under
wrote in message ... On Thu, 23 Oct 2003 11:36:35 -0400, Ericka Kammerer misc.kids.pregnancy : I do not believe that a dead baby and a down syndrome baby are comparable at all and I object to doctors who make it sound that way. I'd take a trisomy 21 baby over a miscarriage any day of the week! The life expectancy of DS children trisomy 21 has doubled recently. The other more severe types of trisomy can be detected on Ultrasound at 18 weeks due to the other problems that come with the worse trisomy's. Hey this is what my genetics counselor told me when I had my level II ultrasound at 18 weeks. Now Trisomy 21 can be harder to detect unless you go the amnio route. But I'd rather have a kid with trisomy 21 than have a miscarriage.. That's my choice... others are free to make their own choices and without criticism from me. I'm not arguing with your point, in fact I'm living it out because the choice to decline the amnio was one I made as well. It was my choice not to have the amnio and I'm living with the consequences. FWIW, if you are carrying a baby that has DS, the chance of miscarrying *after* 20 weeks is about 43%. That statistic was posted by Dr Len Leshin on the Down syndrome listserv today. So even if you choose not to have the amnio, if your fetus has DS you still might have the miscarriage. In my case, my daughter stopped growing at 35 weeks and they decided to deliver. It was then that they discovered that she had DS. I have been told that she probably would have been stillborn if she hadn't been delivered when she was. Oh, and I had a fetal echocardiogram while I was pregnant with her because I had had gestational diabetes in a previous pregnancy and her report came back as showing no abnormalities. This past summer (at age 4) she had open heart surgery to correct an ASD, a VSD and a deformed valve. Leigh in raLeigh |
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