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alimony and women having to pay child support
Yesterday my boyfriend who lives in Massachusetts was informed that his ex
wife no longer wants custody of her children. She wants them and my boyfriend to come live with me in Pennsylvania. The ex wife said just send her the alimony check. My question is, would she still receive a alimony payment, also isn't she going to have to pay child support? The children are 14 and 20. Child support in Ma ends at 23 years old. She is a professional with a Masters degree. She has decided not to work because it interferes with her free time, instead has been living off the children's child support. |
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Say sure, you betcha, get the kids, let them live with him for a year, and
keep making that payment. Get all the schools changed and affirmed in your address. Then, one year later, send in a pettion to the courts to revise custody and child support. At that point, the standard for the kids is to live with dad, not mom. The courts don't want to jerk the kids around, and prefer them to have consistency. So in 12 to 18 months, you will have custody, and you can force HER to pay child support. It worked for me. Of course, she went on welfare and just can't afford to pay the whopping $76 a month for my son, but screw her, he lives with me and that is worth all the money in the world. Jon Billie wrote: Yesterday my boyfriend who lives in Massachusetts was informed that his ex wife no longer wants custody of her children. She wants them and my boyfriend to come live with me in Pennsylvania. The ex wife said just send her the alimony check. My question is, would she still receive a alimony payment, also isn't she going to have to pay child support? The children are 14 and 20. Child support in Ma ends at 23 years old. She is a professional with a Masters degree. She has decided not to work because it interferes with her free time, instead has been living off the children's child support. |
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"Jon" wrote in child support. It worked for me. Of course, she went on welfare and just can't afford to pay the whopping $76 a month for my son, According to the law, that's no excuse and she should be in jail! |
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Lanark wrote: "Jon" wrote in child support. It worked for me. Of course, she went on welfare and just can't afford to pay the whopping $76 a month for my son, According to the law, that's no excuse and she should be in jail! True, but unless HE also gets on Welfare they are unlikely to do anything about it. - Ron ^*^ |
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Lanark wrote:
"Jon" wrote in child support. It worked for me. Of course, she went on welfare and just can't afford to pay the whopping $76 a month for my son, According to the law, that's no excuse and she should be in jail! Wrong, there is a presumption of inability to pay if you need state assistance to survive. I had a phone hearing, and the judge said that if she is on welfare, then she has an automatic suspension of CS. Theoretically, when she gets a job, then they start up again. I reckon she will start working just about the time he no longer needs CS. Fair its not, I used to pay $518 a month, but I only asked for some CS because she moved 2000 miles away and its not right that she can just move away from our son. No matter what I feel, he deserves to have mom in his life. oh well, he lives with me, so thats whats important. Oh, did I mention his 3.75gpa in freshman year? I think its a good thing he is here. Jon |
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"Jon" wrote in child support. It worked for me. Of course, she went on welfare and just can't afford to pay the whopping $76 a month for my son, According to the law, that's no excuse and she should be in jail! Wrong, there is a presumption of inability to pay if you need state assistance to survive. I had a phone hearing, and the judge said that if she is on welfare, then she has an automatic suspension of CS. OK, let me get this straight! If I am layed off from my job and can't pay, I get tossed in Jail where my CS obligation still continues every month. If I go on Welfare my payments get suspended? We've already read about a Father having to live in the back of his truck with no money being prosecuted for failure to pay, what's the difference? |
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Lanark wrote:
OK, let me get this straight! If I am layed off from my job and can't pay, I get tossed in Jail where my CS obligation still continues every month. If I go on Welfare my payments get suspended? We've already read about a Father having to live in the back of his truck with no money being prosecuted for failure to pay, what's the difference? The difference is, she has a vagina. |
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