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Question about sling/attachment parenting (long, sorry)
Hi. As a first-time mom of an extremely intense high-needs baby, I am
in need of advice from some more experienced moms. I like the sound of attachment parenting, and it makes sense to me, I just haven't been able to apply it totally in my daily routine. DH is adamant about not co-sleeping and I have to respect that, even though I wouldn't mind. We always respond to her cries right away, and it seems like one of us is always holding her. We feed her on demand. I have a sling (an over the shoulder baby holder) and I use it when nothing else seems to calm my fussy baby. I keep reading that you're just supposed to wear your baby all day long, but I haven't been able to do that for several reasons. 1- Can't put her down in the sling once she falls alseep without her waking up screaming. Trust me, I know that in theory you're supposed to be able to do this, but I can't. I can't even sit down or she wakes up. She's one of those babies that just forces you to keep moving or else. It's very tiring for me. I knew parenting was going to be hard, but this is ridiculous. I am a mess physically and emotionally from this child. I have absolutely nothing left to offer anyone at the end of each day, not even DH. 2- It's hot. I keep my house at 74 all summer and we're still both drenched in sweat. She doesn't seem to mind it, but she sweats so much I'm worried she'll get dehydrated. It's worse of course when we go outside where it's 80-90 and muggy, so I end up staying in the house all day every day and I'm going insane. She HATES the stroller, and I keep getting blocked ducts when I use the snugli. 3- I can't get anything done with her in the sling and she screams when I put her down anywhere, even in a swing or bouncy seat right next to me. She is 3 months old, and although she is good at holding her head up, she cannot sit up unassisted and this limits the positions we can use with the sling. I can't get anything done because if she is lying down in the sling, I can't get close enough to stuff to use it (sink, counter, etc.). If she is sitting up facing forward, I have to steady her with one hand and then what good is having one hand free? All I can do is type one handed (while bouncing on an exercise ball or she hollers) or pace and talk on the phone or dangle a toy for her entertainment. When will she be old enough to wear on my back? Will I have to buy a different sling or backpack for that or can I use my current one? 4- I worry about her legs being scrunched. I followed the "facing forward" instructions to the letter (legs crossed) and she seems comfortable, but her legs look so smushed by the fabric of the sling. Can it be good for her to be so folded in on herself? I know she was smushed in the womb, but I don't know if there was THAT much pressure on her legs. 5- When she fusses in the sling, I don't know why. Is she uncomfortable? Hot? Bored? Overstimulated? Hungry? I end up offering her a bottle every 5 minutes (which seems like it may be a bad habit to get into). I thought babies were supposed to fuss less when you carry them everywhere? She seems marginally more content than when she is propped on her boppy pillow, or in a bouncy seat but not dramatically happier. She is just so fussy all the time! I am so drained! I wish I knew what the heck is wrong with her. She doesn't seem gassy, and it's too early for her to be teething. It's a mystery. 6- I can't pump with her in the sling. I am working on increasing my supply (supplementing with formula until it gets back to normal) and this requires that I double pump often throughout the day which I can't do with her in the sling. Before any of you suggest it, let me add that I've tried letting her nurse on demand: she has a very weak suck and tends to fall asleep after less than 5 minutes, so this is not a strategy that will help my milk supply increase. I think my low supply and my underactive MER are the reasons why she is bored/frustrated with nursing and that once I am back to a normal level she will be happier nursing. Is there anyone out there who actually wears their baby all day long? Do you have any tips or encouragement for me? I want to do what is best for my baby, but I need to do what's right for me too or I'll go nuts. Thanks, -V. |
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Question about sling/attachment parenting (long, sorry)
"Vijay" wrote in message om... Hi. As a first-time mom of an extremely intense high-needs baby, I am in need of advice from some more experienced moms. I like the sound of attachment parenting, and it makes sense to me, I just haven't been able to apply it totally in my daily routine. DH is adamant about not co-sleeping and I have to respect that, even though I wouldn't mind. We always respond to her cries right away, and it seems like one of us is always holding her. We feed her on demand. The important thing about attachment parenting is to use it as it makes sense to you and as it works for your life. Don't do it just so you can say, "I'm doing AP!" Do it if and because it works for you. RE co-sleeping... I found that when I didn't co-sleep, my kid wanted to be on my body all the time during the day. If I did co-sleep, she was more content to be put down now and then. I have a sling (an over the shoulder baby holder) and I use it when nothing else seems to calm my fussy baby. I keep reading that you're just supposed to wear your baby all day long, but I haven't been able to do that for several reasons. I'm one of the most die-hard sling fanatics I know (you should see my stash...) and *I* don't carry/wear babies all day long. I wear a SLING all day long, but baby is in and out of sling, carseat, other people's arms, etc. when I've got a baby around. 1- Can't put her down in the sling once she falls alseep without her waking up screaming. Trust me, I know that in theory you're supposed to be able to do this, but I can't. I can't even sit down or she wakes up. She's one of those babies that just forces you to keep moving or else. It's very tiring for me. I knew parenting was going to be hard, but this is ridiculous. I am a mess physically and emotionally from this child. I have absolutely nothing left to offer anyone at the end of each day, not even DH. Here's my take on this... sometimes you just don't offer what you can't give. If you can't be moving constantly, just don't. Sometimes she'll cry. If you're holding her and talking to her gently and she's fed and dry and otherwise good to go, sometimes it's okay for her to cry a bit. You're not abandoning her. You're not traumatizing her. You're simply saying, "I can hold you right now (and you might hold/rock her) but I'm too tired to get up and move around right now. We're going to sit for a bit. I'm sorry if you're not happy, but right now, this is what we're doing. Kids usually figure it out. I am NOT one to walk constantly with kids. I just don't. I'll rock them and I may stay in motion a lot while sitting down, but I'm a writer and I *have* to sit to write. I'm happy to have baby on my chest when I do that, but I'm not going to try to write and walk at the same time. 2- It's hot. I keep my house at 74 all summer and we're still both drenched in sweat. She doesn't seem to mind it, but she sweats so much I'm worried she'll get dehydrated. It's worse of course when we go outside where it's 80-90 and muggy, so I end up staying in the house all day every day and I'm going insane. She HATES the stroller, and I keep getting blocked ducts when I use the snugli. Sounds like you need a different sling. There are lots and lots and lots of options. See below. 3- I can't get anything done with her in the sling and she screams when I put her down anywhere, even in a swing or bouncy seat right next to me. She is 3 months old, and although she is good at holding her head up, she cannot sit up unassisted and this limits the positions we can use with the sling. I can't get anything done because if she is lying down in the sling, I can't get close enough to stuff to use it (sink, counter, etc.). If she is sitting up facing forward, I have to steady her with one hand and then what good is having one hand free? All I can do is type one handed (while bouncing on an exercise ball or she hollers) or pace and talk on the phone or dangle a toy for her entertainment. When will she be old enough to wear on my back? Will I have to buy a different sling or backpack for that or can I use my current one? Definitely sounds like you need a new sling. You've got the Cadillac of padded baby slings...but like many Caddies, it's oversized and not terribly efficient in some ways. I'm not fond of padded slings in general myself. Why? Because they tend to enforce positions which are NOT positions parents would adopt naturally. How many parents naturally carry their kids so low that they bump into counters? How many parents naturally carry their kids crosslegged facing out? So here are some ideas for slings which might meet your needs. Criteria: You need a sling you can wear constantly. You need a sling which puts baby high enough in a variety of positions that you can get stuff done while she's in it. You need a sling that you can get baby into and out of frequently and easily without a lot of fuss. You need a sling which can be worn snug You need a sling which will last you through the next 3+years of parenting a high needs kid. General categories of slings, and how they do or don't meet these criteria: Starting with what you have: Padded slings: Too hot to wear constantly. Difficult to get adjusted properly to get baby high enough and in good positions for getting work done while having two free hands. In and out is probably okay. Snug is not working, most likely. Sling *could* last 3 years, but probably won't once you try something else. Pouch-style carriers: These have the "poppable" feature--you can easily pop baby in and out at will. But you need to get a pouch which fits you and/or you need a very adjustable one. Maya Pouches (new adjustable ones) and Kangaroo Korner (fleece and cotton stretchy pouches with snaps) might work well for you. You can use the positions you're already used to, but higher and closer to you. BUT... the KK cotton pouch is not recommended as a primary pouch and the fleece pouch is hot. I'll be getting a pair of them in the next couple weeks to try them out in person--my info at present is from the manufacturer, not my personal experience. The Maya adjustable pouches are good, but probably not quite as versatile as you might like in the long run, and the side-to-side stability in the Kangaroo (facing out cross legged) pose is not greatly improved in these. Wraparound carriers. These are long pieces of very nice fabric which wrap around and around to support baby in many positions with weight usually distributed over both shoulders. GREAT for wearing a baby for a long time...but take a little work getting in and out. Not quite as "poppable" as the pouches, as they take more work getting into. One wraparound, the Ultimate Baby Wrap, is superior in this regard, as once you have it on you can get baby in and out often without retying the wrap. But the UBW is a little bouncy. Your kiddo may love it--she likes to move. But as she gets heavier you will find that she tends to ride lower unless you make the carrier quite tight. This is an incredible carrier for 24/7 carrying of high needs babies, but a little less ideal for heavier babies, IMO. Other wraps include the Didymos, Girasol, Ellaroo (See www.peppermint.com and www.kangarookorner.com for more on fabric slings like this). Unpadded ring slings. These are my favorites in general. Why? You can wear them with or without baby in them for hours without discomfort. They're some of the prettiest slings out there. They do not feel like baby furniture, but mom clothing, much as pouches do. And yet, they are still very adjustable and you can easily make them as high and tight as you want, then quickly let the sling out for baby to nurse or to set baby down in a carseat, for example. The choices are many... the silk Zolowear (www.zolowear.com) is drop dead gorgeous. Many people say this is the most comfortable sling they've tried, but there are some it just doesn't work for, as with most carriers. The rings are a bit heavy on this one. The Maya Wrap is another perennial favorite--the shoulder is different from the Zolo and again, people either love the shoulder or they hate it. (www.mayawrap.com) These are also gorgeous, but in a different way--more ethnic/earthy and less asian/chic. The PeaPod sling is a very cheap alternative--yet another shoulder design, simple unbleached or hand-dyed muslin fabric, nylon rings. A good one to "try out" how you like unpadded slings, but due to largish rings and fairly slick fabric, not great for heavy babies. How do these fit your criteria? If you get the right one, you'll be able to wear it constantly. You will definitely be able to wear baby high and tight and the sling will last in most cases until you are no longer needed to carry your baby everywhere. I've carried a 10-year-old in a sling a short distance before--aside from the PeaPod, most are stronger than you are and can support more weight than you'd ever want to carry. In and out is usually a snap with ring slings, and snug is not an issue when they're unpadded. Take out the padding and they're much cooler. Plus, they are SO much "Mom clothing" that you can and will wear them without the baby in...which means they're right there when you need them. So here's one more option.. The MamaBaby (see www.midwiferytoday.com to buy and http://groups.yahoo.com/group/babywearing to see photos of the slings (photo section) and the instructions (file section)) is an unpadded ring sling, but unlike most others, they're usually sold in pairs and you wear one sling over each shoulder, so they cross. This means less side-to-side tip-over in the Kangaroo carry, and more options... for example, I've done a colic hold with this. For doing dishes, I would snuggle a baby high on my chest with the rings down at my hips--I've done this several times and it works great. No bumpage on counters. I've also carried a 4-year-old easily on my back, using one sling and two slings crossed. In most holds, this is as good as any other carrier, though many individual carriers may outshine it in one particular hold or another. But this one can do almost anything you want it to. I will confess to bias--this *is* my baby--I designed the system for when I was taking my foster baby to work everyday as a newborn, and it worked so well for us and he loved it so much that his adoptive mother kept right on using it. I found that I would often wear just one sling while I wasn't moving much, then toss a second one on for stability when we were up and active for a long period. 4- I worry about her legs being scrunched. I followed the "facing forward" instructions to the letter (legs crossed) and she seems comfortable, but her legs look so smushed by the fabric of the sling. Can it be good for her to be so folded in on herself? I know she was smushed in the womb, but I don't know if there was THAT much pressure on her legs. Eh. I'm not wild about the kangaroo carry for the same reason, but the babies seem to love it! In wraparounds and the MamaBaby you can get her legs pointing forwards rather than scrunched, so they stick out but she's still well supported. 5- When she fusses in the sling, I don't know why. Is she uncomfortable? Hot? Bored? Overstimulated? Hungry? I end up offering her a bottle every 5 minutes (which seems like it may be a bad habit to get into). I thought babies were supposed to fuss less when you carry them everywhere? She seems marginally more content than when she is propped on her boppy pillow, or in a bouncy seat but not dramatically happier. She is just so fussy all the time! I am so drained! I wish I knew what the heck is wrong with her. She doesn't seem gassy, and it's too early for her to be teething. It's a mystery. Let's see: Hot: Is she flushed? Sweaty? Are you comfortable? She should be wearing about the same number of layers of warmth as you are wearing in general. Are you hot? Bored: Eh, I don't worry about this one. Never really have. Overstimulated: Most babies when overstimulated will look away, cry, hiccup, sleep or otherwise disengage themselves from an overstimulating environment. What is going on when she's fussy? Offering bottle... if you're giving bottles, consider offering a pacifier first. If she latches to the pacifier and sucks strongly but then spits it out and cries, she's probably hungry. If she doens't bother mouthing it even, she's probably not hungry. I find that parental attitude can greatly influence baby. The more wound up YOU get, the more wound up she will get. This does not mean her fussiness is your fault, just that in my experience, the more frantically you search for "the cure", the more upset she can get. I like to have a series of steps I know I will go through... if baby sounds like she's in pain, I do check for poky or irritating clothing/diapers, feel her tummy for gas, try for a burp, try a pacifier or the breast, try a bottle or the breast (depending if I'm nursing or not), and bounce baby/talk soothingly/sing. But once I've done all that, I don't keep going back over the list for a while. Sometimes babies cry no matter what you do, and all you can do is just hold them, rock them and say, "There, there." Know that it's not your fault she's crying. Know that she's not doing it to "get" you. Know that what separates good parents from bad parents... Almost all parents think at some point, "Throw the baby out the window. I'm just going to throw the baby out the window." Good parents *don't* throw the baby out the window even when they think about it. Bad parents throw the baby out the window. You haven't done it, and I'm sure she's deserved it g, and that makes you a great parent in my book. 6- I can't pump with her in the sling. I am working on increasing my supply (supplementing with formula until it gets back to normal) and this requires that I double pump often throughout the day which I can't do with her in the sling. Before any of you suggest it, let me add that I've tried letting her nurse on demand: she has a very weak suck and tends to fall asleep after less than 5 minutes, so this is not a strategy that will help my milk supply increase. I think my low supply and my underactive MER are the reasons why she is bored/frustrated with nursing and that once I am back to a normal level she will be happier nursing. This is a whole 'nother issue. With baby in this situation I would ditch all bottles and all pacifiers, get some help in and go to bed with her for a couple days, co-sleeping is not the issue here, but constant access to the breast is. Quit trying to walk around the house with her constantly--your helper can walk her a little, but mostly you want her to lie next you you next to the breast and nurse more or less constantly for a couple days. So what if she falls asleep after 5 minutes? That's better than crying... and chances are she'll wake up shortly and try again. And again. And enough of those 5-minuteses and she gets more the hang of it. Supplement if you must, but do it with a cup, spoon or dropper, NOT a bottle. And with her in the bed next to you and falling asleep at the boob, you can pump right after she nurses. One hint... if you've got an electric pump, try latching her on and then pumping on one side while she nurse--your letdown will be stronger and faster than with just her or just the pump. You could even "prime" the breast with the breastpump and latch her on as soon as you're flowing well, continuing to pump on the side she's not nursing on. But going to bed with her for a couple days (24-48 hours is the usual rec.) may make a HUGE difference. In your energy level, milk supply, quality of latch, etc. If you do this on a weekend with hubby as your helper, he can do the walkies--all YOU have to do is cuddle baby, nurse on demand, pump as necessary, and get up to pee. He should bring you meals in bed, and if necessary, he should sleep on the couch. We're not talking the rest of her babyhood, but a couple of critical days that could turn things around for you. Jenrose |
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Question about sling/attachment parenting (long, sorry)
On Tue, 02 Sep 2003 07:12:45 GMT, "Jenrose"
wrote: the KK cotton pouch is not recommended as a primary pouch and the fleece pouch is hot. I'll be getting a pair of them in the next couple weeks to try them out in person--my info at present is from the manufacturer, not my personal experience. FWIW I bought a fleece KK pouch, and it was very nice but WAY too hot for my sweaty summer baby. I gave it to a lady in a colder climate and she loves it. I also just wanted to add my 2c for the OP- that my daughter was very similar to yours- she didn't start to be willing to 'detach' from me til she was about 4-5 months old- *calendar* months, not 4-week months btw. She wouldn't even look at me. Just slept, nursed and cried (mostly nursing and crying). I wore her constantly, all summer in an unpadded cotton sling. I would latch her on to the breast and just walk around with her nursing (she wanted to nurse all the time too). I do co-sleep, or I would be dead now from exhaustion. Anyway, she gradually changed and now at 8 months is a joyful, engaged, crawling, standing delightful girl. I never could have imagined such a change, so hang in there!!! Find a sling that works for you, learn to nurse in it. Remember to breathe ;-). Hope -- Riley 1993 c/s Tara 2002 HBAC http://www.babyslings-australia.com |
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Question about sling/attachment parenting (long, sorry)
Vijay wrote:
I have a sling (an over the shoulder baby holder) and I use it when nothing else seems to calm my fussy baby. I had this sling as well and never got the hang of it. Like you, it was very hot, and it just didn't work. If I have another baby I would try a maya wrap pouch. I can't really recommend it as I've never tried it but it looks cool :-) 1- Can't put her down in the sling once she falls alseep without her waking up screaming. I couldn't set Hunter down from anywhere, from any position or he'd wake up. I could transfer him from myself to dh. We did this quite a bit in the beginning and I just didn't get a lot done that first year. She's one of those babies that just forces you to keep moving or else. It's very tiring for me. You can only do what you can do. If need to sit, sit down and try to comfort her. A crying baby that is not being ignored is not the end of the world. She isn't going to be permanently traumatized. She has a loving parent with her, she is just unhappy. 3- I can't get anything done with her Honestly, I didn't get much done for a very long time. Try to pick the biggies and work on them but some things are just going to be let go :-( She is 3 months old, and although she is good at holding her head up, I got a back pack with Luke and started using it at around 3 months. This was just a god send because I could do anything with him in the backpack and he was happy. I had a cruddy second hand one but if you can afford a new one...the most important feature IMO would be one that would evenly distribute the weight so it doesn't hurt your back. Others might know what that would be :-) 5- When she fusses in the sling, I don't know why. Is she uncomfortable? Hot? Bored? Overstimulated? Hungry? I end up offering her a bottle every 5 minutes (which seems like it may be a bad habit to get into). I thought babies were supposed to fuss less when you carry them everywhere? Could be to hot, or to cramped. Could also be to overstimulated or tired. Hunter was the one that I couldn't sit down but Luke would get fussy and it took me awhile to figure out that he just needed to be left alone so he could fall asleep. If you think she is tired you may try just laying on the bed next to her and see if she'll fall asleep lying there after 5-10 minutes. If she is still really crying after 10 minutes you might make a change. Luke liked the peaceful planets aquarium at that age, or any relaxing music. She is just so fussy all the time! I'd mention it to her doctor. I don't know anything about formula but maybe something isn't agreeing with her. Has she recently had a cold? If so getting her ears checked might be a good idea. If their ears hurt they aren't going to like laying down. When Hunter would get overly tired and miserable at around 3-4 months I used Hylands Teething tablets. They allowed him to relax and then fall asleep. He got 4 teeth at 4 months. Is there anyone out there who actually wears their baby all day long? I carried Hunter constantly. No sling. I could transfer him on to dh for naps and this was a godsend. Also, you need sleep. Sleeping with a baby helps get sleep at this age. Later on I couldn't sleep through the nursing sessions but in the beginning it really helped. If your dh doesn't want to co-sleep perhaps you and the baby could sleep seperatly for a little while or part of the night. Good luck! -- Nikki Mama to Hunter (4) and Luke (2) |
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Nikki wrote:
Vijay wrote: 5- When she fusses in the sling, I don't know why. Is she uncomfortable? Hot? Bored? Overstimulated? Hungry? I end up offering her a bottle every 5 minutes (which seems like it may be a bad habit to get into). I thought babies were supposed to fuss less when you carry them everywhere? Could be to hot, or to cramped. Could also be to overstimulated or tired. Hunter was the one that I couldn't sit down but Luke would get fussy and it took me awhile to figure out that he just needed to be left alone so he could fall asleep. If you think she is tired you may try just laying on the bed next to her and see if she'll fall asleep lying there after 5-10 minutes. If she is still really crying after 10 minutes you might make a change. Luke liked the peaceful planets aquarium at that age, or any relaxing music. She is just so fussy all the time! I'd mention it to her doctor. I don't know anything about formula but maybe something isn't agreeing with her. Has she recently had a cold? If so getting her ears checked might be a good idea. If their ears hurt they aren't going to like laying down. When Hunter would get overly tired and miserable at around 3-4 months I used Hylands Teething tablets. They allowed him to relax and then fall asleep. He got 4 teeth at 4 months. No one has mentioned this really but you do imply that you are nursing... it sounds like the three month growth spurt to me. Those growth spurts feeding wise always seeme to amplify my frustrated feelings regarding everything else. Laurel |
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Al Bell wrote:
I think (as the mother of a 10.5 month old) that it's pretty normal for any mom who avoids letting her baby cry a lot to get anything done. Basically, you have a choice: focus on your baby and let your husband (or paid help) worry about the cooking and cleaning, or have a baby who spends some time in a crib or playpen crying each day. Most of our moms let us cry some each day, and we turned out OK, so that's a valid choice, but letting your husband bring home deli food is also a valid choice. Hmm...I dunno. I'm all for hiring out whatever would be helpful and taking advantaage of takeout and other time (and energy) savers. However, I don't think it's normal for a baby to have to be held every single second in order not to be crying. Some babies *are* that way, and you obviously have to deal with the baby you have, not some idealized baby. But if you're dealing with a baby who absolutely doesn't give you any breaks at all, I think you're got a more demanding than usual baby! Not that that helps much, I suppose, except that maybe it helps to know that what you're dealing with is harder than what many parents have to deal with. I was lucky. My babies were quite content to amuse themselves on their own for a little bit while I ran a load of laundry or started dinner or attended to various other tasks. I don't think it was necessarily anything I *did* that made them that way. They just were that way, and lucky for me. I don't presume to compare my situation with someone who has a more demanding baby. That's a much harder job. I've *never* had to let a baby cry, nor did my mother, in order to get basic stuff done. Sometimes it's a bit tricky, but planning and a little extra lead time usually suffices to ensure I can get done whatever needs doing. Best wishes, Ericka |
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Ericka Kammerer wrote:
Al Bell wrote: I think (as the mother of a 10.5 month old) that it's pretty normal for any mom who avoids letting her baby cry a lot to get anything done. Basically, you have a choice: focus on your baby and let your husband (or paid help) worry about the cooking and cleaning, or have a baby who spends some time in a crib or playpen crying each day. Most of our moms let us cry some each day, and we turned out OK, so that's a valid choice, but letting your husband bring home deli food is also a valid choice. Hmm...I dunno. I'm all for hiring out whatever would be helpful and taking advantaage of takeout and other time (and energy) savers. However, I don't think it's normal for a baby to have to be held every single second in order not to be crying. Some babies *are* that way, and you obviously have to deal with the baby you have, not some idealized baby. But if you're dealing with a baby who absolutely doesn't give you any breaks at all, I think you're got a more demanding than usual baby! Good point. Hunter gave no breaks. If I carried or nursed him he was fine though so I thought I had an easy baby. Imagine my delight when Luke was more typical! He napped, I could lay him down, he'd sit for 10-15 minutes and just look around. Wow, Hunter is lucky he was #1, Lol. -- Nikki Mama to Hunter (4) and Luke (2) |
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