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Homework for a 5 year old - how much involvement needed.
polzovatel wrote:
Hi, I've got a question about homework for a 5 year old. My opinion is that you should encourage his independence even at this early age ,explain to the child what's needed to be done and how to do it , let him do it by himself as much as possible, leave it as it is if even it's not perfect and help him if he asks for assistance . My husband seems to think that he's got to stand behind his back all the time, point out every time when he does not form a perfect letter, rub it out and ask him to do it again and again... I think from such an experience the child might just hate the whole process in the future or alternatively expect detailed instructions and approvals from us when he's much older. Any views? Ask the teacher what he or she expects. It's a very tough line to walk. On the one hand, you don't want to get suckered into doing every bit of homework with him every time forever and ever. You want to foster some independence, and you also want the teacher to see a reasonably accurate reflection of his abilities and understanding. You also have to have a limit on how much you nag them to correct something. If they've made a reasonable effort, then back off and let it stand, even if it's not perfect. On the other hand, there is often an expectation that parents will be heavily involved in homework. My experience is that they don't really do much in the classroom ensuring that they learn to form their letters properly, and if you don't step in to some degree, they're *royally* screwed in third grade when they try to move to cursive because they're forming all their letters improperly. You do need to be aware of what's going on with the homework and make sure that there aren't areas where he's not developing the skills he'll need. Best wishes, Ericka |
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