A letter from 'Naldo!

wrote in message
om...
I couldn't believe it! My little deadbeat had the nerve to write a
letter. Well, actually, he didn't write it, his poor, new, third wife
wrote it out, but I could just picture him stammering and sputtering,
his face contorting in eight thousand directions, trying to get his
broken English to make sense as he dictated it.

Here it is for your enjoyment. I've left it untouched, with all
misspellings and dangling participles left misspelled and dangling:
------------------------------

Rio de Janeiro, 07/16/03

Because you never gave me a chance to build my life up and help you
with money, even after talked you about my health situation which I
thought you understood, because it is very difficult to survive with
mental depression, and work twelve hours a day and try to be
understood and same time to be a good father to Bliss.

But you have to listen to and let your husband get between you, me and
Bliss. Had you know your husband always felt intimidate by me because
you know I'm a very self-motivate person and he is not, example: when
I came back to Brazil in two weeks I had a job and he was already to
follow up to an - employment, and now I'm here and in two weeks I have
a management job and also I'm thru with my treatment of depression,
and you have to do what you done back in the states. But even away
from Bliss I still love her even more, and always I will be her
father, and she will always "hate" your husband because he will
"never" be her father.

You can be with Bliss all these years and you still "never" understand
her needs, and her number one need is her father - Ronaldo, so you
made a big mistake, because before you wanna some money and now you
have nothing, and like a said the distance just increase my love for
Bliss, and also I have with me a great woman and a great job.

Before I forget, how is the states?

Because here in Copacabana I live two blocks from the beach, drinks a
lot of coconut water, ice-cream, daily sunshine and beautiful people,
because the states looks like Halloween 24 hours a day.

I will see you again,

Kisses and hughes from
Ronaldo and wife
--------------------------

Wasn't that sweet? Well, since 'Naldo didn't possess the balls to put
a return address on the letter, I mailed one back to his parents in
Rio, with the letter sealed inside a second envelope, along with an
open invitation for them to see Bliss whenever they visit here. Why
should they suffer just because their son is useless? They won't even
speak to him! Hopefully, they'll forward this:
--------------------------

Runaway Deadbeat 'Naldo:

Look at me, in the middle again. Does that make you mad, 'Naldo?

Your letter, which you were too stupid to write yourself, arrived
today. You must be kidding if you think that you'll ever see Bliss
again. It will never happen, and I will see to that. Your pictures
are gone from the house, and your name is hardly ever mentioned. If
it is, we're talking about what a piece of crap you are for abandoning
your kids. Make no mistake, you're out of the picture, totally and
for good. You will not be coming back into Bliss's life.

You're a fool to think you could ever come back to the United States.
You're wanted for non-payment of child support. As of now, that debt
is over $8,000, and it's growing. If you come here, you can be
arrested, and your passport can be cancelled. Also, the authorities
found it interesting how you could afford a car, an apartment and a
cell phone, all while claiming your only source of income was
delivering pizzas. They know you were being paid under the table.
You never paid tax on that income, and that is called tax evasion,
which is a felony. You can go to federal prison for that. If you
ever try to come back here I will turn you in myself. Count on it.

Don't think the state stopped looking for you just because you ran to
Brazil. They are looking for you, and when they find you, some of
your pay will be taken and sent here every week. Meanwhile, your
child support debt grows larger every day. You can't run forever.

Bliss is doing fine, by the way. She, her brother and I have spent
the summer together. When was the last time you spent any time with
your kids, Runaway Deadbeat Boy? Both my children live with me. That
includes Bliss. She's mine, you know. Not yours, mine. You will
never be part of her life again.

Also, I understand depression. The only thing you were depressed
about is that somebody finally held you responsible for your
obligation to your kid.

Let's also clear this bit of nonsense up: The reason you found a job
faster than me is because in the United States, you are considered to
be stupid. You have the reading and writing capabilities of a third
grader and the common sense of a monkey. That makes you an unskilled
laborer, and those jobs are easy to come by. However, since I am a
college degree holder, my type of job involves a higher skill level, a
longer interview process, and higher pay.

Make no mistake, you do not intimidate me nor do you scare me. You
are simply a bag of deadbeat fart gas. You are nothing.

You may be Bliss's father, since all it takes is a penis and some
sperm to be a father, but I am her daddy. And I have been all along.
She's even asked me several times to adopt her, and said, "Who wants
to be the daughter of a runaway?" When she is 18 and free to do as
she pleases, maybe she'll want to see you. Then you can explain to
her why you abandoned her and her sister. Until then, you will stay
gone.

I feel sorry for your wife. You'll have a kid or two and then start
screwing around on her, and eventually abandon them or become the
insufferable piece of crap you are, and then she'll leave you.

You're gone. Keep it that way, loser. Now go ahead and threaten me
so I can report you as an international terrorist on top of everything
else.

Most sincerely,

Your buddy Brian

P.S. Are your parents still not speaking to you? I've sent them an
open invitation to see Bliss whenever they visit the states.
----------------------
I'm not going to debate the contents of either letter, they are simply
posted here because I said if anything else happened, I'd let you
know. The letters stand on their own.

I know some of you think I am heartless and cruel, and that's fine
with me. Deal with it. I meant every word I wrote.

Can I make myself any more clear?

Not at all! Looking at that your as big a dick as the deadbeat.

wrote in message
om...
I couldn't believe it! My little deadbeat had the nerve to write a
letter. Well, actually, he didn't write it, his poor, new, third wife
wrote it out, but I could just picture him stammering and sputtering,
his face contorting in eight thousand directions, trying to get his
broken English to make sense as he dictated it.

Here it is for your enjoyment. I've left it untouched, with all
misspellings and dangling participles left misspelled and dangling:
------------------------------

Rio de Janeiro, 07/16/03

Because you never gave me a chance to build my life up and help you
with money, even after talked you about my health situation which I
thought you understood, because it is very difficult to survive with
mental depression, and work twelve hours a day and try to be
understood and same time to be a good father to Bliss.

But you have to listen to and let your husband get between you, me and
Bliss. Had you know your husband always felt intimidate by me because
you know I'm a very self-motivate person and he is not, example: when
I came back to Brazil in two weeks I had a job and he was already to
follow up to an - employment, and now I'm here and in two weeks I have
a management job and also I'm thru with my treatment of depression,
and you have to do what you done back in the states. But even away
from Bliss I still love her even more, and always I will be her
father, and she will always "hate" your husband because he will
"never" be her father.

You can be with Bliss all these years and you still "never" understand
her needs, and her number one need is her father - Ronaldo, so you
made a big mistake, because before you wanna some money and now you
have nothing, and like a said the distance just increase my love for
Bliss, and also I have with me a great woman and a great job.

Before I forget, how is the states?

Because here in Copacabana I live two blocks from the beach, drinks a
lot of coconut water, ice-cream, daily sunshine and beautiful people,
because the states looks like Halloween 24 hours a day.

I will see you again,

Kisses and hughes from
Ronaldo and wife
--------------------------

Wasn't that sweet? Well, since 'Naldo didn't possess the balls to put
a return address on the letter, I mailed one back to his parents in
Rio, with the letter sealed inside a second envelope, along with an
open invitation for them to see Bliss whenever they visit here. Why
should they suffer just because their son is useless? They won't even
speak to him! Hopefully, they'll forward this:
--------------------------

Runaway Deadbeat 'Naldo:

Look at me, in the middle again. Does that make you mad, 'Naldo?

Your letter, which you were too stupid to write yourself, arrived
today. You must be kidding if you think that you'll ever see Bliss
again. It will never happen, and I will see to that. Your pictures
are gone from the house, and your name is hardly ever mentioned. If
it is, we're talking about what a piece of crap you are for abandoning
your kids. Make no mistake, you're out of the picture, totally and
for good. You will not be coming back into Bliss's life.

You're a fool to think you could ever come back to the United States.
You're wanted for non-payment of child support. As of now, that debt
is over $8,000, and it's growing. If you come here, you can be
arrested, and your passport can be cancelled. Also, the authorities
found it interesting how you could afford a car, an apartment and a
cell phone, all while claiming your only source of income was
delivering pizzas. They know you were being paid under the table.
You never paid tax on that income, and that is called tax evasion,
which is a felony. You can go to federal prison for that. If you
ever try to come back here I will turn you in myself. Count on it.

Don't think the state stopped looking for you just because you ran to
Brazil. They are looking for you, and when they find you, some of
your pay will be taken and sent here every week. Meanwhile, your
child support debt grows larger every day. You can't run forever.

Bliss is doing fine, by the way. She, her brother and I have spent
the summer together. When was the last time you spent any time with
your kids, Runaway Deadbeat Boy? Both my children live with me. That
includes Bliss. She's mine, you know. Not yours, mine. You will
never be part of her life again.

Also, I understand depression. The only thing you were depressed
about is that somebody finally held you responsible for your
obligation to your kid.

Let's also clear this bit of nonsense up: The reason you found a job
faster than me is because in the United States, you are considered to
be stupid. You have the reading and writing capabilities of a third
grader and the common sense of a monkey. That makes you an unskilled
laborer, and those jobs are easy to come by. However, since I am a
college degree holder, my type of job involves a higher skill level, a
longer interview process, and higher pay.

Make no mistake, you do not intimidate me nor do you scare me. You
are simply a bag of deadbeat fart gas. You are nothing.

You may be Bliss's father, since all it takes is a penis and some
sperm to be a father, but I am her daddy. And I have been all along.
She's even asked me several times to adopt her, and said, "Who wants
to be the daughter of a runaway?" When she is 18 and free to do as
she pleases, maybe she'll want to see you. Then you can explain to
her why you abandoned her and her sister. Until then, you will stay
gone.

I feel sorry for your wife. You'll have a kid or two and then start
screwing around on her, and eventually abandon them or become the
insufferable piece of crap you are, and then she'll leave you.

You're gone. Keep it that way, loser. Now go ahead and threaten me
so I can report you as an international terrorist on top of everything
else.

Most sincerely,

Your buddy Brian

P.S. Are your parents still not speaking to you? I've sent them an
open invitation to see Bliss whenever they visit the states.
----------------------
I'm not going to debate the contents of either letter, they are simply
posted here because I said if anything else happened, I'd let you
know. The letters stand on their own.

I know some of you think I am heartless and cruel, and that's fine
with me. Deal with it. I meant every word I wrote.

Can I make myself any more clear?

Please.... you know damn well the only reason you posted this was to get
into a big 'debate' again. You are the biggest ass on here.

There is no "deadbeat", glow - just a couple of little girls with too much time
on their hands. No problem, school starts soon....

Mel Gamble


wrote in message
. com...
I couldn't believe it! My little deadbeat had the nerve to write a
letter. Well, actually, he didn't write it, his poor, new, third wife
wrote it out, but I could just picture him stammering and sputtering,
his face contorting in eight thousand directions, trying to get his
broken English to make sense as he dictated it.

Here it is for your enjoyment. I've left it untouched, with all
misspellings and dangling participles left misspelled and dangling:
------------------------------

Rio de Janeiro, 07/16/03

Because you never gave me a chance to build my life up and help you
with money, even after talked you about my health situation which I
thought you understood, because it is very difficult to survive with
mental depression, and work twelve hours a day and try to be
understood and same time to be a good father to Bliss.

But you have to listen to and let your husband get between you, me and
Bliss. Had you know your husband always felt intimidate by me because
you know I'm a very self-motivate person and he is not, example: when
I came back to Brazil in two weeks I had a job and he was already to
follow up to an - employment, and now I'm here and in two weeks I have
a management job and also I'm thru with my treatment of depression,
and you have to do what you done back in the states. But even away
from Bliss I still love her even more, and always I will be her
father, and she will always "hate" your husband because he will
"never" be her father.

You can be with Bliss all these years and you still "never" understand
her needs, and her number one need is her father - Ronaldo, so you
made a big mistake, because before you wanna some money and now you
have nothing, and like a said the distance just increase my love for
Bliss, and also I have with me a great woman and a great job.

Before I forget, how is the states?

Because here in Copacabana I live two blocks from the beach, drinks a
lot of coconut water, ice-cream, daily sunshine and beautiful people,
because the states looks like Halloween 24 hours a day.

I will see you again,

Kisses and hughes from
Ronaldo and wife
--------------------------

Wasn't that sweet? Well, since 'Naldo didn't possess the balls to put
a return address on the letter, I mailed one back to his parents in
Rio, with the letter sealed inside a second envelope, along with an
open invitation for them to see Bliss whenever they visit here. Why
should they suffer just because their son is useless? They won't even
speak to him! Hopefully, they'll forward this:
--------------------------

Runaway Deadbeat 'Naldo:

Look at me, in the middle again. Does that make you mad, 'Naldo?

Your letter, which you were too stupid to write yourself, arrived
today. You must be kidding if you think that you'll ever see Bliss
again. It will never happen, and I will see to that. Your pictures
are gone from the house, and your name is hardly ever mentioned. If
it is, we're talking about what a piece of crap you are for abandoning
your kids. Make no mistake, you're out of the picture, totally and
for good. You will not be coming back into Bliss's life.

You're a fool to think you could ever come back to the United States.
You're wanted for non-payment of child support. As of now, that debt
is over $8,000, and it's growing. If you come here, you can be
arrested, and your passport can be cancelled. Also, the authorities
found it interesting how you could afford a car, an apartment and a
cell phone, all while claiming your only source of income was
delivering pizzas. They know you were being paid under the table.
You never paid tax on that income, and that is called tax evasion,
which is a felony. You can go to federal prison for that. If you
ever try to come back here I will turn you in myself. Count on it.

Don't think the state stopped looking for you just because you ran to
Brazil. They are looking for you, and when they find you, some of
your pay will be taken and sent here every week. Meanwhile, your
child support debt grows larger every day. You can't run forever.

Bliss is doing fine, by the way. She, her brother and I have spent
the summer together. When was the last time you spent any time with
your kids, Runaway Deadbeat Boy? Both my children live with me. That
includes Bliss. She's mine, you know. Not yours, mine. You will
never be part of her life again.

Also, I understand depression. The only thing you were depressed
about is that somebody finally held you responsible for your
obligation to your kid.

Let's also clear this bit of nonsense up: The reason you found a job
faster than me is because in the United States, you are considered to
be stupid. You have the reading and writing capabilities of a third
grader and the common sense of a monkey. That makes you an unskilled
laborer, and those jobs are easy to come by. However, since I am a
college degree holder, my type of job involves a higher skill level, a
longer interview process, and higher pay.

Make no mistake, you do not intimidate me nor do you scare me. You
are simply a bag of deadbeat fart gas. You are nothing.

You may be Bliss's father, since all it takes is a penis and some
sperm to be a father, but I am her daddy. And I have been all along.
She's even asked me several times to adopt her, and said, "Who wants
to be the daughter of a runaway?" When she is 18 and free to do as
she pleases, maybe she'll want to see you. Then you can explain to
her why you abandoned her and her sister. Until then, you will stay
gone.

I feel sorry for your wife. You'll have a kid or two and then start
screwing around on her, and eventually abandon them or become the
insufferable piece of crap you are, and then she'll leave you.

You're gone. Keep it that way, loser. Now go ahead and threaten me
so I can report you as an international terrorist on top of everything
else.

Most sincerely,

Your buddy Brian

P.S. Are your parents still not speaking to you? I've sent them an
open invitation to see Bliss whenever they visit the states.
----------------------
I'm not going to debate the contents of either letter, they are simply
posted here because I said if anything else happened, I'd let you
know. The letters stand on their own.

I know some of you think I am heartless and cruel, and that's fine
with me. Deal with it. I meant every word I wrote.

Can I make myself any more clear?

Not at all! Looking at that your as big a dick as the deadbeat.

School has been in for a couple of weeks here.


"Mel Gamble" wrote in message
...
There is no "deadbeat", glow - just a couple of little girls with too much
time
on their hands. No problem, school starts soon....

Mel Gamble


wrote in message
. com...
I couldn't believe it! My little deadbeat had the nerve to write a
letter. Well, actually, he didn't write it, his poor, new, third wife
wrote it out, but I could just picture him stammering and sputtering,
his face contorting in eight thousand directions, trying to get his
broken English to make sense as he dictated it.

Here it is for your enjoyment. I've left it untouched, with all
misspellings and dangling participles left misspelled and dangling:
------------------------------

Rio de Janeiro, 07/16/03

Because you never gave me a chance to build my life up and help you
with money, even after talked you about my health situation which I
thought you understood, because it is very difficult to survive with
mental depression, and work twelve hours a day and try to be
understood and same time to be a good father to Bliss.

But you have to listen to and let your husband get between you, me and
Bliss. Had you know your husband always felt intimidate by me because
you know I'm a very self-motivate person and he is not, example: when
I came back to Brazil in two weeks I had a job and he was already to
follow up to an - employment, and now I'm here and in two weeks I have
a management job and also I'm thru with my treatment of depression,
and you have to do what you done back in the states. But even away
from Bliss I still love her even more, and always I will be her
father, and she will always "hate" your husband because he will
"never" be her father.

You can be with Bliss all these years and you still "never" understand
her needs, and her number one need is her father - Ronaldo, so you
made a big mistake, because before you wanna some money and now you
have nothing, and like a said the distance just increase my love for
Bliss, and also I have with me a great woman and a great job.

Before I forget, how is the states?

Because here in Copacabana I live two blocks from the beach, drinks a
lot of coconut water, ice-cream, daily sunshine and beautiful people,
because the states looks like Halloween 24 hours a day.

I will see you again,

Kisses and hughes from
Ronaldo and wife
--------------------------

Wasn't that sweet? Well, since 'Naldo didn't possess the balls to put
a return address on the letter, I mailed one back to his parents in
Rio, with the letter sealed inside a second envelope, along with an
open invitation for them to see Bliss whenever they visit here. Why
should they suffer just because their son is useless? They won't even
speak to him! Hopefully, they'll forward this:
--------------------------

Runaway Deadbeat 'Naldo:

Look at me, in the middle again. Does that make you mad, 'Naldo?

Your letter, which you were too stupid to write yourself, arrived
today. You must be kidding if you think that you'll ever see Bliss
again. It will never happen, and I will see to that. Your pictures
are gone from the house, and your name is hardly ever mentioned. If
it is, we're talking about what a piece of crap you are for abandoning
your kids. Make no mistake, you're out of the picture, totally and
for good. You will not be coming back into Bliss's life.

You're a fool to think you could ever come back to the United States.
You're wanted for non-payment of child support. As of now, that debt
is over $8,000, and it's growing. If you come here, you can be
arrested, and your passport can be cancelled. Also, the authorities
found it interesting how you could afford a car, an apartment and a
cell phone, all while claiming your only source of income was
delivering pizzas. They know you were being paid under the table.
You never paid tax on that income, and that is called tax evasion,
which is a felony. You can go to federal prison for that. If you
ever try to come back here I will turn you in myself. Count on it.

Don't think the state stopped looking for you just because you ran to
Brazil. They are looking for you, and when they find you, some of
your pay will be taken and sent here every week. Meanwhile, your
child support debt grows larger every day. You can't run forever.

Bliss is doing fine, by the way. She, her brother and I have spent
the summer together. When was the last time you spent any time with
your kids, Runaway Deadbeat Boy? Both my children live with me. That
includes Bliss. She's mine, you know. Not yours, mine. You will
never be part of her life again.

Also, I understand depression. The only thing you were depressed
about is that somebody finally held you responsible for your
obligation to your kid.

Let's also clear this bit of nonsense up: The reason you found a job
faster than me is because in the United States, you are considered to
be stupid. You have the reading and writing capabilities of a third
grader and the common sense of a monkey. That makes you an unskilled
laborer, and those jobs are easy to come by. However, since I am a
college degree holder, my type of job involves a higher skill level, a
longer interview process, and higher pay.

Make no mistake, you do not intimidate me nor do you scare me. You
are simply a bag of deadbeat fart gas. You are nothing.

You may be Bliss's father, since all it takes is a penis and some
sperm to be a father, but I am her daddy. And I have been all along.
She's even asked me several times to adopt her, and said, "Who wants
to be the daughter of a runaway?" When she is 18 and free to do as
she pleases, maybe she'll want to see you. Then you can explain to
her why you abandoned her and her sister. Until then, you will stay
gone.

I feel sorry for your wife. You'll have a kid or two and then start
screwing around on her, and eventually abandon them or become the
insufferable piece of crap you are, and then she'll leave you.

You're gone. Keep it that way, loser. Now go ahead and threaten me
so I can report you as an international terrorist on top of everything
else.

Most sincerely,

Your buddy Brian

P.S. Are your parents still not speaking to you? I've sent them an
open invitation to see Bliss whenever they visit the states.
----------------------
I'm not going to debate the contents of either letter, they are simply
posted here because I said if anything else happened, I'd let you
know. The letters stand on their own.

I know some of you think I am heartless and cruel, and that's fine
with me. Deal with it. I meant every word I wrote.

Can I make myself any more clear?

Not at all! Looking at that your as big a dick as the deadbeat.

You made a child with this man that you call illiterate, deadbeat, loser,
uneducated laborer and a whole bunch of other degrading things. I wonder
what your child will think about that when she gets older? I wonder if
she will be confused as to the fact that you fell in love with this same
men, had unprotected sex with this man, and got yourself pregnant, calling
the child, BLISS!? Where do you take responsibility for choices that you
made? I would also say that someone with broken english, challenges with
reading, or someone who delivers pizzas for a living are not negative
things, they possess real challenges for a human living in the modern
world, but that does not make them less of a person. It seems that your
anger and your need for revenge has made you see red, rather than
reality. You are teaching your child to be a judgmental person, who also
has anger like you inside. You need to stop and think about what you are
doing. You forwarded his letter to his parents? How old are you, and
what are you teaching your child about relationships and life? You are a
bad parent, deal with that first. It is easy to blame everything on
someone else, but it seems like you are failing to change your
imperfections.

" wrote:

I couldn't believe it! My little deadbeat had the nerve to write a
letter. Well, actually, he didn't write it, his poor, new, third wife
wrote it out, but I could just picture him stammering and sputtering,
his face contorting in eight thousand directions, trying to get his
broken English to make sense as he dictated it.

Here it is for your enjoyment. I've left it untouched, with all
misspellings and dangling participles left misspelled and dangling:
------------------------------

Rio de Janeiro, 07/16/03

Because you never gave me a chance to build my life up and help you
with money, even after talked you about my health situation which I
thought you understood, because it is very difficult to survive with
mental depression, and work twelve hours a day and try to be
understood and same time to be a good father to Bliss.

But you have to listen to and let your husband get between you, me and
Bliss. Had you know your husband always felt intimidate by me because
you know I'm a very self-motivate person and he is not, example: when
I came back to Brazil in two weeks I had a job and he was already to
follow up to an - employment, and now I'm here and in two weeks I have
a management job and also I'm thru with my treatment of depression,
and you have to do what you done back in the states. But even away
from Bliss I still love her even more, and always I will be her
father, and she will always "hate" your husband because he will
"never" be her father.

You can be with Bliss all these years and you still "never" understand
her needs, and her number one need is her father - Ronaldo, so you
made a big mistake, because before you wanna some money and now you
have nothing, and like a said the distance just increase my love for
Bliss, and also I have with me a great woman and a great job.

Before I forget, how is the states?

Because here in Copacabana I live two blocks from the beach, drinks a
lot of coconut water, ice-cream, daily sunshine and beautiful people,
because the states looks like Halloween 24 hours a day.

I will see you again,

Kisses and hughes from
Ronaldo and wife
--------------------------

Wasn't that sweet? Well, since 'Naldo didn't possess the balls to put
a return address on the letter, I mailed one back to his parents in
Rio, with the letter sealed inside a second envelope, along with an
open invitation for them to see Bliss whenever they visit here. Why
should they suffer just because their son is useless? They won't even
speak to him! Hopefully, they'll forward this:
--------------------------

Runaway Deadbeat 'Naldo:

Look at me, in the middle again. Does that make you mad, 'Naldo?

Your letter, which you were too stupid to write yourself, arrived
today. You must be kidding if you think that you'll ever see Bliss
again. It will never happen, and I will see to that. Your pictures
are gone from the house, and your name is hardly ever mentioned. If
it is, we're talking about what a piece of crap you are for abandoning
your kids. Make no mistake, you're out of the picture, totally and
for good. You will not be coming back into Bliss's life.

You're a fool to think you could ever come back to the United States.
You're wanted for non-payment of child support. As of now, that debt
is over $8,000, and it's growing. If you come here, you can be
arrested, and your passport can be cancelled. Also, the authorities
found it interesting how you could afford a car, an apartment and a
cell phone, all while claiming your only source of income was
delivering pizzas. They know you were being paid under the table.
You never paid tax on that income, and that is called tax evasion,
which is a felony. You can go to federal prison for that. If you
ever try to come back here I will turn you in myself. Count on it.

Don't think the state stopped looking for you just because you ran to
Brazil. They are looking for you, and when they find you, some of
your pay will be taken and sent here every week. Meanwhile, your
child support debt grows larger every day. You can't run forever.

Bliss is doing fine, by the way. She, her brother and I have spent
the summer together. When was the last time you spent any time with
your kids, Runaway Deadbeat Boy? Both my children live with me. That
includes Bliss. She's mine, you know. Not yours, mine. You will
never be part of her life again.

Also, I understand depression. The only thing you were depressed
about is that somebody finally held you responsible for your
obligation to your kid.

Let's also clear this bit of nonsense up: The reason you found a job
faster than me is because in the United States, you are considered to
be stupid. You have the reading and writing capabilities of a third
grader and the common sense of a monkey. That makes you an unskilled
laborer, and those jobs are easy to come by. However, since I am a
college degree holder, my type of job involves a higher skill level, a
longer interview process, and higher pay.

Make no mistake, you do not intimidate me nor do you scare me. You
are simply a bag of deadbeat fart gas. You are nothing.

You may be Bliss's father, since all it takes is a penis and some
sperm to be a father, but I am her daddy. And I have been all along.
She's even asked me several times to adopt her, and said, "Who wants
to be the daughter of a runaway?" When she is 18 and free to do as
she pleases, maybe she'll want to see you. Then you can explain to
her why you abandoned her and her sister. Until then, you will stay
gone.

I feel sorry for your wife. You'll have a kid or two and then start
screwing around on her, and eventually abandon them or become the
insufferable piece of crap you are, and then she'll leave you.

You're gone. Keep it that way, loser. Now go ahead and threaten me
so I can report you as an international terrorist on top of everything
else.

Most sincerely,

Your buddy Brian

P.S. Are your parents still not speaking to you? I've sent them an
open invitation to see Bliss whenever they visit the states.
----------------------
I'm not going to debate the contents of either letter, they are simply
posted here because I said if anything else happened, I'd let you
know. The letters stand on their own.

I know some of you think I am heartless and cruel, and that's fine
with me. Deal with it. I meant every word I wrote.

Can I make myself any more clear?

"Mel Gamble" wrote in message
...
There is no "deadbeat", glow - just a couple of little girls with too much
time
on their hands. No problem, school starts soon....

Mel Gamble
==
Unfortunately, Mel. Public records confirm Brian's story. He is a true
living psychologically abusing stepdad to Rinaldo's daughter. Do ya
think if we turn these posts over to Rinaldo, he would have a shot at
at a custody change?
==
==

lol.... I laugh because this jackass that posted that is the 'step' parent
to the child. He didn't make the child, his wife (or live in) did. Can't
remember all the details with this guys story. He just apparently likes to
control the whole family.

Otherwise, your response is dead on.


bluefields wrote in message
...
You made a child with this man that you call illiterate, deadbeat, loser,
uneducated laborer and a whole bunch of other degrading things. I wonder
what your child will think about that when she gets older? I wonder if
she will be confused as to the fact that you fell in love with this same
men, had unprotected sex with this man, and got yourself pregnant, calling
the child, BLISS!? Where do you take responsibility for choices that you
made? I would also say that someone with broken english, challenges with
reading, or someone who delivers pizzas for a living are not negative
things, they possess real challenges for a human living in the modern
world, but that does not make them less of a person. It seems that your
anger and your need for revenge has made you see red, rather than
reality. You are teaching your child to be a judgmental person, who also
has anger like you inside. You need to stop and think about what you are
doing. You forwarded his letter to his parents? How old are you, and
what are you teaching your child about relationships and life? You are a
bad parent, deal with that first. It is easy to blame everything on
someone else, but it seems like you are failing to change your
imperfections.

" wrote:

I couldn't believe it! My little deadbeat had the nerve to write a
letter. Well, actually, he didn't write it, his poor, new, third wife
wrote it out, but I could just picture him stammering and sputtering,
his face contorting in eight thousand directions, trying to get his
broken English to make sense as he dictated it.

Here it is for your enjoyment. I've left it untouched, with all
misspellings and dangling participles left misspelled and dangling:
------------------------------

Rio de Janeiro, 07/16/03

Because you never gave me a chance to build my life up and help you
with money, even after talked you about my health situation which I
thought you understood, because it is very difficult to survive with
mental depression, and work twelve hours a day and try to be
understood and same time to be a good father to Bliss.

But you have to listen to and let your husband get between you, me and
Bliss. Had you know your husband always felt intimidate by me because
you know I'm a very self-motivate person and he is not, example: when
I came back to Brazil in two weeks I had a job and he was already to
follow up to an - employment, and now I'm here and in two weeks I have
a management job and also I'm thru with my treatment of depression,
and you have to do what you done back in the states. But even away
from Bliss I still love her even more, and always I will be her
father, and she will always "hate" your husband because he will
"never" be her father.

You can be with Bliss all these years and you still "never" understand
her needs, and her number one need is her father - Ronaldo, so you
made a big mistake, because before you wanna some money and now you
have nothing, and like a said the distance just increase my love for
Bliss, and also I have with me a great woman and a great job.

Before I forget, how is the states?

Because here in Copacabana I live two blocks from the beach, drinks a
lot of coconut water, ice-cream, daily sunshine and beautiful people,
because the states looks like Halloween 24 hours a day.

I will see you again,

Kisses and hughes from
Ronaldo and wife
--------------------------

Wasn't that sweet? Well, since 'Naldo didn't possess the balls to put
a return address on the letter, I mailed one back to his parents in
Rio, with the letter sealed inside a second envelope, along with an
open invitation for them to see Bliss whenever they visit here. Why
should they suffer just because their son is useless? They won't even
speak to him! Hopefully, they'll forward this:
--------------------------

Runaway Deadbeat 'Naldo:

Look at me, in the middle again. Does that make you mad, 'Naldo?

Your letter, which you were too stupid to write yourself, arrived
today. You must be kidding if you think that you'll ever see Bliss
again. It will never happen, and I will see to that. Your pictures
are gone from the house, and your name is hardly ever mentioned. If
it is, we're talking about what a piece of crap you are for abandoning
your kids. Make no mistake, you're out of the picture, totally and
for good. You will not be coming back into Bliss's life.

You're a fool to think you could ever come back to the United States.
You're wanted for non-payment of child support. As of now, that debt
is over $8,000, and it's growing. If you come here, you can be
arrested, and your passport can be cancelled. Also, the authorities
found it interesting how you could afford a car, an apartment and a
cell phone, all while claiming your only source of income was
delivering pizzas. They know you were being paid under the table.
You never paid tax on that income, and that is called tax evasion,
which is a felony. You can go to federal prison for that. If you
ever try to come back here I will turn you in myself. Count on it.

Don't think the state stopped looking for you just because you ran to
Brazil. They are looking for you, and when they find you, some of
your pay will be taken and sent here every week. Meanwhile, your
child support debt grows larger every day. You can't run forever.

Bliss is doing fine, by the way. She, her brother and I have spent
the summer together. When was the last time you spent any time with
your kids, Runaway Deadbeat Boy? Both my children live with me. That
includes Bliss. She's mine, you know. Not yours, mine. You will
never be part of her life again.

Also, I understand depression. The only thing you were depressed
about is that somebody finally held you responsible for your
obligation to your kid.

Let's also clear this bit of nonsense up: The reason you found a job
faster than me is because in the United States, you are considered to
be stupid. You have the reading and writing capabilities of a third
grader and the common sense of a monkey. That makes you an unskilled
laborer, and those jobs are easy to come by. However, since I am a
college degree holder, my type of job involves a higher skill level, a
longer interview process, and higher pay.

Make no mistake, you do not intimidate me nor do you scare me. You
are simply a bag of deadbeat fart gas. You are nothing.

You may be Bliss's father, since all it takes is a penis and some
sperm to be a father, but I am her daddy. And I have been all along.
She's even asked me several times to adopt her, and said, "Who wants
to be the daughter of a runaway?" When she is 18 and free to do as
she pleases, maybe she'll want to see you. Then you can explain to
her why you abandoned her and her sister. Until then, you will stay
gone.

I feel sorry for your wife. You'll have a kid or two and then start
screwing around on her, and eventually abandon them or become the
insufferable piece of crap you are, and then she'll leave you.

You're gone. Keep it that way, loser. Now go ahead and threaten me
so I can report you as an international terrorist on top of everything
else.

Most sincerely,

Your buddy Brian

P.S. Are your parents still not speaking to you? I've sent them an
open invitation to see Bliss whenever they visit the states.
----------------------
I'm not going to debate the contents of either letter, they are simply
posted here because I said if anything else happened, I'd let you
know. The letters stand on their own.

I know some of you think I am heartless and cruel, and that's fine
with me. Deal with it. I meant every word I wrote.

Can I make myself any more clear?