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You know what? This group is incredible. No body ever told me NOT to
file for child support before this group! In fact I have people in AA, on Usenet, and in the clergy getting on my case for NOT filing for child support. And there is my ex bringing my daughter home right now. Let's see if he has the papers. My goodness. |
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"Soprano" wrote in message ... You know what? This group is incredible. No body ever told me NOT to file for child support before this group! In fact I have people in AA, on Usenet, and in the clergy getting on my case for NOT filing for child support. And there is my ex bringing my daughter home right now. Let's see if he has the papers. My goodness. My dear, you did not mention AA or anything else that made sense--you insisted that you and your ex DO communicate. You cannot expect answers to specific questions if you only ask general questions. I've read some other places you have posted now, and understand better why you are asking the questions. In all sincerity, you need to get some counseling with someone face to face with whom you can speak candidly about all the different elements in your situation. No newsgroup (or email conversation) is going to be able to do that for you. |
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teachrmama wrote:
"Soprano" wrote in message ... You know what? This group is incredible. No body ever told me NOT to file for child support before this group! In fact I have people in AA, on Usenet, and in the clergy getting on my case for NOT filing for child support. And there is my ex bringing my daughter home right now. Let's see if he has the papers. My goodness. My dear, you did not mention AA or anything else that made sense--you insisted that you and your ex DO communicate. You cannot expect answers to specific questions if you only ask general questions. I've read some other places you have posted now, and understand better why you are asking the questions. In all sincerity, you need to get some counseling with someone face to face with whom you can speak candidly about all the different elements in your situation. No newsgroup (or email conversation) is going to be able to do that for you. I have been. I am strictly here to deal with child support. I gave the papers to my ex. He is filling them out. I am filing them. End of story. |
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"Soprano" wrote in message ... teachrmama wrote: "Soprano" wrote in message ... You know what? This group is incredible. No body ever told me NOT to file for child support before this group! In fact I have people in AA, on Usenet, and in the clergy getting on my case for NOT filing for child support. And there is my ex bringing my daughter home right now. Let's see if he has the papers. My goodness. My dear, you did not mention AA or anything else that made sense--you insisted that you and your ex DO communicate. You cannot expect answers to specific questions if you only ask general questions. I've read some other places you have posted now, and understand better why you are asking the questions. In all sincerity, you need to get some counseling with someone face to face with whom you can speak candidly about all the different elements in your situation. No newsgroup (or email conversation) is going to be able to do that for you. I have been. I am strictly here to deal with child support. I gave the papers to my ex. He is filling them out. I am filing them. End of story. If he is ok with that, Soprano, I am ok with that, too. If the 2 of you worked it out, who is anyone else to tell you that you are wrong. It is your pathway. The rest of us can only give advice based on our own experiences. But your choices are your own. |
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teachrmama wrote:
"Soprano" wrote in message ... teachrmama wrote: "Soprano" wrote in message ... You know what? This group is incredible. No body ever told me NOT to file for child support before this group! In fact I have people in AA, on Usenet, and in the clergy getting on my case for NOT filing for child support. And there is my ex bringing my daughter home right now. Let's see if he has the papers. My goodness. My dear, you did not mention AA or anything else that made sense--you insisted that you and your ex DO communicate. You cannot expect answers to specific questions if you only ask general questions. I've read some other places you have posted now, and understand better why you are asking the questions. In all sincerity, you need to get some counseling with someone face to face with whom you can speak candidly about all the different elements in your situation. No newsgroup (or email conversation) is going to be able to do that for you. I have been. I am strictly here to deal with child support. I gave the papers to my ex. He is filling them out. I am filing them. End of story. If he is ok with that, Soprano, I am ok with that, too. If the 2 of you worked it out, who is anyone else to tell you that you are wrong. It is your pathway. The rest of us can only give advice based on our own experiences. But your choices are your own. Thank you. I appreciate your support. He is ok with that. My name is Atlanta. |
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Thank you. I appreciate your support. He is ok with that. My name is Atlanta. Thank you. I appreciate your support. He is ok with that. My name is Atlanta. Hi Atlanta, Actually you are right. This group is angry; bitter; shell-shocked and struggling. We deal with the loss of our children, with constant fear of imprisonment if ever we lose our job through no fault of our own; with a system which vilifies non-CP's as dead-beats; and with unconscionable sums of money confiscated and given to our ex-spouse to be used with absolutely no accountability. This isn't poor-me....I'm 3 years away from being done; my son is 20 soon. And I have managed to finally have enough that even with a job loss I can pay the money that would be due during that time. One of the saddest things about this disaster in the 16 years that I've been branded NCP is the polarization on both sides CP vs NCP which ultimately helps no one including the children. This group is sensitized (in general for excellent reasons) to have hair-trigger negative reactions to CPs. I'm not justifying it, just trying to partly explain it. As teachrmama mentioned, it's clear you have a lot going on. Don't take any internet group reaction to a post too personally. Take care, Don |
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