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Old August 3rd 03, 11:39 AM
Yankee
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BE A MAN!: Fatherless/Single-Parent Homes/Children

Being a father DOES NOT prove that you are a man, but being a bad father DOES
prove that you are NOT a man. If you have a child and that child does not have
you as a father in the house, then you are NO MAN.

Fatherless or otherwise single-parent homes are a scourge upon the lives of
children:

Fatherless Homes Breed Violence -
http://www.fathermag.com/news/1780-stats.shtml
'(Because only a portion of each age group grew up in a fatherless home,) these
statistics translate to mean that children from fatherless homes a 5 times
more likely to commit suicide; 32 times more likely to run away; 20 times more
likely to have behavioral disorders; 14 times more likely to commit rape; 9
times more likely to drop out of high school; 10 times more likely to abuse
chemical substances; 9 times more likely to end up in a state-operated
institution; 20 times more likely to end up in prison.'

Kids Need Both Parents -
http://www.mindpub.com/art100.htm

What are the most beautiful and precious and important creatures in the world
today, and the most valuable resources? The answer to that question is, and must
be: children. Then if this is true, how are these most beautiful and precious
and important creatures, and most valuable resources, being treated by the world
today, and how have they been treated throughout history?

A serious examination of those questions from a study of the history of the
human species will lead to the following conclusion: the guardians of children
in the world today and throughout history, the parents and the leaders, have not
been able to consistently provide the love and nurturing necessary to grow their
children to responsible adulthood. From a study of the history of the human
species, the answer must be that it is the parents and the leaders who are
responsible, and it can only be the parents and the leaders who are responsible.
And people who attempt to place the blame elsewhere in the matter, have
apparently not been able to look close enough at the matter, for if they did,
they could trace that blame to some sort of lacking on the part of the parents
and the leaders, the final stage of blame being that the parents probably should
not have had children in the first place, and that the leaders are not the type
of people who should be leading anyone else around at all in the world today.

The Human Carnage of Fatherlessness -
http://www.dadi.org/carnage.htm

Broken Homes, Broken Hearts -
http://www.probe.org/docs/broken.html

In India, parents dislocate their limbs and disfigure their children because
they make better beggars that way. In China, parents murder their female
children because the communist government restricts the number of children they
can have and because of that, male children are more desirable and valuable. In
the Philippines, children at the age of two years old are sent to mud farms to
make bricks. In Africa, in some tribes, a man is not considered a man until he
fathers a child, and thus, many men go to all lengths to prove their manhood,
continually leaving children to be raised only by their mothers.

And in the United States of America, baby boys have their genitals mutilated and
disfigured by the choice of their parents at incredible rates, there are
children who have money but who are brought up by parents who don't know how to
give them love, and there are parents who have love but who don't have the
economic ability to provide for their children. The divorce rate is over 50% and
families break up on a regular basis for the most selfish and irresponsible
reasons, leaving their children with only one parent when all children, no
matter what they think or what they say, truly need the love and nurturing of
both parents in order to grow into responsible adulthood.

Even more astonishing, families are using fertility drugs at incredible rates
these days, while at the same time, 33% of the parents of multiple births split
up before their children reach the age of three!

Fatherless Boys -
http://www.probe.org/docs/c-fatherless.html

Fatherless America-Confronting Our Most Urgent Social Problem -
http://www.vix.com/men/books/comment...ankenhorn.html

But then, what makes a child a child, and what makes an adult an adult? Nature
appears to be saying that a "child" is a brother or sister in the species who
simply cannot yet make children, and that an adult is a brother or sister who
has gained the ability to make children. At whatever age the child gains the
ability to make children, the child cannot be considered a child anymore,
because the child has gained the ability to make other children. But then, what
is the difference between an adult and a grown-up child? A grown-up child adult,
by this logic, must be a child who has gained the ability to make children but
who has not been provided with the information necessary to make responsible
decisions regarding reproduction, and life.

In that understanding, nature appears to be saying that by the time a child
gains the ability to make children, it would have been wise for parents to have
already provided children with the information necessary to allow children to
make intelligent decisions regarding responsible participation in reproduction.
That parents and leaders in the world today have apparently not succeeded in
providing children with the information necessary to allow those children to
make intelligent decisions regarding responsible participation in reproduction,
is the conclusion that must follow in the logic.

Fatherhood and Fatherlessness -
http://www.vix.com/pub/men/nofather/nodad.html

Consequences of Fatherlessness -
http://www.fathers.com/research/consequences.html

There was once a family in the world where in one generation there was a broken
home leaving one child in a single parent family for most of his life. In the
next generation, that child proceeded to marry and father three children, and
then leave those three children and their mother for a woman who satisfied his
sexual desires more than the mother of his children. In the next generation, one
of those three children got married and was eventually divorced, another
remained single and became a playboy much like his father, and another got
married and had two children.

An obvious pattern can be identified and described: children who come from
broken homes have not had the experience of the love and nurturing that is
necessary for parents to provide in order to make their own successful homes,
and may be better off pursuing alternative lifestyles to parenthood. However,
the number of children who promote the same pattern to which they were
apparently victim in their own lives is always rising, and which in the end
usually results in even more pain and suffering for more children. So then why
is this true?

Fatherlessness! Impact on Children, Families & Society -
http://www.fathersforlife.org/

Children -
http://www.universalway.org/children.html

And if people really loved children, and if they really wanted children, and if
they were positive that they could really love and nurture those children, then
they could also try adopting children, since there are plenty of children
already out there in the world today looking for good parents, and so many of
them would like someone to help them in some way. Can you help them? Will you
help them?

Sexuality, Marriage, and Moral Values
http://www.universalway.org/moralvalues.html

Heterosexual Atrocity is not a Gay Right -
http://www.plagal.org/op-ed/dubson3.html
"Closer to home, go to any abortion clinic, and when you see a sixteen year old
girl sashay out, go up and ask her what she thinks of homosexuals and
homosexuality. 'O gross!' she'll probably bellow, the blood still warm on the
insides of her thighs from her abortion. 'That's disgusting.'"

So then, what are the accumulated crimes of the parents upon the children of the
world throughout history? Baby murder as birth control? Desertion of families
and children? Physical and sexual child abuse? Genital mutilation? Can there be
any worse crimes?

Being a father DOES NOT prove that you are a man, but being a bad father DOES
prove that you are NOT a man. If you have a child and that child does not have
you as a father in the house, then you are not a man, you are a child abusing
Universal criminal.

Protect the children, protect your life, protect your karma, protect your seed.
It's the manly thing to do.

Yankee
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Old August 4th 03, 01:25 AM
Dave
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Default BE A MAN!: Fatherless/Single-Parent Homes/Children

I believe he is leading up to put the blame on the many different levels of
government that are ultimately responsible for creating child support and
custody laws that deny rights of fathers and children the right to having
both parents equally in their lives.

Meanwhile exposing that these laws create the financial incentive for moms
to keep fathers out of childrens lives, that lifestyle awards cause great
harm to the non-custodial parents ability to support himself and children,
while the scumbag politicians, multiple levels of the corrupt government and
a mafia like industry for their own gain profit politically and financially
off the backs of fathers, children and the destruction of the family.

Perhaps he will list the many suicides resulted from this sick twisted
perverted system we have along with the many stories of fathers that were
forced to go underground and leave the childrens lives due to outrageous
lifestyle child support laws that made it impossible to live and stay out of
debtors prison. Maybe a few stories about how the ones that went to debtors
prison through no fault of their own died, were beaten, raped or contracted
some horrible disease while serving in debtors prison.

His next response hopefully will be followed by something to the effect
about an effort to dismantle the child support, custody laws and system we
have now. In effect enforcing a bill of rights for parents which states
that joint physical custody is automatic and that no level of our government
will interfere in the lives of American families.

"J.D. Hoeye" wrote in message
...
On Sun, 03 Aug 2003 10:39:01 GMT, "Yankee"
wrote:

snip
If you have a child and that child does not have
you as a father in the house, then you are NO MAN.

and if the law without cause prevents you from being there because the
wife (usually x) has driven you out - in other words, not willfully
absent ?

what then?

(will the answer expose a troll?)


JD
If the Facts Fail to Support Your Position,
Manipulate the Data.


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Old August 4th 03, 01:52 AM
J.D. Hoeye
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Default BE A MAN!: Fatherless/Single-Parent Homes/Children

On Sun, 3 Aug 2003 20:25:30 -0400, "Dave" dave@freedoms-door wrote:

hope you're right; it'd be a nice change.

I believe he is leading up to put the blame on the many different levels=

of
government that are ultimately responsible for creating child support =

and
custody laws that deny rights of fathers and children the right to =

having
both parents equally in their lives.

Meanwhile exposing that these laws create the financial incentive for =

moms
to keep fathers out of childrens lives, that lifestyle awards cause =

great
harm to the non-custodial parents ability to support himself and =

children,
while the scumbag politicians, multiple levels of the corrupt government=

and
a mafia like industry for their own gain profit politically and =

financially
off the backs of fathers, children and the destruction of the family.

Perhaps he will list the many suicides resulted from this sick twisted
perverted system we have along with the many stories of fathers that =

were
forced to go underground and leave the childrens lives due to outrageous
lifestyle child support laws that made it impossible to live and stay =

out of
debtors prison. Maybe a few stories about how the ones that went to =

debtors
prison through no fault of their own died, were beaten, raped or =

contracted
some horrible disease while serving in debtors prison.

His next response hopefully will be followed by something to the effect
about an effort to dismantle the child support, custody laws and system =

we
have now. In effect enforcing a bill of rights for parents which states
that joint physical custody is automatic and that no level of our =

government
will interfere in the lives of American families.

"J.D. Hoeye" wrote in message
.. .
On Sun, 03 Aug 2003 10:39:01 GMT, "Yankee"
wrote:

snip
If you have a child and that child does not have
you as a father in the house, then you are NO MAN.

and if the law without cause prevents you from being there because the
wife (usually x) has driven you out - in other words, not willfully
absent ?

what then?

(will the answer expose a troll?)


JD
If the Facts Fail to Support Your Position,
Manipulate the Data.


JD
If the Facts Fail to Support Your Position,=20
Manipulate the Data.
 




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