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Does anybody have any useful advice on how to collect a child support debt?
"Illiana via FamilyKB.com" u38194@uwe wrote in Can you see why I have a hard time believing that the government is out to get non custodial parents when a judge told me that I can't have my home completely? This is a new twist in the plot! Can you stick with one name please, your story keeps jumping all over the place. |
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Child-Support from the NCPs Perspective
Illiana via FamilyKB.com wrote:
Sarah Gray wrote: "Paula" wrote "Gini" wrote: [quoted text clipped - 6 lines] === My ex didn't dump me. He won't even leave my house. real bright, there. still ****ing him too? What are you talking about? [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] I feel that you did, and that it was unprovoked. I wasn't rude, or nasty with you, but your were to me, and that is what going psycho is. Why, are you interested? Why don’t you go FIND yours? He ran away from you and your kid. Didn’t he leave your state with a 12 hour notice? If you understood half of what you read, you would know why my ex is still living in my house. You’re mad because yours ran like hell to get away from you, and I can’t get rid of mine. Didn’t you also state that he is supposed to pay you some money each month? What makes you entitled to money from you ex, and not other single parents get it from theirs? uh, I know where my Ex is. I have his address and phone number, and I talk with him a few times a week. Other single parents are entitled to a *fair and reasonable* amount of child support, and so far as I have seen, the other CP who have posted here want more and more money to support their *lifestyles*, not their kids. -- Sarah Gray |
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Offsite Crossposting to alt.child-support from FamilyKB
Sarah Gray wrote:
"Bob Whiteside" wrote ........................................... [quoted text clipped - 13 lines] encouraging it. Although it is not alt.child support the usenet hosts the group called alt.boy lovers. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Usenet It is astounding how ignorant you are. If that is the case, why is it not o.k for me to use it, and post where I please, since it is not exclusive to just you? Anybody can copy and paste a definition, but to understand it is what you need to work on. -- Message posted via FamilyKB.com http://www.familykb.com/Uwe/Forums.a...nting/200710/1 |
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Does anybody have any useful advice on how to collect a child support debt?
DB wrote:
"Illiana via FamilyKB.com" u38194@uwe wrote in Is it those that do not, have not, and will not pay their child support that are responding with negative remarks to the post? I've given you lots of negative remarks for your stupidity, so does that make me a deadbeat too? Negative remarks do not make a deadbeat, and you should know this. It’s your right to think I am stupid, but you only feel that way because we do not agree. Like I said, I am not going to change my opinion, and you are not going to change yours. Unlike you, when a person has a difference of opinion, I don’t think they are stupid, just that they have a different stance. It seems you along with some others think a healthy debate consists of name calling, but it doesn’t. I don’t think you are stupid, rather that you do not aspire to participate properly in what has transpired into a debate to make it a healthy one. -- Message posted via FamilyKB.com http://www.familykb.com/Uwe/Forums.a...nting/200710/1 |
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Does anybody have any useful advice on how to collect a child support debt?
DB wrote:
"Illiana via FamilyKB.com" u38194@uwe wrote in Can you see why I have a hard time believing that the government is out to get non custodial parents when a judge told me that I can't have my home completely? This is a new twist in the plot! Can you stick with one name please, your story keeps jumping all over the place. What are you talking about? -- Message posted via FamilyKB.com http://www.familykb.com/Uwe/Forums.a...nting/200710/1 |
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Child-Support from the NCPs Perspective
Sarah Gray wrote:
"Paula" wrote "Gini" wrote: [quoted text clipped - 16 lines] What makes you entitled to money from you ex, and not other single parents get it from theirs? uh, I know where my Ex is. I have his address and phone number, and I talk with him a few times a week. Other single parents are entitled to a *fair and reasonable* amount of child support, and so far as I have seen, the other CP who have posted here want more and more money to support their *lifestyles*, not their kids. That is your opinion, not a fact. -- Message posted via FamilyKB.com http://www.familykb.com/Uwe/Forums.a...nting/200710/1 |
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Does anybody have any useful advice on how to collect a child support debt?
"Illiana via FamilyKB.com" u38194@uwe wrote in I guess my question should have been, "Why do you all care if a custodial parent tries to collect child support? Depending on the government is a bad thing! Because I don't see what the big deal is. A non custodial parent is goinf to (a) pay the child support amount because it is thier responsibility to thier children. Fathers don't need a government to tell them that! I am sure some Custodial parents use the money for other things, but if it is sent in good faith it is going to the child there shouldn't be a problem, especially if the father is around, because he will know. Easy to say when it's not your money, the fathers are around and see their money being wasted on everthing else but the child. If it not being spent on the child, they can always go back to court. Really, Is that so! The government does not track any of the money they collect. or (b) Just not pay the child support. Go duck and hide out, work under the table, leave the state, and just ignore the responsibility set fourth by the courts. What is the problem? Problem is, Fathers are forced apart from their children by the system because the money they extrort leaves nothing for them to live on. The Dead beat is a product of the system, created by the system. The government hasn't solved any problems, they are the problem. |
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Child-Support from the NCPs Perspective
Sarah Gray wrote:
"Paula" wrote "Gini" wrote: [quoted text clipped - 16 lines] What makes you entitled to money from you ex, and not other single parents get it from theirs? uh, I know where my Ex is. I have his address and phone number, and I talk with him a few times a week. Other single parents are entitled to a *fair and reasonable* amount of child support, and so far as I have seen, the other CP who have posted here want more and more money to support their *lifestyles*, not their kids. uh, I know where my Ex is. I have his address and phone number, and I talk with him a few times a week. Sure you do. Other single parents are entitled to a *fair and reasonable* amount of child support How would you know what is fair? Let me guess, you know everybody's business. and so far as I have seen, the other CP who have posted here want more and more money to support their *lifestyles*, not their kids. Where did you see that the CP's are asking for more and more money, other than from the other posters who are not happy with the system? How do you know what thier lifestyles consist of, unless you are in everybody's business? -- Message posted via FamilyKB.com http://www.familykb.com/Uwe/Forums.a...nting/200710/1 |
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Does anybody have any useful advice on how to collect a child support debt?
DB wrote:
"Illiana via FamilyKB.com" u38194@uwe wrote in I guess my question should have been, "Why do you all care if a custodial parent tries to collect child support? Depending on the government is a bad thing! Because I don't see what the big deal is. A non custodial parent is goinf to (a) pay the child support amount because it is thier responsibility to thier children. Fathers don't need a government to tell them that! I am sure some Custodial parents use the money for other things, but if it is sent in good faith it is going to the child there shouldn't be a problem, especially if the father is around, because he will know. Easy to say when it's not your money, the fathers are around and see their money being wasted on everthing else but the child. If it not being spent on the child, they can always go back to court. Really, Is that so! The government does not track any of the money they collect. or (b) Just not pay the child support. Go duck and hide out, work under the table, leave the state, and just ignore the responsibility set fourth by the courts. What is the problem? Problem is, Fathers are forced apart from their children by the system because the money they extrort leaves nothing for them to live on. The Dead beat is a product of the system, created by the system. The government hasn't solved any problems, they are the problem. That may be true in some cases, but you do not know that. You only know what your situation is, and it is a bit presumptuous to assume that all custodial parents are just looking for a hand out. Wouldn’t it be fair to say that “some are just looking for their ex’s to take responsibility and help out, while others are looking for a hand out?” -- Message posted via FamilyKB.com http://www.familykb.com/Uwe/Forums.a...nting/200710/1 |
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Does anybody have any useful advice on how to collect a child support debt?
Illiana wrote:
"Illiana via FamilyKB.com" u38194@uwe wrote in [quoted text clipped - 34 lines] beat is a product of the system, created by the system. The government hasn't solved any problems, they are the problem. That may be true in some cases, but you do not know that. You only know what your situation is, and it is a bit presumptuous to assume that all custodial parents are just looking for a hand out. Wouldn’t it be fair to say that “some are just looking for their ex’s to take responsibility and help out, while others are looking for a hand out?” I have to add that the same holds true of the non custodial parents, "Some are willing to work something out with the custodial parents and be dad's, while others just walk away without intentions of doing anything." -- Message posted via http://www.familykb.com |
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