Need some advice.

You know what, you do make sense. Why wouldnt she call him right up
when she found of that the first guy wasnt the father? That kinda
seems weird, because i know i would definetely. And yeah it is
weird that she never asked for child support until he starte d talking
DNA. I think it would just be the best thing to forget about all this,
as hard as it is, and move on. The poor kid already lost one
father, why put him through anymore. You know, when my bf started
seeing him after the first father wa s out of the picture, they used
to drive by his old dads house and his son would say" theres my other
daddies house." this was when he was like 4. Very sad.
Thanks for all your advice,
Newmama

"If she wasn't
bothering him before, why did he serve her with papers for DNA testing?

I would've left well enough alone. "


Ok its not that she wasnt "bothering" him before...he served her papers
to get testing done because whenever him and her got into an
arguement or anything, she wouldnt let him see his son. He has a righ t
to see him if he is his, without her acting like she did. I'm pretty
sure its his kid anyways, my son is almost a spitting image of him.