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Present-shopping advice sought
1. I'm assembling a tool kit for a young person who is about to leave
home. I already have some of the contents, and I have ideas for more, but I wanted to invite your creative suggestions. 2. Is it really true that you don't need to finish the edges of polarfleece (for scarves)? 3. Would a polarfleece receiving blanket be useful? Is there something else I could make out of polarfleece for an infant? (This particular fabric is really cute and I want to do something.) 4. When you were pregnant, were you glad to get presents that were about the baby and parenthood, or did you want presents about the other parts of your life? Louise |
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Louise wrote:
2. Is it really true that you don't need to finish the edges of polarfleece (for scarves)? True. And if you get a wavy-edged rotary cutter, you'll even have a cool wavy edge to the scarf without any additional work. 3. Would a polarfleece receiving blanket be useful? Is there something else I could make out of polarfleece for an infant? (This particular fabric is really cute and I want to do something.) I would not have liked fleece blankets. Flannel and cotton work better. But, YMMV. 4. When you were pregnant, were you glad to get presents that were about the baby and parenthood, or did you want presents about the other parts of your life? For me personally, I liked presents about the baby and parenthood. I have enough of the other life stuff. (Although, of course, one can never have enough quilting fabric!) -- Anita -- |
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Louise writes:
| 2. Is it really true that you don't need to finish the edges of | polarfleece (for scarves)? Very true. Polarfleece doesn't unravel, and I know some folks who have tried! | 3. Would a polarfleece receiving blanket be useful? Is there | something else I could make out of polarfleece for an infant? (This | particular fabric is really cute and I want to do something.) Polarfleece would make a nice blanket for a winter baby. If you have the time, there are lots of things a winter baby needs that could be made from polarfleece: a car seat cover, a snowsuit, diaper covers (actually these are useful year-round as overnight covers for cloth diapers), hats, mittens... but if you're not used to sewing fleece, with only four days left until Christmas, most of these are much too ambitious. One possible hat pattern is extremely simple, but I'm not sure how big you'd have to make it for a newborn. You start by sewing a tube just big enough to fit around the recipient's head. Fold up a little at the bottom - this looks especially nice if you add piping, a decorative trim, or even just a decorative stitch. Cut a fringe on top, pull it in as tight as you can just below the fringe, and sew in place. | 4. When you were pregnant, were you glad to get presents that were | about the baby and parenthood, or did you want presents about the | other parts of your life? Both my boys were born in February, and by Christmas both times I was really tired of being pregnant. (I had pretty unpleasant pregnancies, too.) It was fun to get presents labeled "For Baby", but I really appreciated even little things reminding me that there was more to my life than being a baby carrying device. I think I would have found presents addressed to me that were really for the baby rather depressing at that stage. - Cindy Kandolf, mamma to Kenneth (10) and Robert (4) ****** Bærum, Norway Bilingual Families Web Page: http://www.nethelp.no/cindy/biling-fam.html |
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1. I'm assembling a tool kit for a young person who is about to leave
home. I already have some of the contents, and I have ideas for more, but I wanted to invite your creative suggestions. Home improvement type tools, or anything? I have done baskets of products you need for a new start -- laundry detergent, etc. Or you can do stuff like extension cords, those little three-prong to two-prong adapter thingies, staplers, scissors, one of those flame-thrower lighters that's so nice for candles and grilling, etc. Just a few thoughts. Remember, anyone moving needs a good box cutter! 2. Is it really true that you don't need to finish the edges of polarfleece (for scarves)? Yup 3. Would a polarfleece receiving blanket be useful? Is there something else I could make out of polarfleece for an infant? (This particular fabric is really cute and I want to do something.) I think so, for a winter baby. You can make a nice blanket by just cutting two contrasting pieces of fleece and then cutting fringe around the edges, and then tying the fringe together. See: http://www.pagewise.com/fleece-throw-blankets.htm These are super-easy. My son was making them for gifts when he was 6. 4. When you were pregnant, were you glad to get presents that were about the baby and parenthood, or did you want presents about the other parts of your life? I was never pregnant, we adopted -- so I LOVED anything that said with confidence that yes, we believe you will be a parent. For a pregnant person I would give the baby-related thing to the baby, even if that is your main gift, but try to remember mom with a token such as nice scented body lotion or bubble bath. -Dawn Mom to Henry, 12 |
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Louise wrote: 1. I'm assembling a tool kit for a young person who is about to leave home. I already have some of the contents, and I have ideas for more, but I wanted to invite your creative suggestions. 2. Is it really true that you don't need to finish the edges of polarfleece (for scarves)? Absolutely. One of the delightful things about polarfleece is that the edges NEVER need finishing -- even for things like coats. If you have a surger, you can use fancy threads to create an edge treatment that is decorative but it isn't necessary. Right now I'm wearing a coat I made more than 5 years ago. There is absolutely NO fraying at the edges. 3. Would a polarfleece receiving blanket be useful? Is there something else I could make out of polarfleece for an infant? (This particular fabric is really cute and I want to do something.) Sure -- so would a garment of some sort, like a very warm sleeper. (Though a blanket would be MUCH easier!) 4. When you were pregnant, were you glad to get presents that were about the baby and parenthood, or did you want presents about the other parts of your life? I had to think about this. I realize why: since my birthday is in March, and my children were born in September and just before Christmas, I was never pregnant at Christmas time -- and barely knew I was pregnant in March! I think the year the twins were born (they are turning 19 today) I enjoyed getting a few things that were about parenting, but I'd have been unhappy if ALL of them were about parenting -- I needed to pamper me, too! Louise -- Children won't care how much you know until they know how much you care |
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Basic tool kit...
Measuring tape, level, small wood saw, hack saw, reversible variable speed electric drill with assorted bits, a level, utility knife, adjustable wrench (at least two sizes), 16 oz claw hammer, rubber mallet, vice grip, set of screw drivers, couple sets of plyers of different sizes with wire cutters, including needle nose (a must have), a chisel, a file, a flexible blade scraper, a small paint brush, some electrical tape.....and then a jar or tin full of assorted nails, screws, sleeves (those plugs you put in the wall so you can put a screw in), maybe some wire, a couple of electrical caps, picture hangers, twist ties, couple of those nylon ties. I'd also include penetrating oil, a little thing of varsol and some rubbing alcohol. My oldest son is almost 14, and I'm going to get him a tool box for Xmas and start gradually helping him build a basic kit over coming birthdays and Christmases. Beats the heck out of a "hope chest". I surely wish someone had given me a set of tools when I left home. Everytime I wanted to do ANYTHING from age 18 to 32 (when I married), I had to go to the hardware store as I slowly, slowly figured out and accumulated the basics. Polar fleece....you don't have to finish the ends, but its nice to cut it into a wide fringe (each piece 1 ") with a knot at the end closest to the fabric. I think polar fleece is great stuff, and it would make a dynamite baby blanket. Soft, pretty and WASHABLE. Pregnancy presents....I think I would lean to presents for mom as a person - i.e. I got tons of baby presents, but very little for the care and pampering of the vessel the baby was growing in. Sometimes it can feel like the only reason you are getting attention is because of baby. Mary G. Mom of three |
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Um, why is having a child such a gift-grab? I can
understand the baby-shower stuff -- many first-time parents don't really know what they'll need when the baby is finally with them and they're alone with it. But why does a pregnant woman need extra treats -- lotions, bath oils -- from people other than extremely close friends with whom she might be sharing everything? Um, I guess because of the season I assumed this was not a baby shower but a Holiday gift of some sort, and the OP was trying to determine if it would be OK to give a pregnant woman with whom the OP would normally exchange gifts a gift for the baby. I think most of us are voting some version of no -- give the baby stuff to the baby but if you are exchanging with a pregnant woman the gift should be *for* her. My version (the one that included the bath stuff) was that if you want to give the *main* gift (i.e. most of what you would normally spend) to the baby, fine, but remember the mom in some small, caring way. I assumed, since this is someone the OP exchanges Holiday gifts with, that there was a level of closeness there that would make lotions or bubble bath (which we've given to teachers, secretaries, etc) OK. BTW I agree if it's a baby shower there is no need for a gift for Mom. (And what's the father doing here? Is he offering any support at all? Why are you all giving gifts with the implicit message that he's not doing enough?) Whoa, I'm not sure where you got that idea, Scott. I didn't see any husband bashing here (and I'm very aware that we women have a tendency to do that and it sucks for sensitive men who have to put up with those generalizations). I don't consider lotion or bubble bath any sort of implication of non-support from a spouse or partner. Gee, maybe I should check back with the hundreds of folks I've exchanged that stuff with... hope they didn't think I was implying they had no warmth and comfort in their lives beyond the little something I gave them ;-) The last shower BH went to, she gave the unborn a cashmere sweater. Not practical *at all*, but extremely high on the Cute Scale. (This was for the 3rd of 3 sons, not like the parents really needed anything at this point). I, too, love to use showers and baby gifts as an excuse to buy the impractical on occasion, especially for close friends and relatives who I know have enough of the essentials, or who have the resources to buy what they need. Gifts are best, I think, when they are luxuries. -Dawn Mom to Henry, 12 |
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dragonlady wrote in
: 4.**When*you*were*pregnant,*were*you*glad*to*get*p resents*that*were about the baby and parenthood, or did you want presents about the other parts of your life? I had to think about this.**I*realize*why:**since*my*birthday*is*in March, and my children were born in September and just before Christmas, I was never pregnant at Christmas time -- and barely knew I was pregnant in March! Same he we announced two pregnancies at Christmas, and choose not to announce the third at Christmas. All but one kid had been born by my birthday. If it is a Christmas present for the mum, make it something for her: at most have a present that is a book on childcare. There is nothing wrong though with a present for the bump. -- Penny Gaines UK mum to three |
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