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Hi all -
We got a sweet cat from the Human Society over a month ago - my kids, 6 and 2 adore her. The problem is, she loves being outside....but we live in a townhouse setting and the neighbors are complaining about her (she is *too* friendly, and will enter their houses if the door is open, we live in a warm climate so people keep doors or screens open to let the breeze in). A few member of the association 'Board' live nearby and are the vocal ones about it, as there is a provision barring outdoor cats that are considered a nuisance. But, when we tried to keep her inside, she destroyed the screens trying to get out through the slatted windows - thus, we are either living in a warm climate with all the slats closed, screens shredded, and a cat that is dying to get out or we let her out and just wait for a mad neighbor to come over. I think we should find another loving home for her that can better accomodate her needs to be outside, but I am worried about how the kids will react. Any ideas on either how to keep the cat, or how to help the kids deal with giving her away?? My ideal solution would be to keep her and allow her free access to the outside, but grumpy difficult neighbors are making that a near impossibility.... c. |
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"c." wrote in message link.net... Any ideas on either how to keep the cat, or how to help the kids deal with giving her away?? My ideal solution would be to keep her and allow her free access to the outside, but grumpy difficult neighbors are making that a near impossibility.... Look into getting her nails capped. They sell these little rubber tips that glue on over the nails and keep them from clawing things. I know you can do it yourself, but you can probably also find someone to do it for you or show you how to do it the first time. You can also build her an outside run or get one of those outdoor dog kennels so that she can have some time outside without bothering your neighbors. Bizby |
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"bizby40" wrote in message ... Look into getting her nails capped. They sell these little rubber tips that glue on over the nails and keep them from clawing things. I know you can do it yourself, but you can probably also find someone to do it for you or show you how to do it the first time. Do you have to keep reapplying them as they shed the claws? aula |
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c. wrote:
I think we should find another loving home for her that can better accomodate her needs to be outside, but I am worried about how the kids will react. Any ideas on either how to keep the cat, or how to help the kids deal with giving her away?? My ideal solution would be to keep her and allow her free access to the outside, but grumpy difficult neighbors are making that a near impossibility.... Is your back yard fenced? A neighbor put in a pet door to his back yard for his cat, and he has cat-proofed his back yard fence. There's a sort of netting thing that projects toward the inside of the yard up at the top of the fence. So, his kitty can roam around outside, but only in his yard. It seems to be effective in keeping his cat in. Hmmm...it looks like this might be what he has: http://www.purrfectfence.com/info.asp He has it installed inside of his fence, but looks like it stands alone if you don't already have a fence. This page has links to several possible solutions: http://catnet.stanford.edu/articles/enclosures.html Best wishes, Ericka |
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"Aula" wrote:
"bizby40" wrote in message ... Look into getting her nails capped. They sell these little rubber tips that glue on over the nails and keep them from clawing things. I know you can do it yourself, but you can probably also find someone to do it for you or show you how to do it the first time. Do you have to keep reapplying them as they shed the claws? I have seen cats that were walked on a leash. You could also use one of those cat mats (if they exist anymore) that give the cat a mild shock if they get onto furniture, or in your case, onto the window sill. |
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Ericka Kammerer wrote:
c. wrote: I think we should find another loving home for her that can better accomodate her needs to be outside, but I am worried about how the kids will react. Any ideas on either how to keep the cat, or how to help the kids deal with giving her away?? My ideal solution would be to keep her and allow her free access to the outside, but grumpy difficult neighbors are making that a near impossibility.... Is your back yard fenced? A neighbor put in a pet door to his back yard for his cat, and he has cat-proofed his back yard fence. There's a sort of netting thing that projects toward the inside of the yard up at the top of the fence. So, his kitty can roam around outside, but only in his yard. It seems to be effective in keeping his cat in. Hmmm...it looks like this might be what he has: http://www.purrfectfence.com/info.asp He has it installed inside of his fence, but looks like it stands alone if you don't already have a fence. This page has links to several possible solutions: http://catnet.stanford.edu/articles/enclosures.html Best wishes, Ericka We have a large patio area - I actually saw the fenceing online but wondered if it really worked. I will definitely look into it, that seems like a do-able solution. Thanks! c. |
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"c." wrote in message link.net... Hi all - We got a sweet cat from the Human Society over a month ago - my kids, 6 and 2 adore her. The problem is, she loves being outside....but we live in a townhouse setting and the neighbors are complaining about her (she is *too* friendly, and will enter their houses if the door is open, we live in a warm climate so people keep doors or screens open to let the breeze in). A few member of the association 'Board' live nearby and are the vocal ones about it, as there is a provision barring outdoor cats that are considered a nuisance. But, when we tried to keep her inside, she destroyed the screens trying to get out through the slatted windows - thus, we are either living in a warm climate with all the slats closed, screens shredded, and a cat that is dying to get out or we let her out and just wait for a mad neighbor to come over. I think we should find another loving home for her that can better accomodate her needs to be outside, but I am worried about how the kids will react. Any ideas on either how to keep the cat, or how to help the kids deal with giving her away?? My ideal solution would be to keep her and allow her free access to the outside, but grumpy difficult neighbors are making that a near impossibility.... c. I would consider having the cat adopted by a family who lives in a more appropriate setting and getting a house-friendly cat. Jeff |
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"c." wrote in
link.net: I think we should find another loving home for her that can better accomodate her needs to be outside, but I am worried about how the kids will react. Any ideas on either how to keep the cat, or how to help the kids deal with giving her away?? My ideal solution would be to keep her and allow her free access to the outside, but grumpy difficult neighbors are making that a near impossibility.... is there any way you can build her an enclosed outside area? it will need to be covered or she'll either climb or jump out. some cats that are used to going out just don't adapt to indoor only life, in which case you probably should find her a more rural home. have you called the Humane Society where you got her & asked them for ideas? they may be helpful (or not). if you do decide to rehome her, talk to the kids about how it's not really safe for cats to be outside in urban areas, as there are lots of dangers for kitties (vehicles, dogs, poisons, etc). and if/when you adopt another cat, make sure it's comfortable being indoor only. lee 6 indoor only, 2 outdoor cats -- Question with boldness even the existence of god; because if there be one, he must more approve the homage of reason than that of blindfolded fear. - Thomas Jefferson |
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"Aula" wrote in
: "bizby40" wrote in message ... Look into getting her nails capped. They sell these little rubber tips that glue on over the nails and keep them from clawing things. I know you can do it yourself, but you can probably also find someone to do it for you or show you how to do it the first time. Do you have to keep reapplying them as they shed the claws? yes, about every 6 weeks. you can also just clip thier nails, but that's best started when they are kittens. i clip nails on mine every so often, except Faye. she won't sit still for it. lee -- Question with boldness even the existence of god; because if there be one, he must more approve the homage of reason than that of blindfolded fear. - Thomas Jefferson |
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"enigma" wrote in message . .. "Aula" wrote in : "bizby40" wrote in message ... Look into getting her nails capped. They sell these little rubber tips that glue on over the nails and keep them from clawing things. I know you can do it yourself, but you can probably also find someone to do it for you or show you how to do it the first time. Do you have to keep reapplying them as they shed the claws? yes, about every 6 weeks. you can also just clip thier nails, but that's best started when they are kittens. i clip nails on mine every so often, except Faye. she won't sit still for it. Clipping their nails helps, but won't completely keep them from clawing. The tips are supposed to work better, but I don't have first-hand experience with them. Bizby |
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