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IVF? No chance!
My wife and i have been trying for a baby for several years but we
have had no luck. I am 42 and my wife is 38 and probably has hard boiled eggs by now.It seems that the only way forward is to go through with IVF treatment which is free on the NHS here in England. Unfortuneatly, we cannot have free IVF treatment because i have children from a past relationship.This is grossly unfair to my wife or any other women who needs this treatment but cannot afford it. I have never been allowed any contact with my children and they have been kept away from me by their selfish mother who would rather hang on to them as long as she can until they are older and can make decisions for themselves. How can my wife be penalised like this for my past? The CSA would want to take my wife's earnings into account for my past family and now has to be limited in her access to free IVF too. I will never have a family of my own and my wife will never have a baby because of my ex either. |
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IVF? No chance!
"Father O'Nearly" wrote in message m... My wife and i have been trying for a baby for several years but we have had no luck. I am 42 and my wife is 38 and probably has hard boiled eggs by now.It seems that the only way forward is to go through with IVF treatment which is free on the NHS here in England. Unfortuneatly, we cannot have free IVF treatment because i have children from a past relationship.This is grossly unfair to my wife or any other women who needs this treatment but cannot afford it. I have never been allowed any contact with my children and they have been kept away from me by their selfish mother who would rather hang on to them as long as she can until they are older and can make decisions for themselves. How can my wife be penalised like this for my past? The CSA would want to take my wife's earnings into account for my past family and now has to be limited in her access to free IVF too. I will never have a family of my own and my wife will never have a baby because of my ex either. ---------------------- Well, maybe you should consider yourself lucky in some respects. First of all IVF is a nasty business and you could end up with more than a baby, like 3,4 or 5 babies. None of which could be very healthy. Why not consider adopting? And if nothing else you do have each other. Two are a family. ~AZ~ |
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IVF? No chance!
"Father O'Nearly" wrote in message m... My wife and i have been trying for a baby for several years but we have had no luck. I am 42 and my wife is 38 and probably has hard boiled eggs by now.It seems that the only way forward is to go through with IVF treatment which is free on the NHS here in England. Unfortuneatly, we cannot have free IVF treatment because i have children from a past relationship.This is grossly unfair to my wife or any other women who needs this treatment but cannot afford it. I have never been allowed any contact with my children and they have been kept away from me by their selfish mother who would rather hang on to them as long as she can until they are older and can make decisions for themselves. How can my wife be penalised like this for my past? The CSA would want to take my wife's earnings into account for my past family and now has to be limited in her access to free IVF too. I will never have a family of my own and my wife will never have a baby because of my ex either. ---------------------- Well, maybe you should consider yourself lucky in some respects. First of all IVF is a nasty business and you could end up with more than a baby, like 3,4 or 5 babies. None of which could be very healthy. Why not consider adopting? And if nothing else you do have each other. Two are a family. ~AZ~ |
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IVF? No chance!
"Father O'Nearly" wrote in message m... My wife and i have been trying for a baby for several years but we have had no luck. I am 42 and my wife is 38 and probably has hard boiled eggs by now.It seems that the only way forward is to go through with IVF treatment which is free on the NHS here in England. Unfortuneatly, we cannot have free IVF treatment because i have children from a past relationship.This is grossly unfair to my wife or any other women who needs this treatment but cannot afford it. I have never been allowed any contact with my children and they have been kept away from me by their selfish mother who would rather hang on to them as long as she can until they are older and can make decisions for themselves. How can my wife be penalised like this for my past? The CSA would want to take my wife's earnings into account for my past family and now has to be limited in her access to free IVF too. I will never have a family of my own and my wife will never have a baby because of my ex either. ---------------------- Well, maybe you should consider yourself lucky in some respects. First of all IVF is a nasty business and you could end up with more than a baby, like 3,4 or 5 babies. None of which could be very healthy. Why not consider adopting? And if nothing else you do have each other. Two are a family. ~AZ~ |
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IVF? No chance!
g for a baby for several years but we
have had no luck. I am 42 and my wife is 38 and probably has hard boiled eggs by now.It seems that the only way forward is to go through with IVF treatment which is free on the NHS here in England. Unfortuneatly, we cannot have free IVF treatment because i have children from a past relationship.This is grossly unfair to my wife or any other women who needs this treatment but cannot afford it. I have never been allowed any contact with my children and they have been kept away from me by their selfish mother who would rather hang on to them as long as she can until they are older and can make decisions for themselves. How can my wife be penalised like this for my past? The CSA would want to take my wife's earnings into account for my past family and now has to be limited in her access to free IVF too. I will never have a family of my own and my wife will never have a baby because of my ex either. ---------------------- does the health authority that you are dealing with have egg sharing? It could be a way for you to get treatment. Paula |
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IVF? No chance!
g for a baby for several years but we
have had no luck. I am 42 and my wife is 38 and probably has hard boiled eggs by now.It seems that the only way forward is to go through with IVF treatment which is free on the NHS here in England. Unfortuneatly, we cannot have free IVF treatment because i have children from a past relationship.This is grossly unfair to my wife or any other women who needs this treatment but cannot afford it. I have never been allowed any contact with my children and they have been kept away from me by their selfish mother who would rather hang on to them as long as she can until they are older and can make decisions for themselves. How can my wife be penalised like this for my past? The CSA would want to take my wife's earnings into account for my past family and now has to be limited in her access to free IVF too. I will never have a family of my own and my wife will never have a baby because of my ex either. ---------------------- does the health authority that you are dealing with have egg sharing? It could be a way for you to get treatment. Paula |
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IVF? No chance!
g for a baby for several years but we
have had no luck. I am 42 and my wife is 38 and probably has hard boiled eggs by now.It seems that the only way forward is to go through with IVF treatment which is free on the NHS here in England. Unfortuneatly, we cannot have free IVF treatment because i have children from a past relationship.This is grossly unfair to my wife or any other women who needs this treatment but cannot afford it. I have never been allowed any contact with my children and they have been kept away from me by their selfish mother who would rather hang on to them as long as she can until they are older and can make decisions for themselves. How can my wife be penalised like this for my past? The CSA would want to take my wife's earnings into account for my past family and now has to be limited in her access to free IVF too. I will never have a family of my own and my wife will never have a baby because of my ex either. ---------------------- does the health authority that you are dealing with have egg sharing? It could be a way for you to get treatment. Paula |
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IVF? No chance!
"Father O'Nearly" wrote in message m... My wife and i have been trying for a baby for several years but we have had no luck. I am 42 and my wife is 38 and probably has hard boiled eggs by now.It seems that the only way forward is to go through with IVF treatment which is free on the NHS here in England. Unfortuneatly, we cannot have free IVF treatment because i have children from a past relationship.This is grossly unfair to my wife or any other women who needs this treatment but cannot afford it. I have never been allowed any contact with my children and they have been kept away from me by their selfish mother who would rather hang on to them as long as she can until they are older and can make decisions for themselves. How can my wife be penalised like this for my past? The CSA would want to take my wife's earnings into account for my past family and now has to be limited in her access to free IVF too. I will never have a family of my own and my wife will never have a baby because of my ex either. Heh, just try to adopt. My wife and I tried and tried to have a baby, and couldn't. Then we started the adoption process, and BAM! Now we have 2, an 11 month old an an 8 month old. short |
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IVF? No chance!
"Father O'Nearly" wrote in message m... My wife and i have been trying for a baby for several years but we have had no luck. I am 42 and my wife is 38 and probably has hard boiled eggs by now.It seems that the only way forward is to go through with IVF treatment which is free on the NHS here in England. Unfortuneatly, we cannot have free IVF treatment because i have children from a past relationship.This is grossly unfair to my wife or any other women who needs this treatment but cannot afford it. I have never been allowed any contact with my children and they have been kept away from me by their selfish mother who would rather hang on to them as long as she can until they are older and can make decisions for themselves. How can my wife be penalised like this for my past? The CSA would want to take my wife's earnings into account for my past family and now has to be limited in her access to free IVF too. I will never have a family of my own and my wife will never have a baby because of my ex either. Heh, just try to adopt. My wife and I tried and tried to have a baby, and couldn't. Then we started the adoption process, and BAM! Now we have 2, an 11 month old an an 8 month old. short |
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IVF? No chance!
"Father O'Nearly" wrote in message m... My wife and i have been trying for a baby for several years but we have had no luck. I am 42 and my wife is 38 and probably has hard boiled eggs by now.It seems that the only way forward is to go through with IVF treatment which is free on the NHS here in England. Unfortuneatly, we cannot have free IVF treatment because i have children from a past relationship.This is grossly unfair to my wife or any other women who needs this treatment but cannot afford it. I have never been allowed any contact with my children and they have been kept away from me by their selfish mother who would rather hang on to them as long as she can until they are older and can make decisions for themselves. How can my wife be penalised like this for my past? The CSA would want to take my wife's earnings into account for my past family and now has to be limited in her access to free IVF too. I will never have a family of my own and my wife will never have a baby because of my ex either. Heh, just try to adopt. My wife and I tried and tried to have a baby, and couldn't. Then we started the adoption process, and BAM! Now we have 2, an 11 month old an an 8 month old. short |
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