dads and parenthood

i want to know your issues what time do you actually spend with your
kids. How do you spend this time, how unfairly treated by the courts
do you feel and by your ex-partners. I have five kids 2 of them are
not my husbands but i have never stopped the dads of these two children
seeing them. 1 sees his daughter every week she is 16 the other has
never bothered she is 14. It has had a massive effect on how she has
progressed throughout her life. How do you feel your relationship is
with your children is it different because of gender and age of child.
Does your religion or ethnic backround hinder or help with being a good
dad. My husband is a good dad to ALL my children but never got a
chance with the three he was absent to. Anybody got any comments on
this one i'm sure somebody has if not everyone.