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wrote in message oups.com... Micah has always been very resistant to bedtime ever since he was 5 months and we transitioned him from our bed to his crib. He's now 2 years old, and with maybe a *total* of 3 weeks' exception, he still hates going to bed, and it actually seems like nighttime itself is getting worse. He's been sleeping on a regular bed (a futon, actually) for about 4 months now -- he figured out how to climb out of the crib, so that was no longer an option. My daughter wouldn't sleep with the door closed. Warm baths before bed can help. Chamomile tea, or warm milk can help. No exercise or boisterous play at least an hour before bedtime. Plenty of exercise through the day. No TV Quiet reading himself or someone reads to him Soothing music Night light or dim light Just a few ideas that might help Jen |
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Jen wrote: My daughter wouldn't sleep with the door closed. Warm baths before bed can help. Chamomile tea, or warm milk can help. No exercise or boisterous play at least an hour before bedtime. Plenty of exercise through the day. No TV Quiet reading himself or someone reads to him Soothing music Night light or dim light I might try leaving the door open. Tonight was another disaster. :P I'll try the warm tea or milk. We really calmed down tonight in terms of boisterous play, although he didn't get tons of excercise today -- I'll try to run him more ragged tomorrow (you'd think his knock-em-down tantrums would do the trick... :P ). We don't have a TV, so that's not an issue, and I read him books, sang him some songs, and he's got a night light. He just wants to stay up with us!! And is more than ****ed when he's put to bed, over and over and over. Em mama to Micah, 11/14/04 |
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Pologirl wrote: Yes. Or plan a cool-down interval between the gymnastics and sleepy time. Did that tonight... We had a period where screaming and bashing his head on things was a daily event. It can be very difficult to walk the line between discipline and support. I know if anyone locked me inside a room I would go ballistic. I know you feel like it is your last resort, but I hope you soon will find other tactics that work better. Yes, he ***hates*** this. He goes apoplectic. I think he could actually hurt himself hurling himself against the door (did this tonight), or at the very least, damage the door. :P One reason we go back in almost immediately is so that Monkey Boy does not have time to get out of bed and/or get really worked up. And if we don't have to listen to screaming we can more easily maintain the essential matter-of-fact, unperturbed attitude needed to quench any nonsense. As in, nothing you can do will get a rise out of me, so you might as well go to sleep now. I tried this tonight -- not locking the door, and every time he came out, I walked him back into his room, put him in his bed, and said "Ni-night, I love you." 4 seconds later, he'd be out again. This went on for an hour, with a brief intermission of him lying quietly on the hallway floor. Then we locked him in, then he had (another) screaming tantrum, then DH did the whole "it's time for bed blah blah blah" 10-minute routine and he's asleep now, but I'm expecting him to wake up screaming right when we head to bed. Argh. I know this is going to take time, but I hate it. I feel like we're going through CIO all over again. Ferber's book is not a quick fix recipe for success. To get much from it you should expec to read it through while thinking at length about your own situation. Then make a plan. I need to hear this. Thank you. Em mama to Micah, 11/14/04 |
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enigma wrote: hmm. Emily, did your son have ear infections as a baby/toddler? is he frequently stuffy or does he snore? my kid is 6 & he wakes every 60-90 minutes all night. i'm taking him to an ENT to see if there is something they can do for apnea. you might want to check with his pediatrician to see if there might be a physical cause for his waking. lee You know, I hadn't thought of this, but DH did have really bad sleep apnea when he was a kid, and my MIL told me that once they took out his adenoids he was a different person (in a good way! haha). I might look into this -- although I'm pretty convinced that at the moment, this is more a tantrum/manipulative thing than a physical one. Not manipulative with an evil connotation, but he's decided that he doesn't like sleeping by himself, and he'll do whatever he can to make that not happen. But in any case, that's a good idea to at least talk to his ped. Thanks, Emily mama to Micah, 11/14/04 |
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Beth Kevles wrote: Hi -- Our son had dreadful nights until we discovered his food allergies. Once we eliminated them, his nights became calm, and his daytime behavior was calmer. Common allergens that elicit these symptoms include milk protein, egg, and artificial colors, particularly fd&c red #40. Or it could be completely unrelated, of course ... I don't think it's food allergies since he doesn't have any other symptoms -- but I *am* starting to think that he could be allergic to his room -- the futon (which admittedly is a 3rd-hand grad school relic) or the rug or the stuffed animals or something. Maybe he's waking up because he gets stuffed up. Em mama to Micah, 11/14/04 |
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