Am I responsible for daycare on my week with a stay-at-home mom?

In article , Mikey says...

Gini wrote in message ...
In article , Mikey says...
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Ya' know, I understand all of this "be fair to the kids" stuff, as in,
pay child support so that both houses have roughly the same lifestyle.
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That isn't the position of the state. The state (excepting a few--PA is one) is
not concerned with equality of the separate homes. The NCP is expected to have a
substantial decline in lifestyle so that the CP's lifestyle (NOT the childrens')
is commensurate with a two-earner family--As though the divorce never occured.
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Wow, why not just poor salt in the wound. I'd rather they at least
explain it as what's best for the kids, not the CP.
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They do. I don't.
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Why should the CP
get squat, that's what alimony is for,
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No can do. Alimony is taxable. CS is not (to the CP). Divorce settlements are
intended to make life as stress free and easy for the CP (woman) as possible
regardless of whom wanted out and for what reason (no fault).
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if it's found to be needed and
justified.

Gini wrote in message ...
In article , Mikey says...

Gini wrote in message ...
In article , Mikey says...
...........................

Ya' know, I understand all of this "be fair to the kids" stuff, as in,
pay child support so that both houses have roughly the same lifestyle.
====
That isn't the position of the state. The state (excepting a few--PA is one) is
not concerned with equality of the separate homes. The NCP is expected to have a
substantial decline in lifestyle so that the CP's lifestyle (NOT the childrens')
is commensurate with a two-earner family--As though the divorce never occured.
====
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Wow, why not just poor salt in the wound. I'd rather they at least
explain it as what's best for the kids, not the CP.
===
They do. I don't.
===
Why should the CP
get squat, that's what alimony is for,
===
No can do. Alimony is taxable. CS is not (to the CP). Divorce settlements are
intended to make life as stress free and easy for the CP (woman) as possible
regardless of whom wanted out and for what reason (no fault).
===
if it's found to be needed and
justified.

That's it, I'm moving to Europe.