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I thought it was standard to have one pap smear and complete check up at
your first exam. Perhaps it is because you are so far along??? It is not standard in Australia. They do ask if you have had a pap smear within the last 2 years. I'd thought I'd probably have one during early pregnancy, and again I thought I'd have one at the 6 week post natal check. I filled in on my notes that I'd never had one and noone even seemed the slightest bit concerned. |
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Anne Rogers wibbled
It is not standard in Australia. They do ask if you have had a pap smear within the last 2 years. I'd thought I'd probably have one during early pregnancy, and again I thought I'd have one at the 6 week post natal check. I filled in on my notes that I'd never had one and noone even seemed the slightest bit concerned. You're not significantly over 23, are you, IIRC? It's only when you get to your late 20s and haven't had one that they start to get very antsy. If you weren't sexually active before 18 or 20 then there's no real panic about having one at this stage (3-5 years from first sexual intercourse is the FP guideline IIRC). And they wouldn't offer it at the 6 week check, the state of the cervix/vagina/uterus isn't conducive to a good result according to my GP. He has recommended waiting until 12 weeks pp at the very least, and in fact I've booked mine for 16 weeks pp (since I have to go to Family Planning then anyway). According to the u/s technician I saw at 6 weeks pp, endometriosis is also not easily diagnosed that soon after birth, and one is recommended to wait three months. I'd mention to them that you haven't had a smear next time you go to either GP or FP, though, because you probably are due one. Jac |
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Anne Rogers writes I'd thought I'd probably have one during early pregnancy, and again I thought I'd have one at the 6 week post natal check. I filled in on my notes that I'd never had one and noone even seemed the slightest bit concerned. unless you have had smear problems, or symptoms suggesting smear needed, it often isn't done in pregnancy or until 3 months post partm, as the changes in pregnancy can give a borderline smear, and then causes more concern than its worth. if you'd never had a smear before, were you over 20? screening tests are the responsibility of the individual however, rather than the screening service, so you can always ask. i had mine at 12 weeks preg as due, and i understood the possibility that it would come back borderline. the practice were very happy to do it for me. -- Helen Johnson |
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You're not significantly over 23, are you, IIRC? It's only when you get
to your late 20s and haven't had one that they start to get very antsy. If you weren't sexually active before 18 or 20 then there's no real panic about having one at this stage (3-5 years from first sexual intercourse is the FP guideline IIRC). And they wouldn't offer it at the 6 week check, the state of the cervix/vagina/uterus isn't conducive to a good result according to my GP. He has recommended waiting until 12 weeks pp at the very least, and in fact I've booked mine for 16 weeks pp (since I have to go to Family Planning then anyway). According to the u/s technician I saw at 6 weeks pp, endometriosis is also not easily diagnosed that soon after birth, and one is recommended to wait three months. I'd mention to them that you haven't had a smear next time you go to either GP or FP, though, because you probably are due one. age spot on! plus I've only had one partner and we only got married just over a year ago, which explains my GPs lack of concern. Looks like I don't need one for another 2 years :-). |
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Hi there
My DH and I weren't too thrilled with the tech though. SHe was incredibly abrupt and didn't have any bedside manner at all. Yeah, I know, she's doing this to hundreds of women every day and can't be bright and cheery with each of them, but hey, she could at least try. SHe squirted the gel on me without warning and then told me off for my laughing (I thought of you Carol Ann!). Sooooorrrrry, but it's not every day I go in for a scan for my first child, I was nervous! Then she got all ****y because I wasn't relaxed and my abdominal muscles were tight. Geez, there was no pleasing her. Maybe if she had been nicer I wouldn't have been so stressed. ANyway, it was so amazing to see this little form of life moving around so much, its arms and legs were moving around like crazy. My husband joked, "I guess she really is pregnant". (as a scientist he had to see the proof himself) Did the tech even crack a smile? No, of course not. I guess we got really lucky with our tech - she was cheery and even co-operated in holding the scan device in different positions so we could take time to stare at our baby to be. She wasn't even mad that it was stubborn as and took about 10 minutes of her giggling my tummy to get into position. I agree it is so amazing to see that there's actually something moving and growing in there. After that we went to another floor where we waited to be seen by a midwife. We waited and waited. I was weighed, had my bp taken and provided a urine sample. At my GP's at the beginning of Aug. he told me I was 55kg and when they weighed me on Mon. I was 53. Hmmmm I don't feel as if I've lost weight. And the weirdest thing, while looking over my papers the other day they wrote down that I weighed 50kg. Do they normally just round it down? This seems incredibly inaccurate. At my next appt I'll mention it. THis brings me to my next question, which I think only ppl in the UK can answer for me. The midwife told me that they wouldn't see me again until my 20th week! Really? Won't anybody be monitoring my bp and weight gain during that time? This seems like a really long time to go without someone checking up on me. I lost weight too - over a stone but they don't seem concerned at all as long as I am eating healthy. Apparently bubs takes priority in the resources department so as long as I am not starving myself, its generally o.k. I was told the 20 week thing as well (mind you I'm now 17 weeks and have only just had my booking appointment because it took forever to actually get the clinic to do what they are suppsoed to and see me(but that is another story)). Seems like a long time but I guess at this stage, what the baby is mostly doing is growing. Birth care wise, and in relation to this post, I also have read some of the other posts and have concerns about the care option hospital wise as in the one we are in, most of the care is in the community but the midwives you have at the birth are hospital based so you might not even meet them until the big day. Needless so say DH and I are a bit concerned about that. We're therefore investigating the doula option (as far as we can tell this is an experienced birth person (either through some midwife training or lots of babies who is there as a trained support person to tell you what the heck is going on). Has anyone else ever had one - what did they think, Anyway, good luck with the rest. Cheers Lou |
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