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mothers, daughters and bras
Hello
I'd like opinions about what's happening to me. It´s not a seriuos problem but it sucks. I'm a 13 yo girl, live with my mom and my older brother. My mom is great, understanding, we get along with her. And althoug I'm at the terrible 13s Im not that kind of teen who gets in trouble (why are 13 year old so bad?). The only problem is my mom is too strict about some points, sometimes she is too controlling. She worries a lot about me. Since my breasts developed (I´m a almost a C cuo now) she decide she should choose my bras, cause she thinks this is something very important and moms know best.But she gave me bras I dont like and, though with love , forces me to wear them. I gotta wear full coverage bras with 4 hooks in the back. I hate tyhem but mom says its out of love, its for my best, etc. I tried everything to talk her out of them, but she didnt back off. It's something shes really strict about. I could disobey and probably get away with, but I dont think its right. I have a good relationship with mom, shes nice and I dont wanna hurt her. All I can do is talk with her, and always get the answer , Hun, its for your best, I love ya! I get some kisses and have to wear them...lol! ...Some other teens laugh at me, but I love my mom, dont fight and obey.. The may call me a wuss, but why disrespect a mom who gives me love? I dont know what to do. If she realy doesnt back off, then am I stuck with such bras until I live home? By the way, of course I wont leave home because of bras,e. But only when I have job, and it wont be easy cause my mom wants me with her. Sandra |
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My daughter is 12 and also in a c cup...I by her bra's becasue she is so shy
about shopping herslf. So Im trying to think of this problem from both aspects.. Maybe you could tell your mum you are finding them a little uncomfortable, and can she take you to a shop where you can get a proper fitting. I dont see why she will not agree to that, and when she does take you, point out some bra's you Do like and ask the assistant if THEY are ok, and good for you to wear.. If your mum objects ask her why..of course not because you want an argument, but because you are interested WHY the ones you like are bad for you. You will find the sales lady will help you out also. Hope it helps Fiona "Sandra" wrote in message oups.com... Hello I'd like opinions about what's happening to me. It´s not a seriuos problem but it sucks. I'm a 13 yo girl, live with my mom and my older brother. My mom is great, understanding, we get along with her. And althoug I'm at the terrible 13s Im not that kind of teen who gets in trouble (why are 13 year old so bad?). The only problem is my mom is too strict about some points, sometimes she is too controlling. She worries a lot about me. Since my breasts developed (I´m a almost a C cuo now) she decide she should choose my bras, cause she thinks this is something very important and moms know best.But she gave me bras I dont like and, though with love , forces me to wear them. I gotta wear full coverage bras with 4 hooks in the back. I hate tyhem but mom says its out of love, its for my best, etc. I tried everything to talk her out of them, but she didnt back off. It's something shes really strict about. I could disobey and probably get away with, but I dont think its right. I have a good relationship with mom, shes nice and I dont wanna hurt her. All I can do is talk with her, and always get the answer , Hun, its for your best, I love ya! I get some kisses and have to wear them...lol! ...Some other teens laugh at me, but I love my mom, dont fight and obey.. The may call me a wuss, but why disrespect a mom who gives me love? I dont know what to do. If she realy doesnt back off, then am I stuck with such bras until I live home? By the way, of course I wont leave home because of bras,e. But only when I have job, and it wont be easy cause my mom wants me with her. Sandra |
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mothers, daughters and bras
I agree with Fiona. Your mom may be concerned that you have adequate
support in your bra, and certainly some of todays bras (unfortunately sometimes some of the prettiest ones!) have very little support! However, there are some very pretty ones with adequate support A friend of mine got a fitting by going to the following site and using the store locator to find a location near her. I am not sure where you live, but it is worth a shot. They seem, to have some real pretty selections pictured on line. She said the woman who fitted her was very nice and very knowledgeable. You could even have your Mom look at the site first before making the appointment (find out first if there is a location near you). Good luck! http://www.wacoal-america.com/lizsmith.html Also, I have to comment that you are a very considerate daughter to try to find a solution that works for both of you. Therese Grahame wrote: My daughter is 12 and also in a c cup...I by her bra's becasue she is so shy about shopping herslf. So Im trying to think of this problem from both aspects.. Maybe you could tell your mum you are finding them a little uncomfortable, and can she take you to a shop where you can get a proper fitting. I dont see why she will not agree to that, and when she does take you, point out some bra's you Do like and ask the assistant if THEY are ok, and good for you to wear.. If your mum objects ask her why..of course not because you want an argument, but because you are interested WHY the ones you like are bad for you. You will find the sales lady will help you out also. Hope it helps Fiona "Sandra" wrote in message oups.com... Hello I'd like opinions about what's happening to me. It´s not a seriuos problem but it sucks. I'm a 13 yo girl, live with my mom and my older brother. My mom is great, understanding, we get along with her. And althoug I'm at the terrible 13s Im not that kind of teen who gets in trouble (why are 13 year old so bad?). The only problem is my mom is too strict about some points, sometimes she is too controlling. She worries a lot about me. Since my breasts developed (I´m a almost a C cuo now) she decide she should choose my bras, cause she thinks this is something very important and moms know best.But she gave me bras I dont like and, though with love , forces me to wear them. I gotta wear full coverage bras with 4 hooks in the back. I hate tyhem but mom says its out of love, its for my best, etc. I tried everything to talk her out of them, but she didnt back off. It's something shes really strict about. I could disobey and probably get away with, but I dont think its right. I have a good relationship with mom, shes nice and I dont wanna hurt her. All I can do is talk with her, and always get the answer , Hun, its for your best, I love ya! I get some kisses and have to wear them...lol! ...Some other teens laugh at me, but I love my mom, dont fight and obey.. The may call me a wuss, but why disrespect a mom who gives me love? I dont know what to do. If she realy doesnt back off, then am I stuck with such bras until I live home? By the way, of course I wont leave home because of bras,e. But only when I have job, and it wont be easy cause my mom wants me with her. Sandra |
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