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"Mum of Two" wrote:
My partner admitted last night that our relationship of 6 1/2 years is over. I'll have to try and change my work days so that he can have Ana on his days off. I'll still have her nights but I guess she'll cut out her lunch time feed on the days he has her. Not that that really seems important right now, but it keeps it on topic. He'll be moving out to cause less disruption to Ana's life. I'm absolutely shattered. It's as though he's died, but worse, and at the same time not quite as bad. If that makes any sense. I'm sorry, Amy. hugs, rj |
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wrote: My partner admitted last night that our relationship of 6 1/2 years is over. I am so sorry. What a horrible shock. -- Chookie -- Sydney, Australia (Replace "foulspambegone" with "optushome" to reply) "In Melbourne there is plenty of vigour and eagerness, but there is nothing worth being eager or vigorous about." Francis Adams, The Australians, 1893. |
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"al" wrote in message
ups.com... Mum of Two wrote: My partner admitted last night that our relationship of 6 1/2 years is over. I'll have to try and change my work days so that he can have Ana on his days off. I'll still have her nights but I guess she'll cut out her lunch time feed on the days he has her. Not that that really seems important right now, but it keeps it on topic. He'll be moving out to cause less disruption to Ana's life. I'm absolutely shattered. It's as though he's died, but worse, and at the same time not quite as bad. If that makes any sense. (Hugs) I'm sorry. It sounds like you are taking the "high" road, which will be easier on Ana. It means you are a good mama. Always remember that. Thanks, that really means a lot right now. At the moment I'm not feeling like a good mama, but a stressed, hurt, angry mama. I'm not sure how I'm going to cope on my own. I'm not solo parent material. -- Amy Mum to Carlos born sleeping 20/11/02, & Ana born screaming 30/06/04 http://www.freewebs.com/carlos2002/ http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/a/ana%5Fj%5F2004/ My blog: http://spaces.msn.com/members/querer-hijo-querer-hija/ |
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"Mum of Two" wrote in message ... My partner admitted last night that our relationship of 6 1/2 years is over. I'll have to try and change my work days so that he can have Ana on his days off. I'll still have her nights but I guess she'll cut out her lunch time feed on the days he has her. Not that that really seems important right now, but it keeps it on topic. He'll be moving out to cause less disruption to Ana's life. I'm absolutely shattered. It's as though he's died, but worse, and at the same time not quite as bad. If that makes any sense. -- Amy I was a single mom once, and not by choice either. And at first, it really really sucked. I think I felt like you are describing - like my world was ending, and I was desperately clinging to a small boat drifting at sea. My heart was broken, and I felt utterly lost. That was 8 yrs ago... And I am so glad things turned out the way they did. If we had stayed together, we would have ended up not getting along, and that would have been bad for our daughter. This way, she has never seen us fight. I am a much stronger person for it, although I felt completely weak and helpless at the time. The hell we go through often makes us better people in the long run. I don't know if this makes you feel any better, but things will get better. If you do feel very overwhelmed by this, please don't be afraid to reach out and ask for help - if not from family and friends, then from a professional. Don't think I haven't done it myself. Betsy |
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So sorry to hear that, it's a hard thing to go through.
"Mum of Two" wrote in message ... My partner admitted last night that our relationship of 6 1/2 years is over. I'll have to try and change my work days so that he can have Ana on his days off. I'll still have her nights but I guess she'll cut out her lunch time feed on the days he has her. Not that that really seems important right now, but it keeps it on topic. He'll be moving out to cause less disruption to Ana's life. I'm absolutely shattered. It's as though he's died, but worse, and at the same time not quite as bad. If that makes any sense. -- Amy Mum to Carlos born sleeping 20/11/02, & Ana born screaming 30/06/04 http://www.freewebs.com/carlos2002/ http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/a/ana%5Fj%5F2004/ My blog: http://spaces.msn.com/members/querer-hijo-querer-hija/ |
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oregonchick wrote: The hell we go through often makes us better people in the long run. "A woman is like a teabag- only in hot water do you realize how strong she is." Nancy Reagan (or possibly Eleanor Roosevelt) Amy |
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I'm sorry to hear this, Amy. (((hugs)))
-- Sue (mom to three girls) "Mum of Two" wrote in message ... My partner admitted last night that our relationship of 6 1/2 years is over. I'll have to try and change my work days so that he can have Ana on his days off. I'll still have her nights but I guess she'll cut out her lunch time feed on the days he has her. Not that that really seems important right now, but it keeps it on topic. He'll be moving out to cause less disruption to Ana's life. I'm absolutely shattered. It's as though he's died, but worse, and at the same time not quite as bad. If that makes any sense. -- Amy Mum to Carlos born sleeping 20/11/02, & Ana born screaming 30/06/04 http://www.freewebs.com/carlos2002/ http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/a/ana%5Fj%5F2004/ My blog: http://spaces.msn.com/members/querer-hijo-querer-hija/ |
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"Mum of Two" wrote in message ... "al" wrote in message ups.com... Mum of Two wrote: My partner admitted last night that our relationship of 6 1/2 years is over. I'll have to try and change my work days so that he can have Ana on his days off. I'll still have her nights but I guess she'll cut out her lunch time feed on the days he has her. Not that that really seems important right now, but it keeps it on topic. He'll be moving out to cause less disruption to Ana's life. I'm absolutely shattered. It's as though he's died, but worse, and at the same time not quite as bad. If that makes any sense. (Hugs) I'm sorry. It sounds like you are taking the "high" road, which will be easier on Ana. It means you are a good mama. Always remember that. Thanks, that really means a lot right now. At the moment I'm not feeling like a good mama, but a stressed, hurt, angry mama. I'm not sure how I'm going to cope on my own. I'm not solo parent material. I beg to differ. Its very clear you are a strong, capable person. You might be feeling sad and not-so-strong right now, but its very obvious that you are strong. |
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What a horrible thing to happen to you. I can imagine how scary it must be but as others have said you are a brilliant mum and seem like a strong woman. Here's wishing you get through it with the least amount of pain possible at such a time. (Hugs) Jeni |
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I'm so sorry. (((((((((((AMY))))))))))
My thoughts and prayers are with you. If you need a cyber chat, write to me!! ~Carol Ann http://tinyurl.com/b9e9r Pics of Morgan "Mum of Two" wrote in message ... My partner admitted last night that our relationship of 6 1/2 years is over. I'll have to try and change my work days so that he can have Ana on his days off. I'll still have her nights but I guess she'll cut out her lunch time feed on the days he has her. Not that that really seems important right now, but it keeps it on topic. He'll be moving out to cause less disruption to Ana's life. I'm absolutely shattered. It's as though he's died, but worse, and at the same time not quite as bad. If that makes any sense. -- Amy Mum to Carlos born sleeping 20/11/02, & Ana born screaming 30/06/04 http://www.freewebs.com/carlos2002/ http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/a/ana%5Fj%5F2004/ My blog: http://spaces.msn.com/members/querer-hijo-querer-hija/ |
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