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Advice on correcting a 13yo for drinking/smoking>expulsion from school
I posted this on another board to a mother who had used mild spankings, and was
questioning what to do with her 13 yo daughter for the above acts. I am definately not offering this as advice, just telling the story. As you know I am of Americian Indian descent. Among Indians we have two types of people, those that are tetotalers, and do not drink alcohol at all and drunks! For us it is very very important not to drink at all! Geneticly, very few Indians can drink without becoming addicted. I am a tetotaler, as was my father, and my grandfather. This is my grandfather's story. In about 1900, my grandfather was about 11, he thought it would be cool to do some drinking. My great grandfather talked to him about it. They rode into town on the buckboard to get something. My great grandfather stopped by a moonshiner and got a bottle. He encouraged my grandfather to drink it all and had him drunk by the time they got home that night. At dawn he drug my grandfather out to plow the feilds. My grandfather was as very sick boy, headache, throwing up, in a lot of pain, and following a mule down furrow after furrow all day. He was in serious pain. He hated the taste of alcohol after that and never drank again. I have kids, I punished them when I had too. I didn't like it but it is part of being a father or mother. The key is to do what is best for the child. By definition they are not adults and what you do to or for them to control their lives is your right and duty as a parent within rational limits. My great grandfather did not get my grandfather drunk to hook him on booze, and giving an 11 yo is clearly illegal now, if not then. He did it knowing how sick it would make him, and used it to make him hate alcohol, a very very necessary thing for our people. I believe physical punishment is a good tool, and properly used can be very very good for a child. On the other hand, used incorrectly, with anger, lack of communication and with a child that does not respond to it well, it is a mistake. In our society, any physical discipline of children is usually judged as wrong, then again we have more people in prison than the entire rest of the earth, the percentage of Americans in prison is many times higher than in all contries where physical discipline is still used!! I know a good paddling can change a life for the better. Knowing that a child can do anything and get away with can change a child's life for the worse for a lifetime. I was never suspended ever from school. I was not spanked often, but if I have been smoking and drinking and suspended from school for that, I know I would not have been sitting comfortably for a few days. That knowledge in part made me as a child be better behaved and follow the rules. The key with discipline is to communicate well so that the child knows what and why is happening. Second any punishment should be something that causes pain or regret, a good cry and sorrow for the action that brought about the spanking. It should NEVER hurt the child in any long term way. What ever tool you use should cause burning pain via heat generation, and not penetrate below the skin, and the paddling should not cause injury to the skin other than a short term burning and stinging sensation. Hard or heavy implements should never be used etc, etc. But, grounding, isolation or other form of punishment may be more effective. What ever you do should be legal in your venue, and make a permenant change in your girl's behavior. What she did was wrong, and if she knows she can or did get away with it, she will be on the wrong road. thanks Jerry Below on this board, I posted a story by Sister Sharon that describes what such discipline should be like. It is an indepth story (about 13 pages) of a mother and daughter, and how the daughter's and mother's lives are changed by appropriate disipline and behavior correction for the better. to view it go to The Curfew http://www.e-lovestories.com |
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Advice on correcting a 13yo for drinking/smoking>expulsion from school
LadySharon1234 (Sharon) and Lifeknox (Jerry)
One into spanking, the other into enemas. Jerry wrote a boot "Love your enemas..." Promoting their books by posting cut and paste text in what? 30 newsgroups? Are you two for real or is this some SPAM or netcop way to to round up a list of people with those fetishes? Jerry claims to have been a Federal Officer for twelve years. Yet he is also a DC. (Doctor of Chiropractic?) Jerry once posted some rather paraoid stuff about conspiracies out to bump off people who are into his fetish. Sharon has posted from the "Lifeknox" account. Are you two a happy fetishist couple or what? Would you say that your book marketing method has been a great success? Have you paid off the vanity press yet? Is your ISP happy with you? |
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Advice on correcting a 13yo for drinking/smoking>expulsion from school
What's the deal with saying this stuff was not
fetish spanking, but posting it in all kinds of sexual fetish newsgroups? Seems like both of your personalities lied. |
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Advice on correcting a 13yo for drinking/smoking>expulsion from school
We are different people. I am using an old computer of Dr. Knox's and his
account as I do not have or need one of my own, so there is some overlap. As far as postings, yes we are sharing the love of God with some success. Both books are doing well, and as you should know Dr. Knox plows all profits and far more back into sharing the truth about colon therapy and health care. You are of course welcome to check out the sites. They are not about fetishes, they are about loving yourself and others in a proper and good way. thanks Sharon http://www.e-lovestories.com http://www.lifeknox.com |
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Advice on correcting a 13yo for drinking/smoking>expulsion from school
as well greegor, today we are celebrating the birthday of a man who put out his
message among pubicans and sinners. When telling others about a spanking or enema book which is very much a Christian love story http://www.e-lovestories.com where would you go. Jesus went to those with problems with those issues that he was helping with. We just follow his example. |
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Advice on correcting a 13yo for drinking/smoking>expulsion from school
I notice you never explained why you posted it in fetish sites.
Like about what? 30? |
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Advice on correcting a 13yo for drinking/smoking>expulsion from school
probably about five total greegor, and those related to enemas or spankings,
because of all people, these need the information most. I don't know if we know all the publicans and sinners Jesus talked to, but he did a much better job than me, I am sure it was far more than five. Again go to http://www.e-lovestories.com and read. If you can honestly read what is there and not be more positive about life, then I will be more likely to listen to you. |
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Advice on correcting a 13yo for drinking/smoking>expulsion from school
SPAM is the devils tool.
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Advice on correcting a 13yo for drinking/smoking>expulsion from school
agreed greegor. Then why spam?
just read the free articles most of which are about spanking and how this can be wholesome when used properly http://www.e-lovestories.com |
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