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Old February 15th 06, 05:44 AM posted to alt.child-support
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Dusty wrote:
"Camanova" wrote in message
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She was describing what she found at the kitchen table. She thought it
was pot so she didn't but she knew that what ever it was it wasn't eye
glasses. And that is what she thought would be in an eyeglass case. Not
what she described. She said it was yellowy white and hard in a total
of ten bags. witha glass tube and papers. So what do I do? And no I
don't think she should have her father ripped from her but she
shouldn't be where drugs are!!!


My suggestion is to go smoke some of that crack, don't use the papers,
use tinfoil. Good luck.

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Old February 15th 06, 05:45 AM posted to alt.child-support
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Dusty wrote:
"Camanova" wrote in message
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She was describing what she found at the kitchen table. She thought it
was pot so she didn't but she knew that what ever it was it wasn't eye
glasses. And that is what she thought would be in an eyeglass case. Not
what she described. She said it was yellowy white and hard in a total
of ten bags. witha glass tube and papers. So what do I do? And no I
don't think she should have her father ripped from her but she
shouldn't be where drugs are!!!


Oh yeah, learn to communicate is sentences that properly convey the
thoughts in your head (assuming they exist).

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Old February 15th 06, 10:42 AM posted to alt.child-support
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Now that was some sound advice Chris. Excellent.
My problem was with the "Weekend Warrior" bull****. Why is he a weekend
warrior? Let me guess!

"Chris" wrote in message
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"Camanova" wrote in message
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I need all the advise I can get. MY 7yr old found what sounds like
crack at the weekend warriors home. We went to the police but they
were to entrigued by the "awesome swords" on the wall to actually look
around the apartment. They basically called her a liar. Now his
weekend is coming up I don't know what to do please help!!!!!!!

Blessed Be
Confused


Advice: Stick your head in a bucket of water three times and remove it
twice.






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Old February 15th 06, 11:00 AM posted to alt.child-support
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Camanova wrote:
She was describing what she found at the kitchen table. She thought it
was pot so she didn't but she knew that what ever it was it wasn't eye
glasses. And that is what she thought would be in an eyeglass case. Not
what she described. She said it was yellowy white and hard in a total
of ten bags. witha glass tube and papers. So what do I do? And no I
don't think she should have her father ripped from her but she
shouldn't be where drugs are!!!


Hey there
I'm sorry you've had to listen to all the bull**** posted in response
to yours (I'm assuming yours is a genuine question, not a troll.... )

Camanova what you describe is quite a dilemma, and I understand your
concern. The first thing I would suggest is talking to your daughter's
dad about it. In a calm way, with the focus always remainining on
whether it's appropriate for your daughter to be around drugs, with no
judgement against him for using drugs, in a safe place (not at your
place and not at his).

He really does have to have the right of reply, and an opportunity - if
he is using or dealing - to understand the impact it might have on his
daughter (and relationship with daughter's mother).

It's likely if he is using that you'll get angry denial, if he's not
using, you'll get a kind of laugh-off denial.Measure what he says with
your logical assessment, not with emotion. And ultimately trust
yourself.

Ultimately, you'll have to make a decision that's right for your
daughter. Don't just snatch her away from him (because she needs him as
well as you), but don't let her be exposed to unnecessary harm either.


I seriously suggest that YOU see a counsellor/therapist about this. And
maybe your daughter too. A counsellor will be able to help you decide
what's right in this situation, and suggest appropriate strategies for
dealing with it.

I wish you good luck and good judgement....

Cathryn
(mother of 3, step-mum of 2, foster mum of god knows how many),

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Old February 15th 06, 04:43 PM posted to alt.child-support
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OPPRESSED SERVANT OF SATANS DAUGHTER wrote:
Now that was some sound advice Chris. Excellent.
My problem was with the "Weekend Warrior" bull****. Why is he a weekend
warrior? Let me guess!

"Chris" wrote in message
news:sHbIf.26984$sA3.1323@fed1read02...

"Camanova" wrote in message
oups.com...
I need all the advise I can get. MY 7yr old found what sounds like
crack at the weekend warriors home. We went to the police but they
were to entrigued by the "awesome swords" on the wall to actually look
around the apartment. They basically called her a liar. Now his
weekend is coming up I don't know what to do please help!!!!!!!

Blessed Be
Confused


Advice: Stick your head in a bucket of water three times and remove it
twice.


Sounds like a troll to me. The daughter thought that crack was pot??
Papers with the crack, but no crack pipe??

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Old March 5th 06, 02:24 AM posted to alt.child-support
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I would be more concerned that a 7yr old knows what crack is. Obviously YOU
dont.




"Camanova" wrote in message
oups.com...
I need all the advise I can get. MY 7yr old found what sounds like
crack at the weekend warriors home. We went to the police but they
were to entrigued by the "awesome swords" on the wall to actually look
around the apartment. They basically called her a liar. Now his
weekend is coming up I don't know what to do please help!!!!!!!

Blessed Be
Confused






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