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Homework ( Homework over spring break (long))
"Scott" wrote in message
... It reminds me of our friends who's son is in DD's grade, but a different class. They fell waay behind in spelling for some reason (the Dad of the Son says the teacher isn't very organized) so for about two weeks, the son had literally 1 hour of spelling homework EVERY night! Dad finally went in and talked to the teacher. All that spelling homework was interrupting the son's reading time. Anyway, I'm wondering if your daughter's teacher fell behind and was using the Break time to catch up. Which would be most unfair. This wasn't true for the report...but we are running into it now. Over these last few days, including the weekend, our daughter was swamped with somewhere in the realm of 30 to 38 pages of worksheets requiring her to do math-related stuff, draw it out visually, then write it out in story form. She was still finishing up her country report during part of that time. Our daughter's teacher has had some unfortunate circumstances this year and has been out quite a bit, and the substitute wasn't giving anywhere near the amount of homework we'd grown to expect (she'd go several days without giving out any homework). I'm guessing, as you had suggested, that the teacher had fallen behind in teaching the curriculum -- especially given that there were problems on the worksheets that involved subtracting negative numbers, and my daughter told me that the class hadn't covered negative numbers yet. So after yet another hard weekend, last night at 7:15, we told The Kid that she'd done plenty, that there was a lot of work there, and that she should be proud of the amount she finished -- even though she had not fully completed all the worksheets. This time, I didn't include a note, I just sent The Kid in with what she had (she'd done a lot, by the way). I feel bad about this. I'd like to be able to support the teacher fully, and I have done so in the past (even when I didn't agree with her). But I don't like pushing my daughter to spend an hour or more on homework a night, or hours over a weekend -- or hours over the spring break. I personally don't think that the homework amount given out right now is reasonable. Oh, and on top of this weekend's work, The Kid is supposed to turn in her project associated with her country report on Wednesday. There was so much math homework this weekend -- plus The Kid had to practice the choir songs with two little girls to help them prepare for a high-profile concert --that working on the project wasn't possible. Monday is Girl Scouts, and Tuesday is a school choir concert. I don't consider either of these unreasonable for my daughter to attend. So we either help The Kid throw something together of little merit in the little time she has (what does *that* teach our daughter?) or not even try to get the project in on time and accept whatever consequences there are (and what does *that* teach her?). I know we could continue to try to negotiate with the teacher (though right now neither my husband nor I has much time during the day to talk with her) -- but, again, what does *that* teach my daughter, other than school deadlines and requirements aren't fixed in concrete...even when they are presented that way? beeswing |
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Homework over spring break (long)
"Richard" wrote in message ... I am stunned by this. How can any amount of library, internet, video, textual, or even interpersonal research come close to physically being present in the country of study. A competent, secure teacher would have asked "The Kid" to share her description of what she saw, and what she thought about what she saw, with the class en lieu of a formal, written report. Let her spend her vacation time thinking about the lives of those she is seeing around her. Let her spend her vacation time wondering about the lives of children her own age who, by accident of fate, happen to have been born in Mexico. Let her spend her vacation time considering the lives of children her age in Mayan or Aztec times. Let her share that with the class in any form she chooses, and evalute her based on how well she succeeds. Your daughter's teacher has demonstrated quite vividly the difference between schooling and education. Coat of arms and national bird, indeed! I quite agree with you. It *is* just a little too ironic, isn't it? The Kid saw *less* of Mexico than she would otherwise because she was in her hotel room struggling with a multipage worksheet *on Mexico.* Doesn't seem quite right to me, either. On the other hand, it must be hard for teachers to remember and juggle the individual situations and requirements of every kid in her class. My husband suggested to the teacher after the fact that we should have requested an alternative assignment for The Kid, given the situation. The teacher said that had occurred to her, as well. Unfortunately, neither of the two people it occurred to ever got in contact with the other. beeswing |
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Homework ( Homework over spring break (long))
*"Beeswing" wrote in message
... This wasn't true for the report...but we are running into it now. Over these last few days, including the weekend, our daughter was swamped with somewhere in the realm of 30 to 38 pages of worksheets requiring her to do math-related stuff, draw it out visually, then write it out in story form. She was still finishing up her country report during part of that time. Our daughter's teacher has had some unfortunate circumstances this year and has been out quite a bit, and the substitute wasn't giving anywhere near the amount of homework we'd grown to expect (she'd go several days without giving out any homework). I'm guessing, as you had suggested, that the teacher had fallen behind in teaching the curriculum -- especially given that there were problems on the worksheets that involved subtracting negative numbers, and my daughter told me that the class hadn't covered negative numbers yet. So after yet another hard weekend, last night at 7:15, we told The Kid that she'd done plenty, that there was a lot of work there, and that she should be proud of the amount she finished -- even though she had not fully completed all the worksheets. This time, I didn't include a note, I just sent The Kid in with what she had (she'd done a lot, by the way). I feel bad about this. I'd like to be able to support the teacher fully, and I have done so in the past (even when I didn't agree with her). But I don't like pushing my daughter to spend an hour or more on homework a night, or hours over a weekend -- or hours over the spring break. I personally don't think that the homework amount given out right now is reasonable. Oh, and on top of this weekend's work, The Kid is supposed to turn in her project associated with her country report on Wednesday. There was so much math homework this weekend -- plus The Kid had to practice the choir songs with two little girls to help them prepare for a high-profile concert --that working on the project wasn't possible. Monday is Girl Scouts, and Tuesday is a school choir concert. I don't consider either of these unreasonable for my daughter to attend. So we either help The Kid throw something together of little merit in the little time she has (what does *that* teach our daughter?) or not even try to get the project in on time and accept whatever consequences there are (and what does *that* teach her?). I know we could continue to try to negotiate with the teacher (though right now neither my husband nor I has much time during the day to talk with her) -- but, again, what does *that* teach my daughter, other than school deadlines and requirements aren't fixed in concrete...even when they are presented that way? If* I understand this correctly, the children in this teacher's classroom are having to do extra homework now because the teacher either did not provide complete lesson plans to the substitute teacher[s] or the subs did not follow them. This is not and should not be either your child's problem or yours and neither you nor your child should find yourselves wondering what other things in life should be dispensed with because of poor teaching/administration at school. I think a discussion with the teacher about the unfairness of the *whole* picture may well be in order, particularly since nearly ever school I've ever heard of [and clubs like 4-H and Girl Scouts] accelerate activities during the last month or two of school. First the teacher assigned a major project over a vacation and now is giving excessive amounts of homework due to her own illness/absence from school? If the teacher cannot/does not relent or you are uncomfortable with discussing this with her, maybe a polite conversation with the principal. This is just, *imo*, wrong. But, if I mis-understand you, please disregard my comments as off in left field and try again to help me get the picture a bit better. ;-) -Aula -- see my creative works on ebay under http://snurl.com/369o and on zazzle at http://snurl.com/38oh |
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Homework ( Homework over spring break (long))
Aula wrote:
If* I understand this correctly, the children in this teacher's classroom are having to do extra homework now because the teacher either did not provide complete lesson plans to the substitute teacher[s] or the subs did not follow them. This is not and should not be either your child's problem or yours and neither you nor your child should find yourselves wondering what other things in life should be dispensed with because of poor teaching/administration at school. I think a discussion with the teacher about the unfairness of the *whole* picture may well be in order, particularly since nearly ever school I've ever heard of [and clubs like 4-H and Girl Scouts] accelerate activities during the last month or two of school. First the teacher assigned a major project over a vacation and now is giving excessive amounts of homework due to her own illness/absence from school? If the teacher cannot/does not relent or you are uncomfortable with discussing this with her, maybe a polite conversation with the principal. This is just, *imo*, wrong. But, if I mis-understand you, please disregard my comments as off in left field and try again to help me get the picture a bit better. ;-) The teacher gave additional homework tonight, even though The Kid's country project is still due tomorrow. My husband had talked to the teacher yesterday about the amount of homework she'd given out over the weekend and how it made it hard to work on the project, and she appeared to acknowledge the problem...but still gave out even more out homework tonight (not a lot, but it's the cumulative effect of it, at this point). The Kid completed tonight's homework tonight (despite having a school choir concert) and plans to finish her project in the morning. Her class is completing last weekend's math homework during the day at school. I don't like it. But The Kid seems to want to complete the stuff (she's a really hard worker), and my husband doesn't want to complain as long as The Kid is willing to get the homework done. Without my kid or my husband backing me, at this point I'm not going to follow up on it with the teacher. We'll see what happens next. Thanks so much for responding. It helps me to feel like I'm *not* being unreasonable in seeing the situation itself as unreasonable...if that makes any sense. beeswing |
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Homework ( Homework over spring break (long))
"beeswing" wrote in message
... Thanks so much for responding. It helps me to feel like I'm *not* being unreasonable in seeing the situation itself as unreasonable...if that makes any sense. I hear you on needing to be a united front in a situation like this. I hope things work out well for your short person, whatever the final result is. -Aula -- see my creative works on ebay under http://snurl.com/369o and on zazzle at http://snurl.com/38oh |
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My husband caught our daughter's teacher on the phone this morning just as The
Kid was about to hand her my note. Apparently the teacher had had no expectation of The Kid turning her report on time, given the fact that we were going to be out of the country, but she'd never said as much. I don't know whether to be relieved or angry. While it was good for our daughter to have the push to get the work done reasonably promptly, the stress the false deadline had on all of us really wasn't necessary. And I want my vacation back. beeswing A few things: 1) You should have spoken to your child's teacher before leaving on a vacation to get assignments. By not doing so, you are teaching the child that she can have unique treatment from the other children, and detracting from the message that school is important. 2) You should consider taking your family vacations in the summer, between school grades. 3) You could have informed the teacher of your vacation plans and suggested that your daughter be given an assignment which would allow her to use the travel as part of the assignment. While this is still asking the teacher to treat your child differently from the others, at least it reinforces the "school is important" message and also creates a situation where others (possibly less fortunate) children in the class can benefit from this special experience. Laura ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ This message was posted via one or more anonymous remailing services. The original sender is unknown. Any address shown in the From header is unverified. You need a valid hashcash token to post to groups other than alt.test and alt.anonymous.messages. Visit www.panta-rhei.dyndns.org for abuse and hashcash info. .. |
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Laura Slesinger wrote: 2) You should consider taking your family vacations in the summer, between school grades. It's one thing to suggest that people not take their children out of school to take vacations, but to suggest they not even take vacations during school breaks is definately over the top. -- Children won't care how much you know until they know how much you care |
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