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Becoming parent of child that has only mother.
Hello:
I'm interested in finding more information on becoming the father of a child that only has a mother? The mother and I plan to get married in a month, but I also want to become the baby's father, which isn't involved at all in the baby's life. The father as all but given up his parental rights and doesn't pay child support. I understand he needs to complete a form "officially" giving up his right? Is this correct, and where do I find this form for the state of Washington? The baby is only 10 months old (today), and I'm the only father figure he knows right now. Much regards, John |
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Becoming parent of child that has only mother.
How does that saying go?
Oh yeah...............'A fool and his money are soon parted' wrote in message oups.com... Hello: I'm interested in finding more information on becoming the father of a child that only has a mother? The mother and I plan to get married in a month, but I also want to become the baby's father, which isn't involved at all in the baby's life. The father as all but given up his parental rights and doesn't pay child support. I understand he needs to complete a form "officially" giving up his right? Is this correct, and where do I find this form for the state of Washington? The baby is only 10 months old (today), and I'm the only father figure he knows right now. Much regards, John |
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The father as all but given up his parental rights and doesn't pay
child support. I understand he needs to complete a form "officially" giving up his right? Is this correct, and where do I find this form for the state of Washington? If you can not afford an attorney for this, you can not afford this child. Try Family Court Services as they handle the homestudies in some counties. |
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Becoming parent of child that has only mother.
You sir, are nuts. You are planning on marrying a woman with a 10 month
old? This all seems rather fast. Take your time before signing up for a 20 year payment plan on a kid that isn't yours. I met my son when he was 2, married his mother when he was almost 4. His bio-father rarely visited, and even more rarely paid support, but that 21 year old man calls me dad. We have the relationship and I was never able to adopt him. After her and I divorced, he lived with her 4 years, but chose to move in with me for his senior year of high school because I was normal and dependable. I never paid child support for him when she left me. BIG SAVINGS. You can have a father - child relationship without signing on the dotted line. Just chill dude. Obviously, this woman is not real stable in relationships if she gets pregnant, has a baby, leaves him, hooks up with you, and gets engaged to you all inside a 19 month period. Take your time, this child's life will not change whether you do this right now, or do it 4 years from now. Relax, and save yourself thousands if this woman dumps you in 3 years. Jon wrote: Hello: I'm interested in finding more information on becoming the father of a child that only has a mother? The mother and I plan to get married in a month, but I also want to become the baby's father, which isn't involved at all in the baby's life. The father as all but given up his parental rights and doesn't pay child support. I understand he needs to complete a form "officially" giving up his right? Is this correct, and where do I find this form for the state of Washington? The baby is only 10 months old (today), and I'm the only father figure he knows right now. Much regards, John |
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Becoming parent of child that has only mother.
"Jon" wrote in Take your time, this child's life will not change whether you do this right now, or do it 4 years from now. Relax, and save yourself thousands if this woman dumps you in 3 years. I agree, this is sound advice and what's the hurry to get into the CS payment program? |
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Becoming parent of child that has only mother.
"DB" wrote in message
om... "Jon" wrote in Take your time, this child's life will not change whether you do this right now, or do it 4 years from now. Relax, and save yourself thousands if this woman dumps you in 3 years. I agree, this is sound advice and what's the hurry to get into the CS payment program? I agree. Why, for the love of God, would anyone want to shoot themselves in the foot with that gun? Reminds me of that Far Side cartoon from years ago.. Two deer are talking and one turns to the other and says to his friend with the concentric circles marks on his chest, "Bummer of a birthmark, Hal." Jon, she knows she has you as a patsy and loves it. Just wait, in 12 to 24 months (I give it less then that) you too will be living on a friends couch with half your stuff and nothing in your wallet. DON'T DO IT!!!!!! |
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