Message to First Wives

Before you alienate your children from their dads and the new wife you might
want to consider this....

My husband pays support to his children from his first marriage. His ex wife
has cut off all contact. He now has no real loyalty to them except the obvious
responsibility to pay his support. Many years of court battles and an ex wife
with her own agenda has seen to that.

Had we been in contact with the kids they would have been first in line for all
the "extra's" the ex wife usually sends the kids to dad for. We have not had
that problem.

Thanks, .... You made it very easy for us to keep all the money left after
court ordered support to take care of our family. My daughter (your husbands
step) thanks you for the new car she got for graduation. Our daughter thanks
you for the gynmastics, cheerleading, dance and most especially the trip to
Disney every year. These are things he would have gladly shared and enjoyed
with the children you had together.....you made it impossible.

I don't know who you think you were hurting....it certainly wasn't us!!!

I hope you and the NJ kangaroo courts are proud of yourselves. And I hope your
kids feel the same way when they realize what you did.

On 15 Nov 2003 02:20:05 GMT, (Gypsy0005) wrote:



Thanks, .... You made it very easy for us to keep all the money left after
court ordered support to take care of our family. My daughter (your husbands
step) thanks you for the new car she got for graduation. Our daughter thanks
you for the gynmastics, cheerleading, dance and most especially the trip to
Disney every year. These are things he would have gladly shared and enjoyed
with the children you had together.....you made it impossible.


Thanks you just proved that NCP's really can live a nice life after
their support and the theory that CS is "too much" can truely be put
to rest.

On 15 Nov 2003 02:20:05 GMT, (Gypsy0005) wrote:



Thanks, .... You made it very easy for us to keep all the money left after
court ordered support to take care of our family. My daughter (your husbands
step) thanks you for the new car she got for graduation. Our daughter thanks
you for the gynmastics, cheerleading, dance and most especially the trip to
Disney every year. These are things he would have gladly shared and enjoyed
with the children you had together.....you made it impossible.


Thanks you just proved that NCP's really can live a nice life after
their support and the theory that CS is "too much" can truely be put
to rest.

"Fighting For Kids" wrote in message
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On 15 Nov 2003 02:20:05 GMT, (Gypsy0005) wrote:



Thanks, .... You made it very easy for us to keep all the money left
after
court ordered support to take care of our family. My daughter (your
husbands
step) thanks you for the new car she got for graduation. Our daughter
thanks
you for the gynmastics, cheerleading, dance and most especially the trip
to
Disney every year. These are things he would have gladly shared and
enjoyed
with the children you had together.....you made it impossible.


Thanks you just proved that NCP's really can live a nice life after
their support and the theory that CS is "too much" can truely be put
to rest.


Hell my ex alone proves that. :/ Though I do know there are cases where
it's too much.

-Shell

"Fighting For Kids" wrote in message
...
On 15 Nov 2003 02:20:05 GMT, (Gypsy0005) wrote:



Thanks, .... You made it very easy for us to keep all the money left
after
court ordered support to take care of our family. My daughter (your
husbands
step) thanks you for the new car she got for graduation. Our daughter
thanks
you for the gynmastics, cheerleading, dance and most especially the trip
to
Disney every year. These are things he would have gladly shared and
enjoyed
with the children you had together.....you made it impossible.


Thanks you just proved that NCP's really can live a nice life after
their support and the theory that CS is "too much" can truely be put
to rest.


Hell my ex alone proves that. :/ Though I do know there are cases where
it's too much.

-Shell

Hold on a sec, Sparky,
Just because this man has money left after paying his CS, doesn't mean we
ALL do. Maybe his new wife has a good job and since she doesn't have to pay
for the child that her husband was denied, she makes enough to afford these
nice things for their children. Things that the kids from the first
marriage could have had to if it hadn't been for the selfish mother using
her kids to get back at dad.

Generalities like this one is like saying ALL women are freakazoid psychos
like my ex is. Of course that isn't true. So, gimmie a break.

Thanks you just proved that NCP's really can live a nice life after
their support and the theory that CS is "too much" can truely be put
to rest.

Hold on a sec, Sparky,
Just because this man has money left after paying his CS, doesn't mean we
ALL do. Maybe his new wife has a good job and since she doesn't have to pay
for the child that her husband was denied, she makes enough to afford these
nice things for their children. Things that the kids from the first
marriage could have had to if it hadn't been for the selfish mother using
her kids to get back at dad.

Generalities like this one is like saying ALL women are freakazoid psychos
like my ex is. Of course that isn't true. So, gimmie a break.

Thanks you just proved that NCP's really can live a nice life after
their support and the theory that CS is "too much" can truely be put
to rest.

"Fighting For Kids" wrote in message
...
On 15 Nov 2003 02:20:05 GMT, (Gypsy0005) wrote:



Thanks, .... You made it very easy for us to keep all the money left
after
court ordered support to take care of our family. My daughter (your
husbands
step) thanks you for the new car she got for graduation. Our daughter
thanks
you for the gynmastics, cheerleading, dance and most especially the trip
to
Disney every year. These are things he would have gladly shared and
enjoyed
with the children you had together.....you made it impossible.


Thanks you just proved that NCP's really can live a nice life after
their support and the theory that CS is "too much" can truely be put
to rest.


This is a very ignorant statement even from you. I find it interesting that
this one persons posting proves CS is not "too much", very scientific. I
guess this is how you came up with all your other CS facts as well, which
explains a lot.

"Fighting For Kids" wrote in message
...
On 15 Nov 2003 02:20:05 GMT, (Gypsy0005) wrote:



Thanks, .... You made it very easy for us to keep all the money left
after
court ordered support to take care of our family. My daughter (your
husbands
step) thanks you for the new car she got for graduation. Our daughter
thanks
you for the gynmastics, cheerleading, dance and most especially the trip
to
Disney every year. These are things he would have gladly shared and
enjoyed
with the children you had together.....you made it impossible.


Thanks you just proved that NCP's really can live a nice life after
their support and the theory that CS is "too much" can truely be put
to rest.


This is a very ignorant statement even from you. I find it interesting that
this one persons posting proves CS is not "too much", very scientific. I
guess this is how you came up with all your other CS facts as well, which
explains a lot.

On Sat, 15 Nov 2003 15:01:36 GMT, "ND" wrote:




This is a very ignorant statement even from you. I find it interesting that
this one persons posting proves CS is not "too much", very scientific. I
guess this is how you came up with all your other CS facts as well, which
explains a lot.



No, I just thought it was funny that this twit came in here and brags
about how all the money gets spent on her own kids.

I was being sarcastic.