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Lisa Welchel promoting child abuse
dragonlady wrote:
In article , "R. Steve Walz" wrote: dragonlady wrote: In article .com, "Priz" wrote: There was an episode that dealt with one of the girls losing her virginity. Whelchel refused to appear in the episode because she objected to it. I thought this was bizzare. While I may not share her religious convictions, I found it refreshing that a young actor would refuse to appear in a show that she believed was immoral. ---------------------- And that means lots of us find you insane. Please read what I actually wrote, Steve, instead of what you assume to be true. I said I found it refreshing that a young actor would refuse to be in a show that SHE found immoral -- not that I agreed with her. ----------------------------- Then you're confused as to what should refresh you and why. Steve |
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Lisa Welchel promoting child abuse
LindaY wrote:
R. Steve Walz wrote: You're lying. People do this to take the side of their abuser so that they don't feel as abused for having agreed with their abuse. But the problem is that it's a lie to the Self. In psychology the dynamic is called cognitive dissonance, and examples are the Stockholm Syndrome and learned helplessness in spousal abuse. [eyes roll] Oh, good grief. The only punishment I ever resented was the time my dad yelled at me in front of my girlfriend. I don't resent anything else. ---------------- Lies and defensive reaction. You sound as if you are a person who cannot believe that anyone ever got along with their parents. ----------------- I did, I know a few others who did. I can tell you didn't from having watched damaged goods like you GET damaged. * I am very sorry if your parents treated you badly as a child; ------------------- They didn't, and you're an ineffective liar. my grandfather did this to my dad and I did resent HIM for it. But I was not abused by my parents. Sorry to ruin your theory. ----------------------- Abused people seldom CALL the way they were treated "abuse", and that is part and parcel of their abused state. It's called cognitive dissonance. You have a great deal of buried hatred you're not dealing with, and which has crippled your creativity, autonomy, and sense of yourself all your life. It is a classic women's gambit, to knuckle under and ever so secretly hate. It cripples you as a person. You sound like you're quoting out of a college psychology textbook, Steve. Why not talk like a real person? My creativity, autonomy, and sense of self is just fine, thanks. The only buried hatred I have is for my job and I'm stuck with that. :-) Linda ------------------------------- You aren't used to being told why you do what you do, are you? You just coughed up a classic anti-scientific position, the kind that only comes of being terrified by the potential of others to understand why you are what you are. Steve |
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Lisa Welchel promoting child abuse
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"R. Steve Walz" wrote: LindaY wrote: my grandfather did this to my dad and I did resent HIM for it. But I was not abused by my parents. Sorry to ruin your theory. ----------------------- Abused people seldom CALL the way they were treated "abuse", and that is part and parcel of their abused state. It's called cognitive dissonance. Actually, that's not what cognitive dissonance is at all. You're just throwing out a bunch of fancy words you heard once and hoping that no one who actually knows what they mean is around to call you on your bull****. Then again, you're an idiot, so why am I surprised? |
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Lisa Welchel promoting child abuse
BTR1701 wrote:
In article , "R. Steve Walz" wrote: LindaY wrote: my grandfather did this to my dad and I did resent HIM for it. But I was not abused by my parents. Sorry to ruin your theory. ----------------------- Abused people seldom CALL the way they were treated "abuse", and that is part and parcel of their abused state. It's called cognitive dissonance. Actually, that's not what cognitive dissonance is at all. You're just throwing out a bunch of fancy words you heard once and hoping that no one who actually knows what they mean is around to call you on your bull****. Then again, you're an idiot, so why am I surprised? Just out of curiosity, how is calling someone "an idiot" any more credible than commenting on your right to sleep with gay men? Wouldn't me calling you a hypocritical piece of dog poop the most credible of all? |
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Lisa Welchel promoting child abuse
BTR1701 wrote:
In article , "R. Steve Walz" wrote: LindaY wrote: my grandfather did this to my dad and I did resent HIM for it. But I was not abused by my parents. Sorry to ruin your theory. ----------------------- Abused people seldom CALL the way they were treated "abuse", and that is part and parcel of their abused state. It's called cognitive dissonance. Actually, that's not what cognitive dissonance is at all. --------------------- Now you're trying to lie about and mischaracterize psychological knowledge for a century. I was tested on it in class six ways from sunday, you're nothing but a lying ass. You're just throwing out a bunch of fancy words you heard once and hoping that no one who actually knows what they mean is around to call you on your bull****. ----------------------- You just described yourself, except I used the "fancy words" and you didn't understand them. Then again, you're an idiot, so why am I surprised? ----------------------- Obviously someone failed to tell you that name-calling without logical rationale only proves that you just lost the argument. Steve |
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Lisa Welchel promoting child abuse
Once Upon A Time R. Steve Walz wrote:
Obviously someone failed to tell you that name-calling without logical rationale only proves that you just lost the argument. Oops, I lost the argument. You're a moron. ** Captain Infinity |
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