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Etiquette Question - wedding invites
wrote in message oups.com... This wedding we didn't go they had a list from a well-known department store where they actually wrap it and deliver it to the couple without you ever seeing it. We did send a card on later. I find that idea of the guests not even wrapping and bringing their own presents really clinical myself, but each to their own. That's a bit much to my mind. I prefer getting couples gifts off their registry just for convenience-what they want is right there, exchanging is easy if need be, there's no risk of duplicate presents... But we'll wrap ourselves and usually put the funny card in with the present. Jess |
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Etiquette Question - wedding invites
PattyMomVA wrote:
I can't imagine ending friendships because they don't have kids, nor did we skip out on our single friends when we got married. I'm not responding to anyone in particular here, but I have an observation.... I believe the OP of this sub-thread said that she wouldn't stay close to friends who did not *like* children, not those who did not *have* children. She did say that (the former), and I agree the thread's veering further and further from the initial point. But my problem wasn't with that, but with her earlier statement; that if the couple getting married didn't want the OOP (original original poster ;-) ) at the wedding then were they really her friends? Actually, it's not even so much that statement as the fact that the context wasn't about the couple not wanting the OOP at the wedding (presumably they do or they wouldn't have invited her, but about them not wanting the baby at the wedding. The way it was sounding, it seemed that what Anne was trying to say was that just because this couple didn't want the OP's baby at the wedding, that must mean they weren't really her friends. I don't know whether that was really how it was meant, but it seemed well over the top to conclude that purely from the couple wanting their wedding to be child-free. All the best, Sarah -- http://www.goodenoughmummy.typepad.com "That which can be destroyed by the truth, should be" - P. C. Hodgell |
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Etiquette Question - wedding invites
"Jess" wrote in message
news:eN8wg.164340$k%3.101174@dukeread12... But we'll wrap ourselves and usually put the funny card in with the present. Do you also have yourselves delivered? hehehe Marie |
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"Marie" wrote in message ... Do you also have yourselves delivered? hehehe That's a tempting thought. ..... Hmm.... Jess |
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"cjra" ) writes:
if their names are not on the invitation, they *are* explicitly excluded. I disagree. In some cultures, not having their names on the invitation may implicitly exclude them, but not explicitly. |
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"Leslie" ) writes:
Just a point of etiquette--the ONLY people invited to the wedding are those whose names are on the invitation. Therefore, if only your name and that of your husband were on the invitation, then only the two of you were invited. This is not a universal rule. Some families are not as formal as that. Some people are invited by word of mouth, and some people are welcomed even if not explicitly invited. Also, some invitations say "and guest" or "and family" or "children welcome", which invites people without printing their names. Customs vary. |
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Etiquette Question - wedding invites
Workingmom ) writes:
Anne Rogers skrev: Sadly it happens, that if the parents of both bride and groom disapprove of the match and the couple want to get married straight away, they often have little choice. Or just plain don't want to spend more money on that specific celebration than on any other celebration (birthday etc). On the other hand - they shouldn't expect presents, then. Tine, Denmark Nobody should expect presents, IMO. I don't think I would give a more expensive gift just because someone was spending more money on their wedding; I might do the opposite, basing the gift on what seemed to be needed: if they can afford an expensive wedding, they're not as needy. I give wedding gifts as a celebration and to help with setting up a new household, not as a payment for a fancy dinner. |
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Sarah Vaughan ) writes:
Anne Rogers wrote: Sadly it happens, that if the parents of both bride and groom disapprove of the match and the couple want to get married straight away, they often have little choice. They could choose not to have a party that they can't pay for. A choice you don't like is still a choice. I agree with Sarah. It doesn't strike me as sad at all that people choose to get married and don't spend a lot of money. Actually, I'm more saddened about weddings where a lot of money is spent. |
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Etiquette Question - wedding invites
"Sue" ) writes:
"Cheri Stryker" wrote in message The ironic thing is, breastfed babies (provided mom's wardrobe is cooperative) tend to be quieter/more easy to soothe (well, infants, anyway) than bottlefed. At least that's been my experience comparing mine to other babes. ?? hmm, I've never known the difference and is usually because of the temperment of the child. And definitely not so in my family. Similar things have been said in La Leche league publications IIRC. It also makes sense: bf mothers usually use nursing a lot to comfort a child in pain, to help a child fall asleep, etc. Bottles don't tend to last as long and therefore (from what I've heard) aren't as useful for those sorts of things, and pacifiers often aren't as satisfactory to the child. Many bf mothers have found that when their toddler weans, they can no longer get the toddler to take a nap. Also, bf babies have lower rates of almost every imaginable illness, mild or serious, so they're less likely to be sick at any given time. Of course individual babies vary in temperament, but on average maybe the bf ones are a lot quieter. |
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