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Dear Abby
Notice they didn't address her CS issue?
-------------------------------- DEAR ABBY: My fiance, "John," wears women's underwear and hose. He likes it, and I realize it doesn't mean he's gay. That's not the problem. His ex-wife, "Anita," insists on starting conversations with me about it, preferably within earshot of others. She asked, in front of their attorneys after a recent court hearing, if I "liked" the fact that John wears women's silk panties! (She owes child support and doesn't feel a need to pay it.) I realize Anita is doing this to embarrass John and me, and I don't know what to do when she starts these "conversations." I've never met anyone so cynical, defensive, verbally abusive and in need of counseling. She's also an alcoholic in denial, but she doesn't have to be drunk to start these conversations. This is one of the reasons Anita doesn't have custody of their minor children. I have tried ignoring her, but she'll stand there and talk to the back of my head, and the comments get increasingly personal and intrusive. How can I stop Anita in her tracks? -- EMBARRASSED IN PENNSYLVANIA DEAR EMBARRASSED: One way to stop her would be to turn around, look her in the eye and say, "Anita, I know you are bitter and angry, but the kind of underwear he chooses is up to him and is longer your business. So knock it off." And then smile. |
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"G" wrote in message . .. Notice they didn't address her CS issue? -------------------------------- DEAR ABBY: My fiance, "John," wears women's underwear and hose. He likes it, and I realize it doesn't mean he's gay. That's not the problem. His ex-wife, "Anita," insists on starting conversations with me about it, preferably within earshot of others. She asked, in front of their attorneys after a recent court hearing, if I "liked" the fact that John wears women's silk panties! (She owes child support and doesn't feel a need to pay it.) I realize Anita is doing this to embarrass John and me, and I don't know what to do when she starts these "conversations." I've never met anyone so cynical, defensive, verbally abusive and in need of counseling. She's also an alcoholic in denial, but she doesn't have to be drunk to start these conversations. This is one of the reasons Anita doesn't have custody of their minor children. I have tried ignoring her, but she'll stand there and talk to the back of my head, and the comments get increasingly personal and intrusive. How can I stop Anita in her tracks? -- EMBARRASSED IN PENNSYLVANIA DEAR EMBARRASSED: One way to stop her would be to turn around, look her in the eye and say, "Anita, I know you are bitter and angry, but the kind of underwear he chooses is up to him and is longer your business. So knock it off." And then smile. No, no, no......She should smile and say in a concerned voice "Anita, Dear, have you been to court yet for that little DUI incident? Are they giving you jail time this time?" In an equally loud voice to Anita's, of course. THAT will shut her up. Won't take care of the CS problem, but it will shut her up. |
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Dear Abby
It's 100% #2 wife's fault for being where #1 wife is. Why are they
still socializing in common places. If the husband is too shy to out the ex for her quirks, then he deserves it. If you don't want to hear it, don't be where she is. John |
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Dear Abby
"John" wrote in message ups.com... It's 100% #2 wife's fault for being where #1 wife is. Why are they still socializing in common places. If the husband is too shy to out the ex for her quirks, then he deserves it. If you don't want to hear it, don't be where she is. John Is going to a court hearing "socializing"? BA |
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Dear Abby
How often does G visit court that her comments bother her?
How many people does G know at the court house? John |
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Dear Abby
What CS issue? Wife #2 is concerned about wife #1 intrusion into
something which is clearly none of her business. Wife #1 is obviously trying to instigate (and possibly break up marriage #2?). This has exactly what to do with CS? Stevie |
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