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  #11  
Old November 11th 03, 04:53 AM
Bob Whiteside
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Default Who Is Fighting For Kids?


"Gini52" wrote in message
...
In article , Fighting For Kids
says...

On 10 Nov 2003 10:29:28 -0800, Gini52 wrote:

In article ,
says...

My guess is FFK is a gal whose ex is 15k in the bucket on his CS, and
has an axe to grind with any man who gets a dime behind in his CS.
If I were her ex, she wouldn't get a dime.
Probably is a lousy mother, and was even a worse wife. I'd sit in jail
first.

Am I close?
===
Probably. But, she also has severe psychological abnormalities that

prevent her
from having normal social interactions. No matter what is said to her

here and
no matter how many times folks go round with her, she will not change.

She
can't.


This would imply that what comes out of your mouth is always right,
which ive obviously denomstrated before was wrong.

========
You are confusing your opinion with fact. Just because you say something

does
not make it valid. I even posted the relevent federal statute that defines

"home
state" and the quidelines for competing jurisdictions. You demonstrated

nothing
except that you can't extrapolate meaning from written text and that you

haven't
a clue about legal jurisdiction.
========
..........................................
When someone here reacts to her in the way she hopes, it
serves to give her more energy for her subsequent round of fire. It is

an
addiction for her--she cannot survive without it.


Really? Then how in the world did I ever make it to my current age if
I cant survive without it.

====
You were diagnosed as a child when you demonstrated the same qualities.

You have
done this all your life. You have never been able to engage in normal

social
interaction. You lash out at everyone and everything. You are incapable of
admitting error because your self-esteem is so low. You can only survive
psychologically by degrading others, giving you a false sense of

perfection.
You've been in therapy all your life without progress. You have engaged in
similar escapades with other newsgroups for years necessitating frequent

changes
in your user ID. Your illness is why your husband left you--not your

child's
illness--and that is why he refuses to have any contact with you. You also

knew
before you had children that there as a real risk of passing your illness

on to
them but you chose to have them anyway. That was an unfortunate decision

because
rather than give them a good role model to help them have a more stable

and
productive life, you have given them nothing but your self-perpetuating

anger
and incompetence. It is so sad for them that you have chosen to do this.
Hopefully they will thrive in spite of you (and hopefully they will never

learn
how to search usenet archives).
===
===


She had a similar experience with her father. Her own father could not cope
with the depth of her illness so he too walked away and abandoned her. As a
result, she hates all men. The state has stepped in to rescue her by
diagnosing her as being disabled making her former welfare benefits
permanent. That allows her to play her games on the computer all day long
to satisfy her need to put down men and make her feel superior to other
women. She has adopted the tenets of feminism because they reinforce her
belief that all men are bad. The feminist doctrine feeds right into her
areas of need by telling her it is okay to be a victim, and she is not
alone. Like other feminists she doesn't recognize that driving men away
makes their lives harder. She cannot come to grips with the fact having men
around to share in child rearing through increased access allows women to
improve themselves economically in marriage and post-divorce. And like
other feminists, she believes the pretzel logic that takes a small portion
of a few women's experiences and catastrophizes them as being representative
of all women's reality.


  #12  
Old November 11th 03, 05:15 AM
Paul Fritz
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Default Who Is Fighting For Kids?


"Bob Whiteside" wrote in message
nk.net...



She had a similar experience with her father. Her own father could not

cope
with the depth of her illness so he too walked away and abandoned her. As

a
result, she hates all men. The state has stepped in to rescue her by
diagnosing her as being disabled making her former welfare benefits
permanent. That allows her to play her games on the computer all day long
to satisfy her need to put down men and make her feel superior to other
women. She has adopted the tenets of feminism because they reinforce her
belief that all men are bad. The feminist doctrine feeds right into her
areas of need by telling her it is okay to be a victim, and she is not
alone. Like other feminists she doesn't recognize that driving men away
makes their lives harder. She cannot come to grips with the fact having

men
around to share in child rearing through increased access allows women to
improve themselves economically in marriage and post-divorce. And like
other feminists, she believes the pretzel logic that takes a small portion
of a few women's experiences and catastrophizes them as being

representative
of all women's reality.


If I didn't know better, I'd think you were talking about looney lorain





  #14  
Old November 11th 03, 03:44 PM
Fighting For Kids
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Default Who Is Fighting For Kids?

Ok, Paul or Ken or are you Bob?? hmm.... one really wonders.

On Tue, 11 Nov 2003 00:26:47 -0500, "Paul Fritz"
wrote:


"Gini52" wrote in message
...
In article , Paul Fritz says...


"Gini52" wrote in message
...
In article ,
says...

My guess is FFK is a gal whose ex is 15k in the bucket on his CS, and
has an axe to grind with any man who gets a dime behind in his CS.
If I were her ex, she wouldn't get a dime.
Probably is a lousy mother, and was even a worse wife. I'd sit in jail
first.

Am I close?
===
Probably. But, she also has severe psychological abnormalities that
prevent her
from having normal social interactions. No matter what is said to her

here
and
no matter how many times folks go round with her, she will not change.

She
can't. It is folly to attempt to counter her arguments. They are merely
words
she furiously types for the sole purpose of getting a reaction--fuel

for
her
psyche, if you will. When someone here reacts to her in the way she

hopes,
it
serves to give her more energy for her subsequent round of fire. It is

an
addiction for her--she cannot survive without it.

And when the reaction is not what she hopes, the attackes get even more
hysterical

======
I wonder how many keyboards she's destroyed.


I am LMAO at how well you have her pegged.

Someone should keep a list of all the 'debate fatak errors" she has already
commited

snicker

======
======

===
===

nm







  #15  
Old November 11th 03, 03:51 PM
Fighting For Kids
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Posts: n/a
Default Who Is Fighting For Kids?

On Tue, 11 Nov 2003 04:53:27 GMT, "Bob Whiteside"
wrote:


"Gini52" wrote in message
...
In article , Fighting For Kids
says...

On 10 Nov 2003 10:29:28 -0800, Gini52 wrote:

In article ,
says...

My guess is FFK is a gal whose ex is 15k in the bucket on his CS, and
has an axe to grind with any man who gets a dime behind in his CS.
If I were her ex, she wouldn't get a dime.
Probably is a lousy mother, and was even a worse wife. I'd sit in jail
first.

Am I close?
===
Probably. But, she also has severe psychological abnormalities that

prevent her
from having normal social interactions. No matter what is said to her

here and
no matter how many times folks go round with her, she will not change.

She
can't.

This would imply that what comes out of your mouth is always right,
which ive obviously denomstrated before was wrong.

========
You are confusing your opinion with fact. Just because you say something

does
not make it valid. I even posted the relevent federal statute that defines

"home
state" and the quidelines for competing jurisdictions. You demonstrated

nothing
except that you can't extrapolate meaning from written text and that you

haven't
a clue about legal jurisdiction.
========
..........................................
When someone here reacts to her in the way she hopes, it
serves to give her more energy for her subsequent round of fire. It is

an
addiction for her--she cannot survive without it.

Really? Then how in the world did I ever make it to my current age if
I cant survive without it.

====
You were diagnosed as a child when you demonstrated the same qualities.

You have
done this all your life. You have never been able to engage in normal

social
interaction. You lash out at everyone and everything. You are incapable of
admitting error because your self-esteem is so low. You can only survive
psychologically by degrading others, giving you a false sense of

perfection.
You've been in therapy all your life without progress. You have engaged in
similar escapades with other newsgroups for years necessitating frequent

changes
in your user ID. Your illness is why your husband left you--not your

child's
illness--and that is why he refuses to have any contact with you. You also

knew
before you had children that there as a real risk of passing your illness

on to
them but you chose to have them anyway. That was an unfortunate decision

because
rather than give them a good role model to help them have a more stable

and
productive life, you have given them nothing but your self-perpetuating

anger
and incompetence. It is so sad for them that you have chosen to do this.
Hopefully they will thrive in spite of you (and hopefully they will never

learn
how to search usenet archives).
===
===


She had a similar experience with her father. Her own father could not cope
with the depth of her illness so he too walked away and abandoned her. As a
result, she hates all men. The state has stepped in to rescue her by
diagnosing her as being disabled making her former welfare benefits
permanent. That allows her to play her games on the computer all day long
to satisfy her need to put down men and make her feel superior to other
women. She has adopted the tenets of feminism because they reinforce her
belief that all men are bad. The feminist doctrine feeds right into her
areas of need by telling her it is okay to be a victim, and she is not
alone. Like other feminists she doesn't recognize that driving men away
makes their lives harder. She cannot come to grips with the fact having men
around to share in child rearing through increased access allows women to
improve themselves economically in marriage and post-divorce. And like
other feminists, she believes the pretzel logic that takes a small portion
of a few women's experiences and catastrophizes them as being representative
of all women's reality.


blah blah.. sorry my father didnt abandoned me, like you did your
children. I dont hate all men, just you and your cronies.. oh and we
must not forget the deadbeats of America. Welfare benefits? Hardly,
you are more the type to be on Welfare. Play games on the computer
all day long? I dont think so. Feel superior to other women? Like
who Gini and teacher preacher? Ha, thats not very hard to do.
Feminism? Adopted some of their beliefs, but not all.
Victim? IM not the one claiming victim. Im doing very well without
my childrens father helping me out. If anyone plays victim here is
the deadbeats and the mens rights movement. Power is going going and
will soon be gone. Don't like the tables turned, huh?
Driving men away makes my life harder? **Cough**
Having a deadbeat around my children does nothing for my children nor
myself. I dont need someone who cant own up to their responsiblities
teaching my children anything, as far as helping me? Ha..thats funny.

The last sentence out of your mouth really cracks me up. Thats what
you cronies think, I have stated over and over that there are good and
bad parents and that SOME NCP's are deadbeats.

If anyone is using the small portion of experiences and then turns
them into everyone's experience that would be you cronies.
  #16  
Old November 11th 03, 03:51 PM
Fighting For Kids
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Posts: n/a
Default Who Is Fighting For Kids?



Ken? Bob? Paul? Harry? Joe?


On Tue, 11 Nov 2003 00:15:30 -0500, "Paul Fritz"
wrote:


"Bob Whiteside" wrote in message
ink.net...



She had a similar experience with her father. Her own father could not

cope
with the depth of her illness so he too walked away and abandoned her. As

a
result, she hates all men. The state has stepped in to rescue her by
diagnosing her as being disabled making her former welfare benefits
permanent. That allows her to play her games on the computer all day long
to satisfy her need to put down men and make her feel superior to other
women. She has adopted the tenets of feminism because they reinforce her
belief that all men are bad. The feminist doctrine feeds right into her
areas of need by telling her it is okay to be a victim, and she is not
alone. Like other feminists she doesn't recognize that driving men away
makes their lives harder. She cannot come to grips with the fact having

men
around to share in child rearing through increased access allows women to
improve themselves economically in marriage and post-divorce. And like
other feminists, she believes the pretzel logic that takes a small portion
of a few women's experiences and catastrophizes them as being

representative
of all women's reality.


If I didn't know better, I'd think you were talking about looney lorain





  #17  
Old November 12th 03, 03:20 PM
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Default Hey FFK. Answers Please! was: Who Is Fighting For Kids?

FFK ...
On the whole, most contributors here have stated their case. They are
divorced, going through a divorce, or have questions and are here
seeking answers.

I went through a terrible divorce, but am now remarried to a wonderful
woman and have no CS probs now.

What's your story? I have an idea you're a female, with (about) a
$15,000 arrearage owing to you and/or your child.

Wanna comment on that?

Give us some background on yourself.

Maybe then we could understand your zeal. Otherwise, you're going to
seem like just a cranky troll.


nm

  #18  
Old November 12th 03, 04:34 PM
Dusty
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Posts: n/a
Default Who Is Fighting For Kids?


"Fighting For Kids" wrote in message
...
On Tue, 11 Nov 2003 04:53:27 GMT, "Bob Whiteside"
wrote:


"Gini52" wrote in message
...
In article , Fighting For

Kids
says...

On 10 Nov 2003 10:29:28 -0800, Gini52 wrote:

In article

,
says...

My guess is FFK is a gal whose ex is 15k in the bucket on his CS,

and
has an axe to grind with any man who gets a dime behind in his CS.
If I were her ex, she wouldn't get a dime.
Probably is a lousy mother, and was even a worse wife. I'd sit in

jail
first.

Am I close?
===
Probably. But, she also has severe psychological abnormalities that

prevent her
from having normal social interactions. No matter what is said to her

here and
no matter how many times folks go round with her, she will not

change.
She
can't.

This would imply that what comes out of your mouth is always right,
which ive obviously denomstrated before was wrong.
========
You are confusing your opinion with fact. Just because you say

something
does
not make it valid. I even posted the relevent federal statute that

defines
"home
state" and the quidelines for competing jurisdictions. You demonstrated

nothing
except that you can't extrapolate meaning from written text and that

you
haven't
a clue about legal jurisdiction.
========
..........................................
When someone here reacts to her in the way she hopes, it
serves to give her more energy for her subsequent round of fire. It

is
an
addiction for her--she cannot survive without it.

Really? Then how in the world did I ever make it to my current age if
I cant survive without it.
====
You were diagnosed as a child when you demonstrated the same qualities.

You have
done this all your life. You have never been able to engage in normal

social
interaction. You lash out at everyone and everything. You are incapable

of
admitting error because your self-esteem is so low. You can only

survive
psychologically by degrading others, giving you a false sense of

perfection.
You've been in therapy all your life without progress. You have engaged

in
similar escapades with other newsgroups for years necessitating

frequent
changes
in your user ID. Your illness is why your husband left you--not your

child's
illness--and that is why he refuses to have any contact with you. You

also
knew
before you had children that there as a real risk of passing your

illness
on to
them but you chose to have them anyway. That was an unfortunate

decision
because
rather than give them a good role model to help them have a more stable

and
productive life, you have given them nothing but your self-perpetuating

anger
and incompetence. It is so sad for them that you have chosen to do

this.
Hopefully they will thrive in spite of you (and hopefully they will

never
learn
how to search usenet archives).
===
===


She had a similar experience with her father. Her own father could not

cope
with the depth of her illness so he too walked away and abandoned her.

As a
result, she hates all men. The state has stepped in to rescue her by
diagnosing her as being disabled making her former welfare benefits
permanent. That allows her to play her games on the computer all day

long
to satisfy her need to put down men and make her feel superior to other
women. She has adopted the tenets of feminism because they reinforce her
belief that all men are bad. The feminist doctrine feeds right into her
areas of need by telling her it is okay to be a victim, and she is not
alone. Like other feminists she doesn't recognize that driving men away
makes their lives harder. She cannot come to grips with the fact having

men
around to share in child rearing through increased access allows women to
improve themselves economically in marriage and post-divorce. And like
other feminists, she believes the pretzel logic that takes a small

portion
of a few women's experiences and catastrophizes them as being

representative
of all women's reality.


blah blah.. sorry my father didnt abandoned me, like you did your
children. I dont hate all men, just you and your cronies.. oh and we
must not forget the deadbeats of America. Welfare benefits? Hardly,
you are more the type to be on Welfare. Play games on the computer
all day long? I dont think so. Feel superior to other women? Like
who Gini and teacher preacher? Ha, thats not very hard to do.
Feminism? Adopted some of their beliefs, but not all.
Victim? IM not the one claiming victim. Im doing very well without
my childrens father helping me out. If anyone plays victim here is
the deadbeats and the mens rights movement. Power is going going and
will soon be gone. Don't like the tables turned, huh?
Driving men away makes my life harder? **Cough**
Having a deadbeat around my children does nothing for my children nor
myself. I dont need someone who cant own up to their responsiblities
teaching my children anything, as far as helping me? Ha..thats funny.

The last sentence out of your mouth really cracks me up. Thats what
you cronies think, I have stated over and over that there are good and
bad parents and that SOME NCP's are deadbeats.

If anyone is using the small portion of experiences and then turns
them into everyone's experience that would be you cronies.


-----------------------------------------------------------------------
Wow!! I see punctuation! I see grammar in use!! I see you found your
spell checker too!!! Now if only you'd stay on your meds long enough for
them to have an effect on your poor, deluded mind there might be a change in
your thinking! (I know, I know, I'm really reaching, but there is always
hope...)

So FFK, my advise is NOT to sell your meds to the local drug dealer for cash
to buy yourself more smokes. Keep the meds for yourself, take them, that's
what they're there for.


  #19  
Old November 12th 03, 04:43 PM
Dusty
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Default Who Is Fighting For Kids?

Hello Jon,

Humm... let me see if I understand what you're saying...

We have FFK's X-hubby, who doesn't make enough money to cover his full CS
award AND keep a roof over his head nor food on the table, or gas in the
car. And your solution is to lock him up because he can't cover the cost of
all his obligations?

Is this correct?

"Jon" wrote in message
news:N4Vrb.165813$Fm2.144359@attbi_s04...
and I would put you in jail, no problem


wrote in message
...
My guess is FFK is a gal whose ex is 15k in the bucket on his CS, and
has an axe to grind with any man who gets a dime behind in his CS.
If I were her ex, she wouldn't get a dime.
Probably is a lousy mother, and was even a worse wife. I'd sit in jail
first.

Am I close?

nm





  #20  
Old November 12th 03, 09:06 PM
Fighting For Kids
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Posts: n/a
Default Who Is Fighting For Kids?

That is not what I said. My ex hubby makes 40,000 a year and doesnt
pay a child support amount that was determined when he made 20,000 a
year.

I make MORE than he does, last year he paid 2,000 for support. Dont
tell me he cant "afford" it.

If I really wanted to be a bitch I could go in and ask that they raise
the amount to reflect the change in his income.

On Wed, 12 Nov 2003 11:43:27 -0500, "Dusty" wrote:

Hello Jon,

Humm... let me see if I understand what you're saying...

We have FFK's X-hubby, who doesn't make enough money to cover his full CS
award AND keep a roof over his head nor food on the table, or gas in the
car. And your solution is to lock him up because he can't cover the cost of
all his obligations?

Is this correct?

"Jon" wrote in message
news:N4Vrb.165813$Fm2.144359@attbi_s04...
and I would put you in jail, no problem


wrote in message
...
My guess is FFK is a gal whose ex is 15k in the bucket on his CS, and
has an axe to grind with any man who gets a dime behind in his CS.
If I were her ex, she wouldn't get a dime.
Probably is a lousy mother, and was even a worse wife. I'd sit in jail
first.

Am I close?

nm





 




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