PLEASE....ADVICE!!!!

If a woman cannot afford to care for a child on her own then she should turn
over custody to the father. If the father is unwilling or unable to take
the child then he should pay his 50% share of the childs livings expenses
and only lifestyle expenses as he sees fit.

A reasonable person would expect if the child will be in Japan for a month
the father will be supporting the child for that time and should not be
expected to pay support. He will also be incurring a costly round trip
flight for the child.

Legally however he does not have a leg to stand on.

"Meleah Foreman" wrote in message
...
Hmmm..ok. I heard that this was a forum for mainly men, but I will take my
chances. I need help/advice.

My daughter's ex-husband, who is in the military is getting ready to go to
Japan (his choice). He has threatened my daughter that if she does not
agree
for their son to come to Japan (4 yrs old) next summer for a month he is
going to stop paying child support. For the past three years he was living
in Colorado and she would bring their son to her ex's parents house,
because
he felt if he could not see his dad, at least he could see his
grandparents.
This is not something she had to do, but did it because she felt it was in
the child's best interest. Now he is back and in Biloxi until he has to
leave for Japan. His visitation is every other week from 6 on Friday until
6
on Sunday. However, she lets their son go to see his father anytime he
comes
to town. She has no problem with this. When they divorced she left and
left
all the furniture, etc in his name because she did not need it. He had hit
her and she was in the hospital (reason for divorce). I am not bashing him
because he is a man. I am not a woman's libber and when my ex and I were
divorced years ago, we remained friends until the day he died. I am upset
because he talks bad about my daughter to their son, which I think is not
in
the best interest of this baby. He is remarried, yet continues to harrass
my
daughter and talk bad about her. I have told her not to say a bad word
about
him, because it will hurt their son. She has never had a problem with him
or
his parents having the child, however, does have a problem with him flying
overseas with the state of the world right now. On top of that he is
threatening to stop paying child support. (Louisiana is the state of
divorce). Can he do this? Lawyers are an option, but an expense that with
surgery coming up may not be affordable. Any advise?? All she expects is
the
child support (400/m) and to keep peace for the child's sake.

If a woman cannot afford to care for a child on her own then she should turn
over custody to the father. If the father is unwilling or unable to take
the child then he should pay his 50% share of the childs livings expenses
and only lifestyle expenses as he sees fit.

A reasonable person would expect if the child will be in Japan for a month
the father will be supporting the child for that time and should not be
expected to pay support. He will also be incurring a costly round trip
flight for the child.

Legally however he does not have a leg to stand on.

"Meleah Foreman" wrote in message
...
Hmmm..ok. I heard that this was a forum for mainly men, but I will take my
chances. I need help/advice.

My daughter's ex-husband, who is in the military is getting ready to go to
Japan (his choice). He has threatened my daughter that if she does not
agree
for their son to come to Japan (4 yrs old) next summer for a month he is
going to stop paying child support. For the past three years he was living
in Colorado and she would bring their son to her ex's parents house,
because
he felt if he could not see his dad, at least he could see his
grandparents.
This is not something she had to do, but did it because she felt it was in
the child's best interest. Now he is back and in Biloxi until he has to
leave for Japan. His visitation is every other week from 6 on Friday until
6
on Sunday. However, she lets their son go to see his father anytime he
comes
to town. She has no problem with this. When they divorced she left and
left
all the furniture, etc in his name because she did not need it. He had hit
her and she was in the hospital (reason for divorce). I am not bashing him
because he is a man. I am not a woman's libber and when my ex and I were
divorced years ago, we remained friends until the day he died. I am upset
because he talks bad about my daughter to their son, which I think is not
in
the best interest of this baby. He is remarried, yet continues to harrass
my
daughter and talk bad about her. I have told her not to say a bad word
about
him, because it will hurt their son. She has never had a problem with him
or
his parents having the child, however, does have a problem with him flying
overseas with the state of the world right now. On top of that he is
threatening to stop paying child support. (Louisiana is the state of
divorce). Can he do this? Lawyers are an option, but an expense that with
surgery coming up may not be affordable. Any advise?? All she expects is
the
child support (400/m) and to keep peace for the child's sake.

If a woman cannot afford to care for a child on her own then she should turn
over custody to the father. If the father is unwilling or unable to take
the child then he should pay his 50% share of the childs livings expenses
and only lifestyle expenses as he sees fit.

A reasonable person would expect if the child will be in Japan for a month
the father will be supporting the child for that time and should not be
expected to pay support. He will also be incurring a costly round trip
flight for the child.

Legally however he does not have a leg to stand on.

"Meleah Foreman" wrote in message
...
Hmmm..ok. I heard that this was a forum for mainly men, but I will take my
chances. I need help/advice.

My daughter's ex-husband, who is in the military is getting ready to go to
Japan (his choice). He has threatened my daughter that if she does not
agree
for their son to come to Japan (4 yrs old) next summer for a month he is
going to stop paying child support. For the past three years he was living
in Colorado and she would bring their son to her ex's parents house,
because
he felt if he could not see his dad, at least he could see his
grandparents.
This is not something she had to do, but did it because she felt it was in
the child's best interest. Now he is back and in Biloxi until he has to
leave for Japan. His visitation is every other week from 6 on Friday until
6
on Sunday. However, she lets their son go to see his father anytime he
comes
to town. She has no problem with this. When they divorced she left and
left
all the furniture, etc in his name because she did not need it. He had hit
her and she was in the hospital (reason for divorce). I am not bashing him
because he is a man. I am not a woman's libber and when my ex and I were
divorced years ago, we remained friends until the day he died. I am upset
because he talks bad about my daughter to their son, which I think is not
in
the best interest of this baby. He is remarried, yet continues to harrass
my
daughter and talk bad about her. I have told her not to say a bad word
about
him, because it will hurt their son. She has never had a problem with him
or
his parents having the child, however, does have a problem with him flying
overseas with the state of the world right now. On top of that he is
threatening to stop paying child support. (Louisiana is the state of
divorce). Can he do this? Lawyers are an option, but an expense that with
surgery coming up may not be affordable. Any advise?? All she expects is
the
child support (400/m) and to keep peace for the child's sake.

I give up!!! I never said my daughter could not support her son. I said he
is threatening to top paying child support. The other issue is the concern
of safety.

Let me reiterate. She is not keeping him from his child. He sees him all the
time now. She is concerned for safety in traveling overseas. He is not
withholding child support for one month...he is saying if she does not do
things his way....he will never pay child support.

"Don" don@free wrote in message ...
If a woman cannot afford to care for a child on her own then she should
turn
over custody to the father. If the father is unwilling or unable to take
the child then he should pay his 50% share of the childs livings expenses
and only lifestyle expenses as he sees fit.

A reasonable person would expect if the child will be in Japan for a month
the father will be supporting the child for that time and should not be
expected to pay support. He will also be incurring a costly round trip
flight for the child.

Legally however he does not have a leg to stand on.

"Meleah Foreman" wrote in message
...
Hmmm..ok. I heard that this was a forum for mainly men, but I will take
my
chances. I need help/advice.

My daughter's ex-husband, who is in the military is getting ready to go
to
Japan (his choice). He has threatened my daughter that if she does not
agree
for their son to come to Japan (4 yrs old) next summer for a month he is
going to stop paying child support. For the past three years he was
living
in Colorado and she would bring their son to her ex's parents house,
because
he felt if he could not see his dad, at least he could see his
grandparents.
This is not something she had to do, but did it because she felt it was
in
the child's best interest. Now he is back and in Biloxi until he has to
leave for Japan. His visitation is every other week from 6 on Friday
until
6
on Sunday. However, she lets their son go to see his father anytime he
comes
to town. She has no problem with this. When they divorced she left and
left
all the furniture, etc in his name because she did not need it. He had
hit
her and she was in the hospital (reason for divorce). I am not bashing
him
because he is a man. I am not a woman's libber and when my ex and I were
divorced years ago, we remained friends until the day he died. I am
upset
because he talks bad about my daughter to their son, which I think is
not
in
the best interest of this baby. He is remarried, yet continues to
harrass
my
daughter and talk bad about her. I have told her not to say a bad word
about
him, because it will hurt their son. She has never had a problem with
him
or
his parents having the child, however, does have a problem with him
flying
overseas with the state of the world right now. On top of that he is
threatening to stop paying child support. (Louisiana is the state of
divorce). Can he do this? Lawyers are an option, but an expense that
with
surgery coming up may not be affordable. Any advise?? All she expects is
the
child support (400/m) and to keep peace for the child's sake.

I give up!!! I never said my daughter could not support her son. I said he
is threatening to top paying child support. The other issue is the concern
of safety.

Let me reiterate. She is not keeping him from his child. He sees him all the
time now. She is concerned for safety in traveling overseas. He is not
withholding child support for one month...he is saying if she does not do
things his way....he will never pay child support.

"Don" don@free wrote in message ...
If a woman cannot afford to care for a child on her own then she should
turn
over custody to the father. If the father is unwilling or unable to take
the child then he should pay his 50% share of the childs livings expenses
and only lifestyle expenses as he sees fit.

A reasonable person would expect if the child will be in Japan for a month
the father will be supporting the child for that time and should not be
expected to pay support. He will also be incurring a costly round trip
flight for the child.

Legally however he does not have a leg to stand on.

"Meleah Foreman" wrote in message
...
Hmmm..ok. I heard that this was a forum for mainly men, but I will take
my
chances. I need help/advice.

My daughter's ex-husband, who is in the military is getting ready to go
to
Japan (his choice). He has threatened my daughter that if she does not
agree
for their son to come to Japan (4 yrs old) next summer for a month he is
going to stop paying child support. For the past three years he was
living
in Colorado and she would bring their son to her ex's parents house,
because
he felt if he could not see his dad, at least he could see his
grandparents.
This is not something she had to do, but did it because she felt it was
in
the child's best interest. Now he is back and in Biloxi until he has to
leave for Japan. His visitation is every other week from 6 on Friday
until
6
on Sunday. However, she lets their son go to see his father anytime he
comes
to town. She has no problem with this. When they divorced she left and
left
all the furniture, etc in his name because she did not need it. He had
hit
her and she was in the hospital (reason for divorce). I am not bashing
him
because he is a man. I am not a woman's libber and when my ex and I were
divorced years ago, we remained friends until the day he died. I am
upset
because he talks bad about my daughter to their son, which I think is
not
in
the best interest of this baby. He is remarried, yet continues to
harrass
my
daughter and talk bad about her. I have told her not to say a bad word
about
him, because it will hurt their son. She has never had a problem with
him
or
his parents having the child, however, does have a problem with him
flying
overseas with the state of the world right now. On top of that he is
threatening to stop paying child support. (Louisiana is the state of
divorce). Can he do this? Lawyers are an option, but an expense that
with
surgery coming up may not be affordable. Any advise?? All she expects is
the
child support (400/m) and to keep peace for the child's sake.

I give up!!! I never said my daughter could not support her son. I said he
is threatening to top paying child support. The other issue is the concern
of safety.

Let me reiterate. She is not keeping him from his child. He sees him all the
time now. She is concerned for safety in traveling overseas. He is not
withholding child support for one month...he is saying if she does not do
things his way....he will never pay child support.

"Don" don@free wrote in message ...
If a woman cannot afford to care for a child on her own then she should
turn
over custody to the father. If the father is unwilling or unable to take
the child then he should pay his 50% share of the childs livings expenses
and only lifestyle expenses as he sees fit.

A reasonable person would expect if the child will be in Japan for a month
the father will be supporting the child for that time and should not be
expected to pay support. He will also be incurring a costly round trip
flight for the child.

Legally however he does not have a leg to stand on.

"Meleah Foreman" wrote in message
...
Hmmm..ok. I heard that this was a forum for mainly men, but I will take
my
chances. I need help/advice.

My daughter's ex-husband, who is in the military is getting ready to go
to
Japan (his choice). He has threatened my daughter that if she does not
agree
for their son to come to Japan (4 yrs old) next summer for a month he is
going to stop paying child support. For the past three years he was
living
in Colorado and she would bring their son to her ex's parents house,
because
he felt if he could not see his dad, at least he could see his
grandparents.
This is not something she had to do, but did it because she felt it was
in
the child's best interest. Now he is back and in Biloxi until he has to
leave for Japan. His visitation is every other week from 6 on Friday
until
6
on Sunday. However, she lets their son go to see his father anytime he
comes
to town. She has no problem with this. When they divorced she left and
left
all the furniture, etc in his name because she did not need it. He had
hit
her and she was in the hospital (reason for divorce). I am not bashing
him
because he is a man. I am not a woman's libber and when my ex and I were
divorced years ago, we remained friends until the day he died. I am
upset
because he talks bad about my daughter to their son, which I think is
not
in
the best interest of this baby. He is remarried, yet continues to
harrass
my
daughter and talk bad about her. I have told her not to say a bad word
about
him, because it will hurt their son. She has never had a problem with
him
or
his parents having the child, however, does have a problem with him
flying
overseas with the state of the world right now. On top of that he is
threatening to stop paying child support. (Louisiana is the state of
divorce). Can he do this? Lawyers are an option, but an expense that
with
surgery coming up may not be affordable. Any advise?? All she expects is
the
child support (400/m) and to keep peace for the child's sake.

I give up!!! I never said my daughter could not support her son. I said he
is threatening to top paying child support. The other issue is the concern
of safety.

Let me reiterate. She is not keeping him from his child. He sees him all the
time now. She is concerned for safety in traveling overseas. He is not
withholding child support for one month...he is saying if she does not do
things his way....he will never pay child support.

"Don" don@free wrote in message ...
If a woman cannot afford to care for a child on her own then she should
turn
over custody to the father. If the father is unwilling or unable to take
the child then he should pay his 50% share of the childs livings expenses
and only lifestyle expenses as he sees fit.

A reasonable person would expect if the child will be in Japan for a month
the father will be supporting the child for that time and should not be
expected to pay support. He will also be incurring a costly round trip
flight for the child.

Legally however he does not have a leg to stand on.

"Meleah Foreman" wrote in message
...
Hmmm..ok. I heard that this was a forum for mainly men, but I will take
my
chances. I need help/advice.

My daughter's ex-husband, who is in the military is getting ready to go
to
Japan (his choice). He has threatened my daughter that if she does not
agree
for their son to come to Japan (4 yrs old) next summer for a month he is
going to stop paying child support. For the past three years he was
living
in Colorado and she would bring their son to her ex's parents house,
because
he felt if he could not see his dad, at least he could see his
grandparents.
This is not something she had to do, but did it because she felt it was
in
the child's best interest. Now he is back and in Biloxi until he has to
leave for Japan. His visitation is every other week from 6 on Friday
until
6
on Sunday. However, she lets their son go to see his father anytime he
comes
to town. She has no problem with this. When they divorced she left and
left
all the furniture, etc in his name because she did not need it. He had
hit
her and she was in the hospital (reason for divorce). I am not bashing
him
because he is a man. I am not a woman's libber and when my ex and I were
divorced years ago, we remained friends until the day he died. I am
upset
because he talks bad about my daughter to their son, which I think is
not
in
the best interest of this baby. He is remarried, yet continues to
harrass
my
daughter and talk bad about her. I have told her not to say a bad word
about
him, because it will hurt their son. She has never had a problem with
him
or
his parents having the child, however, does have a problem with him
flying
overseas with the state of the world right now. On top of that he is
threatening to stop paying child support. (Louisiana is the state of
divorce). Can he do this? Lawyers are an option, but an expense that
with
surgery coming up may not be affordable. Any advise?? All she expects is
the
child support (400/m) and to keep peace for the child's sake.

Meleah Foreman wrote:
Sorry, obviously I am in the wrong forum. I was hoing for unbiased opinions.

LOL. If you're looking for support for misandry this is the wrong place.


My daughter is overly fair with her ex, going above and beyond what the
court has ordered. She was concerned about his flying overseas in such
troubling times....NOT keeping him away from his father.

Sounds like she's more fair than you.


Her ex hit her and
abused her....and was put in anger management by the military.

Every woman a victim. Yada yada yada. Men=bad, women=good. The story
never changes.


He is not the
greatest husband material, but is a good father. My daughter does have a
life and has met a wonderful man. I am sorry if your ex was a bitch, we are
not all that way.

You obviously are. You have no clue about me.


I was asking an opinion, not man bashing....sorry if you took it wrong.

You were man bashing, and still are. Sorry if you wanted sympathy for
misandry.

Bob




--

When did we divide into sides?

"As president, I will put American government and our legal system back
on the side of women." John Kerry, misandrist Democratic candidate for
President. http://www.johnkerry.com/issues/women/


























[Bob does not advocate any illegal, seditious, or immoral acts. All
posts are for discussion, rhetorical, or humorous purposes only.]

Meleah Foreman wrote:
Sorry, obviously I am in the wrong forum. I was hoing for unbiased opinions.

LOL. If you're looking for support for misandry this is the wrong place.


My daughter is overly fair with her ex, going above and beyond what the
court has ordered. She was concerned about his flying overseas in such
troubling times....NOT keeping him away from his father.

Sounds like she's more fair than you.


Her ex hit her and
abused her....and was put in anger management by the military.

Every woman a victim. Yada yada yada. Men=bad, women=good. The story
never changes.


He is not the
greatest husband material, but is a good father. My daughter does have a
life and has met a wonderful man. I am sorry if your ex was a bitch, we are
not all that way.

You obviously are. You have no clue about me.


I was asking an opinion, not man bashing....sorry if you took it wrong.

You were man bashing, and still are. Sorry if you wanted sympathy for
misandry.

Bob




--

When did we divide into sides?

"As president, I will put American government and our legal system back
on the side of women." John Kerry, misandrist Democratic candidate for
President. http://www.johnkerry.com/issues/women/


























[Bob does not advocate any illegal, seditious, or immoral acts. All
posts are for discussion, rhetorical, or humorous purposes only.]

Meleah Foreman wrote:
Sorry, obviously I am in the wrong forum. I was hoing for unbiased opinions.

LOL. If you're looking for support for misandry this is the wrong place.


My daughter is overly fair with her ex, going above and beyond what the
court has ordered. She was concerned about his flying overseas in such
troubling times....NOT keeping him away from his father.

Sounds like she's more fair than you.


Her ex hit her and
abused her....and was put in anger management by the military.

Every woman a victim. Yada yada yada. Men=bad, women=good. The story
never changes.


He is not the
greatest husband material, but is a good father. My daughter does have a
life and has met a wonderful man. I am sorry if your ex was a bitch, we are
not all that way.

You obviously are. You have no clue about me.


I was asking an opinion, not man bashing....sorry if you took it wrong.

You were man bashing, and still are. Sorry if you wanted sympathy for
misandry.

Bob




--

When did we divide into sides?

"As president, I will put American government and our legal system back
on the side of women." John Kerry, misandrist Democratic candidate for
President. http://www.johnkerry.com/issues/women/


























[Bob does not advocate any illegal, seditious, or immoral acts. All
posts are for discussion, rhetorical, or humorous purposes only.]