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Old August 9th 06, 03:31 PM posted to alt.parenting.spanking
Amanda
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Default Would you spank in this situation?

Hello

I got a terrible infection, Im better now. Back to work and to Google.
How is everybody? How is La Vonne?

I have a question to those parents who consider spanking a good
disciplinary tool (though everyone can answer, of course). With this, I
just want a beter understanding of what such parents think. I oppose
spanking, but many parents believe in it

In the situations below, would you spank you daughter?

My 12 yo daughter was studying with one of her friends, the same age,
at her home. They ended up alone. There was a bottle of wine. The girls
got curious and ended up drinking some wine. I got to know because my
girl knew that was wrong, felt bad with herself, and decided to tell me
the truth. She apologized and was afraid I'd be disappointed and she'd
lose my trust. I forgave and told her I loved her honesty and still
trustef her. But since she did something wrong, she had to write an
essay on the dangers of drinking, specially underage. So, for a week,
she had to spend about one hour a day on her essay, after homework,
before hanging out with her friends. I wouldn't call this a punishment,
but a lesson, though, of course, writing essays on this is not
something a 12 yo girls likes. I think it was a good solution, a
corection without resentment.

Some parents told me she should have got a harsh spanking and say
she'll do it again. I don't think so.

What do you think?

My girl knew she wouldn't be spanked, though she knew she' might be
grounded. Would she have told me what happened if I was a spanking
mother? (I didn't ask her)

My girl asked me what I would do if I had got to know that by someone
else. I got embarrassed and said I'd sure wait for a while until she
herself told me.

Amanda

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Old August 9th 06, 03:44 PM posted to alt.parenting.spanking
Sharon Long
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Default Would you spank in this situation?


"Amanda" wrote in message
oups.com...
Hello

I got a terrible infection, Im better now. Back to work and to Google.
How is everybody? How is La Vonne?

I have a question to those parents who consider spanking a good
disciplinary tool (though everyone can answer, of course). With this, I
just want a beter understanding of what such parents think. I oppose
spanking, but many parents believe in it

In the situations below, would you spank you daughter?

My 12 yo daughter was studying with one of her friends, the same age,
at her home. They ended up alone. There was a bottle of wine. The girls
got curious and ended up drinking some wine. I got to know because my
girl knew that was wrong, felt bad with herself, and decided to tell me
the truth. She apologized and was afraid I'd be disappointed and she'd
lose my trust. I forgave and told her I loved her honesty and still
trustef her. But since she did something wrong, she had to write an
essay on the dangers of drinking, specially underage. So, for a week,
she had to spend about one hour a day on her essay, after homework,
before hanging out with her friends. I wouldn't call this a punishment,
but a lesson, though, of course, writing essays on this is not
something a 12 yo girls likes. I think it was a good solution, a
corection without resentment.

Some parents told me she should have got a harsh spanking and say
she'll do it again. I don't think so.


Hi Amanda -

Never heard that term 'harsh spanking' before - so I googled it and -

oh well -


What do you think?


I think talk of 'harsh spankings' for 12yo's migt go better on
alt.sex.pickone


My girl knew she wouldn't be spanked, though she knew she' might be
grounded. Would she have told me what happened if I was a spanking
mother? (I didn't ask her)

My girl asked me what I would do if I had got to know that by someone
else. I got embarrassed and said I'd sure wait for a while until she
herself told me.

Amanda



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Old August 9th 06, 05:34 PM posted to alt.parenting.spanking
Sharon Long
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"Amanda" wrote in message
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You didn't get the point. Spanking is a disciplinary tool many parents
use. Harsh spanking is just a spanking that causes much pain. This has
no sexual meaning.

I guess you didn't read my post. It's incredible you got it so wrong.


Amanda - most folk don't come hear to learn about raising kids - they come
for spanking stories or audios - like LaCrissies jerk off audio.

Harsh spanking is a term that is so rare outside of sexual spankers I
naturally assume you were playing to the lurker who likes to discuss
spanking young girls while he... well you know. In fact you'd be hard
pressed (no pun intended) to find it used any other way on google unless you
count Butch (Kane) lol


Amanda


Sharon Long wrote:
"Amanda" wrote in message
oups.com...
Hello

I got a terrible infection, Im better now. Back to work and to Google.
How is everybody? How is La Vonne?

I have a question to those parents who consider spanking a good
disciplinary tool (though everyone can answer, of course). With this, I
just want a beter understanding of what such parents think. I oppose
spanking, but many parents believe in it

In the situations below, would you spank you daughter?

My 12 yo daughter was studying with one of her friends, the same age,
at her home. They ended up alone. There was a bottle of wine. The girls
got curious and ended up drinking some wine. I got to know because my
girl knew that was wrong, felt bad with herself, and decided to tell me
the truth. She apologized and was afraid I'd be disappointed and she'd
lose my trust. I forgave and told her I loved her honesty and still
trustef her. But since she did something wrong, she had to write an
essay on the dangers of drinking, specially underage. So, for a week,
she had to spend about one hour a day on her essay, after homework,
before hanging out with her friends. I wouldn't call this a punishment,
but a lesson, though, of course, writing essays on this is not
something a 12 yo girls likes. I think it was a good solution, a
corection without resentment.

Some parents told me she should have got a harsh spanking and say
she'll do it again. I don't think so.


Hi Amanda -

Never heard that term 'harsh spanking' before - so I googled it and -

oh well -


What do you think?


I think talk of 'harsh spankings' for 12yo's migt go better on
alt.sex.pickone


My girl knew she wouldn't be spanked, though she knew she' might be
grounded. Would she have told me what happened if I was a spanking
mother? (I didn't ask her)

My girl asked me what I would do if I had got to know that by someone
else. I got embarrassed and said I'd sure wait for a while until she
herself told me.

Amanda




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Old August 9th 06, 07:10 PM posted to alt.parenting.spanking
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Default Would you spank in this situation?

Amanda wrote:
Hello

I got a terrible infection, Im better now. Back to work and to Google.
How is everybody? How is La Vonne?

I have a question to those parents who consider spanking a good
disciplinary tool (though everyone can answer, of course). With this, I
just want a beter understanding of what such parents think. I oppose
spanking, but many parents believe in it

In the situations below, would you spank you daughter?

My 12 yo daughter was studying with one of her friends, the same age,
at her home. They ended up alone. There was a bottle of wine. The girls
got curious and ended up drinking some wine. I got to know because my
girl knew that was wrong, felt bad with herself, and decided to tell me
the truth. She apologized and was afraid I'd be disappointed and she'd
lose my trust. I forgave and told her I loved her honesty and still
trustef her. But since she did something wrong, she had to write an
essay on the dangers of drinking, specially underage. So, for a week,
she had to spend about one hour a day on her essay, after homework,
before hanging out with her friends. I wouldn't call this a punishment,
but a lesson, though, of course, writing essays on this is not
something a 12 yo girls likes. I think it was a good solution, a
corection without resentment.

Some parents told me she should have got a harsh spanking and say
she'll do it again. I don't think so.

What do you think?

My girl knew she wouldn't be spanked, though she knew she' might be
grounded. Would she have told me what happened if I was a spanking
mother? (I didn't ask her)

My girl asked me what I would do if I had got to know that by someone
else. I got embarrassed and said I'd sure wait for a while until she
herself told me.

Amanda


Didn't you post this not long back, and didn't we already have a discussion?

Kane



--
"Democracy is two wolves and a lamb voting on what
to have for lunch. Liberty is a well armed lamb
contesting the vote." - Benjamin Franklin (or someone else)
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Old August 9th 06, 07:42 PM posted to alt.parenting.spanking
Amanda
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Yes, but we didnt discuss this. I just made a comment
Amanda

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Amanda wrote:
Hello

I got a terrible infection, Im better now. Back to work and to Google.
How is everybody? How is La Vonne?

I have a question to those parents who consider spanking a good
disciplinary tool (though everyone can answer, of course). With this, I
just want a beter understanding of what such parents think. I oppose
spanking, but many parents believe in it

In the situations below, would you spank you daughter?

My 12 yo daughter was studying with one of her friends, the same age,
at her home. They ended up alone. There was a bottle of wine. The girls
got curious and ended up drinking some wine. I got to know because my
girl knew that was wrong, felt bad with herself, and decided to tell me
the truth. She apologized and was afraid I'd be disappointed and she'd
lose my trust. I forgave and told her I loved her honesty and still
trustef her. But since she did something wrong, she had to write an
essay on the dangers of drinking, specially underage. So, for a week,
she had to spend about one hour a day on her essay, after homework,
before hanging out with her friends. I wouldn't call this a punishment,
but a lesson, though, of course, writing essays on this is not
something a 12 yo girls likes. I think it was a good solution, a
corection without resentment.

Some parents told me she should have got a harsh spanking and say
she'll do it again. I don't think so.

What do you think?

My girl knew she wouldn't be spanked, though she knew she' might be
grounded. Would she have told me what happened if I was a spanking
mother? (I didn't ask her)

My girl asked me what I would do if I had got to know that by someone
else. I got embarrassed and said I'd sure wait for a while until she
herself told me.

Amanda


Didn't you post this not long back, and didn't we already have a discussion?

Kane



--
"Democracy is two wolves and a lamb voting on what
to have for lunch. Liberty is a well armed lamb
contesting the vote." - Benjamin Franklin (or someone else)


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Old August 23rd 06, 03:15 PM posted to alt.parenting.spanking
Angel Mom
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Default Would you spank in this situation?

If I had told my daughter not to drink wine or alcohol, yes, I would
have spanked her. But I think this was a trivial offense, unless
previously discussed and forbidden. I let my two daughters taste and
even drink wine at dinner beginning when they were twelve. One is now
32, the other 19. Neither has ever been drunk and don't respect people
who are. There is no charisma attached to people who drink, nor to
those on drugs as well.

Amanda wrote:
Hello

I got a terrible infection, Im better now. Back to work and to Google.
How is everybody? How is La Vonne?

I have a question to those parents who consider spanking a good
disciplinary tool (though everyone can answer, of course). With this, I
just want a beter understanding of what such parents think. I oppose
spanking, but many parents believe in it

In the situations below, would you spank you daughter?

My 12 yo daughter was studying with one of her friends, the same age,
at her home. They ended up alone. There was a bottle of wine. The girls
got curious and ended up drinking some wine. I got to know because my
girl knew that was wrong, felt bad with herself, and decided to tell me
the truth. She apologized and was afraid I'd be disappointed and she'd
lose my trust. I forgave and told her I loved her honesty and still
trustef her. But since she did something wrong, she had to write an
essay on the dangers of drinking, specially underage. So, for a week,
she had to spend about one hour a day on her essay, after homework,
before hanging out with her friends. I wouldn't call this a punishment,
but a lesson, though, of course, writing essays on this is not
something a 12 yo girls likes. I think it was a good solution, a
corection without resentment.

Some parents told me she should have got a harsh spanking and say
she'll do it again. I don't think so.

What do you think?

My girl knew she wouldn't be spanked, though she knew she' might be
grounded. Would she have told me what happened if I was a spanking
mother? (I didn't ask her)

My girl asked me what I would do if I had got to know that by someone
else. I got embarrassed and said I'd sure wait for a while until she
herself told me.

Amanda


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Old August 23rd 06, 10:49 PM posted to alt.parenting.spanking,alt.support.child-protective-services
Greegor
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Now'days serving liquor to a minor is
A CRIMINAL OFFENSE throughout the USA
and no exception is made for this old teaching technique.

Angel Mom wrote:
I let my two daughters taste and even drink wine at dinner
beginning when they were twelve. One is now 32, the other 19.
Neither has ever been drunk and don't respect people
who are. There is no charisma attached to people who drink,
nor to those on drugs as well.


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Old August 23rd 06, 10:54 PM posted to alt.parenting.spanking,alt.support.child-protective-services
Greegor
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She should get together with Jenny huckstering the spanking machine!

Sharon Long wrote:
Amanda - most folk don't come hear to learn about raising kids - they come
for spanking stories or audios - like LaCrissies jerk off audio.

Harsh spanking is a term that is so rare outside of sexual spankers I
naturally assume you were playing to the lurker who likes to discuss
spanking young girls while he... well you know. In fact you'd be hard
pressed (no pun intended) to find it used any other way on google unless you
count Butch (Kane) lol


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Old August 24th 06, 01:14 AM posted to alt.parenting.spanking,alt.support.child-protective-services
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Greegor wrote:
Now'days serving liquor to a minor is
A CRIMINAL OFFENSE throughout the USA
and no exception is made for this old teaching technique.


"Old teaching technique?"

I'll just bet you are a proponent of this technique as the French use it
to teach their children to handle drinking responsibly, right?

Just for fun check out the alcoholism rates for France sometime, dummy.

0:-



Angel Mom wrote:
I let my two daughters taste and even drink wine at dinner
beginning when they were twelve. One is now 32, the other 19.
Neither has ever been drunk and don't respect people
who are. There is no charisma attached to people who drink,
nor to those on drugs as well.




--
"Democracy is two wolves and a lamb voting on what
to have for lunch. Liberty is a well armed lamb
contesting the vote." - Benjamin Franklin (or someone else)
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Old August 24th 06, 05:23 AM posted to alt.parenting.spanking,alt.support.child-protective-services
dragonsgirl
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The question was 'Would you spank in this situation?'
My answer:
Most assuredly.
This mom needs a good spanking to teach her how to act.


"Greegor" wrote in message
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Now'days serving liquor to a minor is
A CRIMINAL OFFENSE throughout the USA
and no exception is made for this old teaching technique.

Angel Mom wrote:
I let my two daughters taste and even drink wine at dinner
beginning when they were twelve. One is now 32, the other 19.
Neither has ever been drunk and don't respect people
who are. There is no charisma attached to people who drink,
nor to those on drugs as well.




 




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