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BE A MAN!: Fatherless/Single-Parent Homes/Children
BE A MAN!: Fatherless/Single-Parent Homes/Children
Being a father DOES NOT prove that you are a man, but being a bad father DOES prove that you are NOT a man. If you have a child and that child does not have you as a father in the house, then you are NO MAN. Fatherless or otherwise single-parent homes are a scourge upon the lives of children: Fatherless Homes Breed Violence - http://www.fathermag.com/news/1780-stats.shtml '(Because only a portion of each age group grew up in a fatherless home,) these statistics translate to mean that children from fatherless homes a 5 times more likely to commit suicide; 32 times more likely to run away; 20 times more likely to have behavioral disorders; 14 times more likely to commit rape; 9 times more likely to drop out of high school; 10 times more likely to abuse chemical substances; 9 times more likely to end up in a state-operated institution; 20 times more likely to end up in prison.' Kids Need Both Parents - http://www.mindpub.com/art100.htm What are the most beautiful and precious and important creatures in the world today, and the most valuable resources? The answer to that question is, and must be: children. Then if this is true, how are these most beautiful and precious and important creatures, and most valuable resources, being treated by the world today, and how have they been treated throughout history? A serious examination of those questions from a study of the history of the human species will lead to the following conclusion: the guardians of children in the world today and throughout history, the parents and the leaders, have not been able to consistently provide the love and nurturing necessary to grow their children to responsible adulthood. From a study of the history of the human species, the answer must be that it is the parents and the leaders who are responsible, and it can only be the parents and the leaders who are responsible. And people who attempt to place the blame elsewhere in the matter, have apparently not been able to look close enough at the matter, for if they did, they could trace that blame to some sort of lacking on the part of the parents and the leaders, the final stage of blame being that the parents probably should not have had children in the first place, and that the leaders are not the type of people who should be leading anyone else around at all in the world today. The Human Carnage of Fatherlessness - http://www.dadi.org/carnage.htm Broken Homes, Broken Hearts - http://www.probe.org/docs/broken.html In India, parents dislocate their limbs and disfigure their children because they make better beggars that way. In China, parents murder their female children because the communist government restricts the number of children they can have and because of that, male children are more desirable and valuable. In the Philippines, children at the age of two years old are sent to mud farms to make bricks. In Africa, in some tribes, a man is not considered a man until he fathers a child, and thus, many men go to all lengths to prove their manhood, continually leaving children to be raised only by their mothers. And in the United States of America, baby boys have their genitals mutilated and disfigured by the choice of their parents at incredible rates, there are children who have money but who are brought up by parents who don't know how to give them love, and there are parents who have love but who don't have the economic ability to provide for their children. The divorce rate is over 50% and families break up on a regular basis for the most selfish and irresponsible reasons, leaving their children with only one parent when all children, no matter what they think or what they say, truly need the love and nurturing of both parents in order to grow into responsible adulthood. Even more astonishing, families are using fertility drugs at incredible rates these days, while at the same time, 33% of the parents of multiple births split up before their children reach the age of three! Fatherless Boys - http://www.probe.org/docs/c-fatherless.html Fatherless America-Confronting Our Most Urgent Social Problem - http://www.vix.com/men/books/comment...ankenhorn.html But then, what makes a child a child, and what makes an adult an adult? Nature appears to be saying that a "child" is a brother or sister in the species who simply cannot yet make children, and that an adult is a brother or sister who has gained the ability to make children. At whatever age the child gains the ability to make children, the child cannot be considered a child anymore, because the child has gained the ability to make other children. But then, what is the difference between an adult and a grown-up child? A grown-up child adult, by this logic, must be a child who has gained the ability to make children but who has not been provided with the information necessary to make responsible decisions regarding reproduction, and life. In that understanding, nature appears to be saying that by the time a child gains the ability to make children, it would have been wise for parents to have already provided children with the information necessary to allow children to make intelligent decisions regarding responsible participation in reproduction. That parents and leaders in the world today have apparently not succeeded in providing children with the information necessary to allow those children to make intelligent decisions regarding responsible participation in reproduction, is the conclusion that must follow in the logic. Fatherhood and Fatherlessness - http://www.vix.com/pub/men/nofather/nodad.html Consequences of Fatherlessness - http://www.fathers.com/research/consequences.html There was once a family in the world where in one generation there was a broken home leaving one child in a single parent family for most of his life. In the next generation, that child proceeded to marry and father three children, and then leave those three children and their mother for a woman who satisfied his sexual desires more than the mother of his children. In the next generation, one of those three children got married and was eventually divorced, another remained single and became a playboy much like his father, and another got married and had two children. An obvious pattern can be identified and described: children who come from broken homes have not had the experience of the love and nurturing that is necessary for parents to provide in order to make their own successful homes, and may be better off pursuing alternative lifestyles to parenthood. However, the number of children who promote the same pattern to which they were apparently victim in their own lives is always rising, and which in the end usually results in even more pain and suffering for more children. So then why is this true? Fatherlessness! Impact on Children, Families & Society - http://www.fathersforlife.org/ Children - http://www.universalway.org/children.html And if people really loved children, and if they really wanted children, and if they were positive that they could really love and nurture those children, then they could also try adopting children, since there are plenty of children already out there in the world today looking for good parents, and so many of them would like someone to help them in some way. Can you help them? Will you help them? Sexuality, Marriage, and Moral Values http://www.universalway.org/moralvalues.html Heterosexual Atrocity is not a Gay Right - http://www.plagal.org/op-ed/dubson3.html "Closer to home, go to any abortion clinic, and when you see a sixteen year old girl sashay out, go up and ask her what she thinks of homosexuals and homosexuality. 'O gross!' she'll probably bellow, the blood still warm on the insides of her thighs from her abortion. 'That's disgusting.'" So then, what are the accumulated crimes of the parents upon the children of the world throughout history? Baby murder as birth control? Desertion of families and children? Physical and sexual child abuse? Genital mutilation? Can there be any worse crimes? Being a father DOES NOT prove that you are a man, but being a bad father DOES prove that you are NOT a man. If you have a child and that child does not have you as a father in the house, then you are not a man, you are a child abusing Universal criminal. Protect the children, protect your life, protect your karma, protect your seed. It's the manly thing to do. Yankee |
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BE A MAN!: Fatherless/Single-Parent Homes/Children
I believe he is leading up to put the blame on the many different levels of
government that are ultimately responsible for creating child support and custody laws that deny rights of fathers and children the right to having both parents equally in their lives. Meanwhile exposing that these laws create the financial incentive for moms to keep fathers out of childrens lives, that lifestyle awards cause great harm to the non-custodial parents ability to support himself and children, while the scumbag politicians, multiple levels of the corrupt government and a mafia like industry for their own gain profit politically and financially off the backs of fathers, children and the destruction of the family. Perhaps he will list the many suicides resulted from this sick twisted perverted system we have along with the many stories of fathers that were forced to go underground and leave the childrens lives due to outrageous lifestyle child support laws that made it impossible to live and stay out of debtors prison. Maybe a few stories about how the ones that went to debtors prison through no fault of their own died, were beaten, raped or contracted some horrible disease while serving in debtors prison. His next response hopefully will be followed by something to the effect about an effort to dismantle the child support, custody laws and system we have now. In effect enforcing a bill of rights for parents which states that joint physical custody is automatic and that no level of our government will interfere in the lives of American families. "J.D. Hoeye" wrote in message ... On Sun, 03 Aug 2003 10:39:01 GMT, "Yankee" wrote: snip If you have a child and that child does not have you as a father in the house, then you are NO MAN. and if the law without cause prevents you from being there because the wife (usually x) has driven you out - in other words, not willfully absent ? what then? (will the answer expose a troll?) JD If the Facts Fail to Support Your Position, Manipulate the Data. |
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BE A MAN!: Fatherless/Single-Parent Homes/Children
On Sun, 3 Aug 2003 20:25:30 -0400, "Dave" dave@freedoms-door wrote:
hope you're right; it'd be a nice change. I believe he is leading up to put the blame on the many different levels= of government that are ultimately responsible for creating child support = and custody laws that deny rights of fathers and children the right to = having both parents equally in their lives. Meanwhile exposing that these laws create the financial incentive for = moms to keep fathers out of childrens lives, that lifestyle awards cause = great harm to the non-custodial parents ability to support himself and = children, while the scumbag politicians, multiple levels of the corrupt government= and a mafia like industry for their own gain profit politically and = financially off the backs of fathers, children and the destruction of the family. Perhaps he will list the many suicides resulted from this sick twisted perverted system we have along with the many stories of fathers that = were forced to go underground and leave the childrens lives due to outrageous lifestyle child support laws that made it impossible to live and stay = out of debtors prison. Maybe a few stories about how the ones that went to = debtors prison through no fault of their own died, were beaten, raped or = contracted some horrible disease while serving in debtors prison. His next response hopefully will be followed by something to the effect about an effort to dismantle the child support, custody laws and system = we have now. In effect enforcing a bill of rights for parents which states that joint physical custody is automatic and that no level of our = government will interfere in the lives of American families. "J.D. Hoeye" wrote in message .. . On Sun, 03 Aug 2003 10:39:01 GMT, "Yankee" wrote: snip If you have a child and that child does not have you as a father in the house, then you are NO MAN. and if the law without cause prevents you from being there because the wife (usually x) has driven you out - in other words, not willfully absent ? what then? (will the answer expose a troll?) JD If the Facts Fail to Support Your Position, Manipulate the Data. JD If the Facts Fail to Support Your Position,=20 Manipulate the Data. |
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