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One good thing about ex
"Soprano" wrote in message ... DB wrote: "Soprano" wrote in The government is not the solution to the problem, they are the problem! This is not true. Think about this for a moment, your husband still does drugs and there is a law against that right? All the government is going to do for you is create some new laws that concern his ability to pay extortionate support payments that is sure to land your husband in prison. Is that in the best interest of your daughter? I divorced him. Oh. Well, in that case, creating ruinous amounts of child support that drive him to the breaking point and send him spiraling back to drugs and alcohol and ending him up in jail won't effect your daughter at all, right? Think it through. |
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teachrmama wrote:
"Soprano" wrote in message ... DB wrote: "Soprano" wrote in The government is not the solution to the problem, they are the problem! This is not true. Think about this for a moment, your husband still does drugs and there is a law against that right? All the government is going to do for you is create some new laws that concern his ability to pay extortionate support payments that is sure to land your husband in prison. Is that in the best interest of your daughter? I divorced him. Oh. Well, in that case, creating ruinous amounts of child support that drive him to the breaking point and send him spiraling back to drugs and alcohol and ending him up in jail won't effect your daughter at all, right? Think it through. I didn't cause it, I can't cure it, I can't control it. I am sorry, this is done. |
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"Soprano" wrote in message ... teachrmama wrote: "Soprano" wrote in message ... DB wrote: "Soprano" wrote in The government is not the solution to the problem, they are the problem! This is not true. Think about this for a moment, your husband still does drugs and there is a law against that right? All the government is going to do for you is create some new laws that concern his ability to pay extortionate support payments that is sure to land your husband in prison. Is that in the best interest of your daughter? I divorced him. Oh. Well, in that case, creating ruinous amounts of child support that drive him to the breaking point and send him spiraling back to drugs and alcohol and ending him up in jail won't effect your daughter at all, right? Think it through. I didn't cause it, I can't cure it, I can't control it. I am sorry, this is done. Look, I don't care if you file for child support. You came here asking for our advice, based on our experiences, and immediately disagreed with all the advice you were given. Getting the whole story from you took a while. But if you and your ex want to go the government route, go right ahead. It is nobody's choice but yours. However, if you think that HE no longer has any place int "the best interest of your daughter" because you "divorced him" you are sadly mistaken. What I have picked up from you is that he would like to get back together with you and is doing all sorts of things to show you that he wants that, including filing his own CS papers and ironing yourclothes for you. Surely you are not USING the man, with full intentions of throwing him away when you don't need him any more!! His alcoholism/drug addiction is not your fault or responsibility, but if you are using him, then you are behaving badly!! |
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"teachrmama" wrote in But if you and your ex want to go the government route, go right ahead. I doubt her Ex has been advised of all the traps of the CS system that are awaiting him! 100 to 1 he has to drop out of their lives to hide from authorities. |
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"Soprano" wrote in message ... DB wrote: "Soprano" wrote in Well I want to start wearing the finer fabrics in my closet on a daily basis. I have been wearing cotton because I don't have to iron it. Time to upgrade to choir clothes on a daily basis. My My, that is really such a dilemma you have, if only the rest of us could have such problems. Maybe I'll go to the closet and select which outfit I should be deported in ot more import figure out which other country I can survive in. Don't you worry yourself though, I'm sure your worthless ex husband will be over to take care of all the ironing. LOL Pathetic! He's not worthless. He is of great worth. $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ ! |
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One good thing about ex
"Soprano" wrote in message ... teachrmama wrote: "Soprano" wrote in message ... DB wrote: "Soprano" wrote in The government is not the solution to the problem, they are the problem! This is not true. Think about this for a moment, your husband still does drugs and there is a law against that right? All the government is going to do for you is create some new laws that concern his ability to pay extortionate support payments that is sure to land your husband in prison. Is that in the best interest of your daughter? I divorced him. Oh. Well, in that case, creating ruinous amounts of child support that drive him to the breaking point and send him spiraling back to drugs and alcohol and ending him up in jail won't effect your daughter at all, right? Think it through. I didn't cause it, I can't cure it, I can't control it. I am sorry, this is done. What a crock! |
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One good thing about ex
On Jul 26, 2:52 pm, Soprano wrote:
He will mop my floors and iron my clothes if I ask him too. I have not been ironing my clothes because I have not been caring so I have not been wearing my finer clothes. I decided its time to start dressing up every day. I have a whole closet full of stylish clothes and I can dress for church every day. We dress for the glory of God. My friend told me I am a good dresser. Well I want to start wearing the finer fabrics in my closet on a daily basis. I have been wearing cotton because I don't have to iron it. Time to upgrade to choir clothes on a daily basis. Atlanta, do these nice people realize you are under investigation by Marin County Child Protective Services? Are they aware that you are severely mentally ill, with an extensive history of drugs and alcohol abuse? That you've openly admitted to abusing your daughter? That you physically attacked your younger, blind brother? That you post an average of once every 3 1/2 minutes? Have you invited them to alt.recovery.adultchildren to see what you're REALLY all about? |
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wrote in message oups.com... On Jul 26, 2:52 pm, Soprano wrote: He will mop my floors and iron my clothes if I ask him too. I have not been ironing my clothes because I have not been caring so I have not been wearing my finer clothes. I decided its time to start dressing up every day. I have a whole closet full of stylish clothes and I can dress for church every day. We dress for the glory of God. My friend told me I am a good dresser. Well I want to start wearing the finer fabrics in my closet on a daily basis. I have been wearing cotton because I don't have to iron it. Time to upgrade to choir clothes on a daily basis. Atlanta, do these nice people realize you are under investigation by Marin County Child Protective Services? Are they aware that you are severely mentally ill, with an extensive history of drugs and alcohol abuse? That you've openly admitted to abusing your daughter? That you physically attacked your younger, blind brother? That you post an average of once every 3 1/2 minutes? Have you invited them to alt.recovery.adultchildren to see what you're REALLY all about? You can tell just by reading her posts she Isn't all there In her head.... |
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On Jul 31, 5:18 pm, "Shadow36" wrote:
wrote in message oups.com... On Jul 26, 2:52 pm, Soprano wrote: He will mop my floors and iron my clothes if I ask him too. I have not been ironing my clothes because I have not been caring so I have not been wearing my finer clothes. I decided its time to start dressing up every day. I have a whole closet full of stylish clothes and I can dress for church every day. We dress for the glory of God. My friend told me I am a good dresser. Well I want to start wearing the finer fabrics in my closet on a daily basis. I have been wearing cotton because I don't have to iron it. Time to upgrade to choir clothes on a daily basis. Atlanta, do these nice people realize you are under investigation by Marin County Child Protective Services? Are they aware that you are severely mentally ill, with an extensive history of drugs and alcohol abuse? That you've openly admitted to abusing your daughter? That you physically attacked your younger, blind brother? That you post an average of once every 3 1/2 minutes? Have you invited them to alt.recovery.adultchildren to see what you're REALLY all about? You can tell just by reading her posts she Isn't all there In her head.... I apologize, we tried our best to keep her contained in ARAC, but she slipped out. I've a feeling she wont be posting much longer, she's been reported to CPS by about a half dozen people by now. She'll be getting the help she needs, and deserves... |
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