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The heck of it is, if my dad's family is any indication, this woman honestly doesn't KNOW that she's bullying the kids -- she thinks this is appropriate behavior! That is exactly what I think. She seemed totally suprised when I reacted like I did, shocked almost. With someone like that, all you can do is either keep the kids away from them completely (not always practical) or just stay within arms reach and make sure your kids know you will protect them. And that is what we plan on doing. I can't keep her from the kids but I won't let them go over to their home unsupervised, etc. |
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I don't think you overreacted, especially the way she was holding Xander. OMG. I would **freak** **out** if I saw anyone holding Jaden that way. That woman is a menace and I would never, ever leave my kids alone with her if I were you. I don't know how to smooth things over but since it is your IL's I think it would be best for your DH to handle communications at this point, as long as he is clearly on your side as to what is acceptable treatment of your kids. Good luck. I'm sorry you have to deal with this. -- Thanks Cheryl, it's good to know that everyone is agreeing with me on this!! Kari |
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Did I overreact because I dont feel like I did.
I wish I had a solution for you, but NO, you did not overreact. Her behavior was WAY out of line, and I cannot imagine anyone taking her side in this. I'm sorry it's caused a rift. |
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On Thu, 20 May 2004 05:18:27 GMT, "toypup"
wrote: "H Schinske" wrote in message ... Dorothy ) wrote: Unless the baby doesn't like it, this is actually good for them. It's not only fun, but it promotes spatial awareness and body control. Most babies seem to love it. What?? I thought tossing babies in the air was now frowned upon due to shaken baby syndrome. That's what I've heard. I wonder if there have been actual cases of it from playful tossing, though. I would think this would depend on the age of the baby and the way they were being tossed. This is not shaking, but a gentle and fun way of roughhousing. If it's frowned upon by the *experts* I don't think they are correct. -- Dorothy There is no sound, no cry in all the world that can be heard unless someone listens .. The Outer Limits |
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On 20 May 2004 06:23:56 GMT, (H Schinske) wrote:
http://www.chsd.org/1405.cfm (the children's hospital in San Diego) says the same. "Do not throw a child in the air for fun, or let anyone else do it. The child may laugh and seem to enjoy it, but it is a very dangerous game." Like anything else, this kind of thing can be overdone and if we are speaking of a child who is too young to control his or her head, I would certainly agree, but babies past that age (if they are giggling and smiling) don't seem to have problems later in life that I know of. At least I never knew anyone who had lasting health problems from this activity. Unless someone drops them (which *is* possible), I don't know what problems these people are seeing from it. I would love to see the studies that show what these problems are. Once again, we seem to want to wrap our children in bubble wrap and not allow them to take *any* risks at all. -- Dorothy There is no sound, no cry in all the world that can be heard unless someone listens .. The Outer Limits |
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DH and I both agree that you did NOT overreact!
I wouldn't give a toss about her feelings. I would be more concerned about your children, particularly Noah. Have you talked to him about these incidents? He needs to know that you will protect him from her! -- Chookie -- Sydney, Australia (Replace "foulspambegone" with "optushome" to reply) "Life is like a cigarette -- smoke it to the butt." -- Harvie Krumpet |
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